Feeling defeated...
By UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31962)
Wausau, Wisconsin
April 13, 2018 1:22pm CST
I am officially feeling defeated now. I woke up to my husband not being able to find a certain set of keys and yelling at me about it for no reason. He even told me I should get a job and also called me a few names. After he left for work since he couldn't find the keys on time, he called me a little bit later but didn't apologize. I cried pretty good after he left for work. I finally broke and he was the one to pretty much break me so now I feel defeated. I have hit my depression state for sure because I have been crying on and off today. Husband since I miscarried has not been any sincere to me in any way, not even a hug. I am now just focusing on my son and going to keep trying for another child. Hopefully I will be okay soon. I know I will but in due time. TTYL! 
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17 responses
@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
13 Apr 18
I know you want another kid, but please, do not try again right away.
You need to take this time to heal over your loss, to not be in a depressed state. Plus you and your husband should be 100% good before you try. Which you just said you aren't.
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@RISHAVBASAK (242)
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13 Apr 18
I think he has a lot of pressure!!
he has to handle so many things!!
but still, he must not yell!!
you take care of your son!!
they are our future!!
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@look4rekha (47)
• India
13 Apr 18
You will feel better soon. Dont feel defeated. Be courageous.
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@just4him (307894)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Apr 18
You're going through a tough time right now. Both of you are hurting with your loss. Give yourself time. When I lost my first one, the doctor told me to wait a year. I didn't and lost another before I got pregnant with my younger son.
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
13 Apr 18
thanks friend. mylot helps a lot because i can talk to people here about anything without getting offended
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
13 Apr 18
I can understand yourv feelings and your hubby's behavior too! Don't be stressed and over rfeact because of the hormones that are presently circulating in the body! Just keep quite and be patient to see that your hubby will come to you to apology! Thanks @carebear29 !
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
15 Apr 18
@carebear29 , I am happy to know that! God bless! Everything will be fine! Just have faith on him and trust him! Thanks!
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
14 Apr 18
Sorry to hear that! 
Sounds like he is taking his frustrations out on you. I hope he comes to his senses.
Sounds like he is taking his frustrations out on you. I hope he comes to his senses.2 people like this
@Tina30219 (81549)
• Onaway, Michigan
13 Apr 18
I hope he apologizes to you That was not right for him to yell at you. Just concern you and your son I am sure. In time he will come around.
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@Tina30219 (81549)
• Onaway, Michigan
15 Apr 18
@carebear29 So sorry to hear that
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
13 Apr 18
I went to the dollar store and bought a little bowl to put on our table by the front door. That is where my husband needs to put his keys and then if he can't find them, he has himself to blame because I got tired of that too. I am sorry he is not sympathetic, when I lost our baby mine was the same. The doc said they can't distribute their feelings like we can and that they weren't carrying it so don't have the same connection. Its all just sad to me, I hope you feel better soon
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
15 Apr 18
i told him to keep them where he can find them
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@thislittlepennyearns (58366)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
4 May 18
He may of worded it in an unkind way but there is no reason that you shouldn't have a job. You are capable of working especially if your son is in school.
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
15 Apr 18
i am doing me and mothering my son
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