Do You Answer Instantly Or Take Some Time Before Answering A Question?

@AKRao24 (27422)
India
April 4, 2018 1:15pm CST
There are many people in my life from who taught me something worth which I practice today! One of such people was my professor of surgery who would take few seconds before answering any question posed to him! And during this time I could read his face that he is seriously thinking about the matter seriously before answering! His answers used to be always impressive! I learnt this habit and today I practice in my life! How about you do you answer instantly to any question posed at you or think for few seconds before answering dear friend? Your response will be highly appreciated! Thanks!
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
1 Jul 18
For some questions I am very clear in my mind and the answer comes instantly. But for some I might pause a little to think about the right answer. Also it greatly depends on the situation and the person to whom you have to answer. I might take a little time to articulate my answer to best suit the person and the situation.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
1 Jul 18
I appreciate your approach dear friend! That looks a ideal thing to do! Thanks!
@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
1 Jul 18
@arunima25 , That is natural for every body! With time we all learn dear friend!
@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
1 Jul 18
@AKRao24 But there are times when our own mood or mind might not be in a good shape and we mess up with wrong articulation. It has happened a few times for me. I am trying to learn from those mistakes.
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@id_peace (17036)
• Singapore
23 Apr 18
Most of the time I will answer instantly unless there are some answers that I need to be careful in answering
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
23 Apr 18
That is nice to know @id_peace , that is a good practice to be careful before answering as wrong answers can create misunderstandings sometimes! Thanks!
@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
23 Apr 18
@id_peace , That is some thing very interesting point to think! I liked it ! Thanks a lot!
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@id_peace (17036)
• Singapore
23 Apr 18
Generally I am not afraid to cause misunderstanding. I am more afraid of assumption that we are having the common understanding when we are not
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
4 Apr 18
It depends on the question.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
4 Apr 18
Yes, I agree with you, for objective type of questions if we take time then people will never come back to talk! But in case of subjective issues we can take few seconds to think before answering ...What do you say dear @marguicha? Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
4 Apr 18
@marguicha , Yes i appreciate that dear friend! and that should be the attitude too! Thanks! Stay blessed!
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
4 Apr 18
@AKRao24 There are questions that require adequate answers because they are important for the people who ask them. Then I take my time.
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@mohit459 (12564)
• Haldwani, India
5 Apr 18
Instantly
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
5 Apr 18
Thanks , Nice to know! Have a great time!
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@mohit459 (12564)
• Haldwani, India
5 Apr 18
@AKRao24 you too enjoy your day
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@porwest (112717)
• United States
17 Apr 18
I do prefer to think before I respond to anything. Unless I immediately know the answer and am confident it is the correct answer of course.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
17 Apr 18
I am happy to know that....and in fact I have experienced that too! Thanks a lot ! Have a great time !
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
4 Apr 18
This varies on the type of question being asked. But if the question is serious enough, then of course I need to think about my answer would be.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
4 Apr 18
I agree with views completely...for any serious question I think one should take some seconds to think before answering some serious questions! Thanks @mlgen1037!
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
5 Apr 18
@AKRao24 that is right, my friend. We wouldnt want to give wrong answers, dont we?
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
5 Apr 18
@mlgen1037 , It is always better to accept that we don't know the answer instead og giving wrong answers! I appreciate that! Thanks!
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
5 Apr 18
I had the habit of reacting quick and I faced much complications later. So I realized that was not the right method, now I have much patience to keep silence or cold my tongue. I understood and realized it helps a lot to keep the peace in mind. However, still I am quick to react to my children when I am angry. Since they are my children they can understand me and no complications. I know your topic is about answering questions - If I know the answer and I am 100 % confident then I will tell it instantly, if there is even a .1% doubt, I will take my own time to answer. If I don't know it then also I quickly tell I have no idea.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
5 Apr 18
That is the most sensible thing to do dear @Sreekala and I sincerely appreciate it! Thanks a lot for sharing, it may help many of us here! Stay blessed!
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@maezee (41985)
• United States
4 Apr 18
For me it depends on the question. Its always easier to take your time when you are online or doing something in writig. Face to face it always feels like you are put on the spot more.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
5 Apr 18
That is very true, while writing and while on line we have ample of time at our disposal, while on face to face conversation we have few seconds to think and respond back! Thanks a lot @maezee !
@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr 18
I often take a few seconds to answer a question but, unlike your professor, my answers aren't always impressive.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
5 Apr 18
In fact that is the best way of answering I feel ! You are modest to say that your answers are not impressive! Thanks @JudyEv !
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@Icydoll (36713)
• India
4 Apr 18
To me it always depends on the question my dear friend :)
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
4 Apr 18
Yes, i understand that, but I have seen some people they take any time to answer any question to repent on about their answer later on!! Thanks alot dear friend @Icydoll ! Have a great time!
@Courage7 (19626)
• United States
5 Apr 18
It very much depends on what the topic is.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
5 Apr 18
Serious topics and topics requiring logical thinking requires some time before answering! Thanks dear friend @Courage7!
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@august18 (3906)
• Tunisia
4 Apr 18
I answer instantly all the times. And the answer is usually 'could you please repeat your question'
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
4 Apr 18
Wow that is the greatest way of taking your own time dear @august18 ! I appreciate your thinking and approach ! Have a great time!
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