“What works for you may not work for me...”

@Shavkat (137220)
Philippines
April 30, 2018 5:28am CST
Some people cannot get this message. I had some close friends who tend to be persuasive with their opinions about something. Personally speaking, it is better to give such opinions and let someone does his or her final judgment and decision. If they cannot persuade you, then the evil side of them come out and tried to pull you down. “Did you ever experience being nibbled?” “Are there any friends who tried to be all-knowing?” Image Credit: innerself.com
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Apr 18
Hahahahaha. Shavkat, I know people who are like that. Those people who think they are always right and will impose their views and opinions and others. You are not alone.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 May 18
I am quite frank with these people. They need to stop. If not, they can have the biggest regret of their lives. It was not a threat. It is just simply being me.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
2 May 18
@Shavkat Sometimes it is good to give people a dose of their own medicine "para magtanda". Hehehe But I like that you are frank but still knows how to stand your ground. Some people dont know their boundaries.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 May 18
@mlgen1037 I agree. Some people are so insensitive and in denial at times. That doesn't for me, either.
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@ConVolines (1449)
30 Apr 18
It's brainwashed people trying to pass their brainwashing on to you, yes?
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 May 18
I agree. Perhaps they cannot surpass their own personal issues and try to persuade others.
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2 May 18
@Shavkat Sheep trying to recruit more sheep.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 May 18
@ConVolines Exactly, my friend. But I don't go for such kind of persona.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
10 May 18
Maybe these people are always self-righteous. They always think their judgment is better than others.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
11 May 18
There is nothing wrong if they do. As long as it is not overrated.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
11 May 18
@Shavkat That's right.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
12 May 18
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
30 Apr 18
oh yes kabsat. the all-knowing kind or person i think i know somebody here. they try to inject to us about their own principles.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 May 18
@ridingbet Why I didn't think about this?
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 May 18
I know a few of them, Kabsat! If I can only drop names.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 May 18
@Shavkat kabsat, of what use is the private messaging here if we don't use it? hahaha
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@Hannihar (129534)
• Israel
10 May 18
@Shavkat My ex was so charming and people believed what he said until they realized what a liar he is.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
10 May 18
I do agree with you. Some people are a pathological liar. That's what my ex did.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
11 May 18
@Hannihar I think it is really hard. We just need to ignore it.
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@Hannihar (129534)
• Israel
10 May 18
@Shavkat It is hard.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
1 May 18
There are always friends like that and in most cases they get it wrong
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
1 May 18
I agree. There is no perfect world. We can still endure being with them sometimes.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
3 May 18
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
2 May 18
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
30 Apr 18
That's very true, survey sites work very well for me but most people I meet online say that they seldom qualify for them. So I have every reason to believe that what works for me may not work for others!
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
2 May 18
@Shavkat Actually I made that comment in light mood but the fact is that the world is full of so called knowledgeable people who think that the world be lost without them.... avoid them.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 May 18
I do agree on that. There are surveys that show that unison is not attainable for people to be. Thus, God created us with uniqueness.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 May 18
@suni51 You said it right. I have some friends who are like this. They are full of themselves. Most of them are all gone in my life.
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
30 Apr 18
Yes everyone is different and every road to ROME and there is no one way to achieving something
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
30 Apr 18
You have a point. It could be decided in a consensus way.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
12 May 18
I know some people like that but so far, my friends are not one of them. Thank God.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
12 May 18
You are blessed, my dear. I have a lot.lol All of them are long gone now.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
30 Apr 18
YES! there are many know it all`s.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 May 18
I will definitely agree with you on that.
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
30 Apr 18
My friends tell me ME!! But i dont mean to be that way. I just always feel the need to give advice when someone tells me a problem!! Sometimes there is a such thing as the right opinion!!
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
1 May 18
I think it is fine to give advice if he or she asking for. But then, we still need to understand if they didn't take it.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
3 May 18
@db20747 I think we can still excuse ourselves politely and go.
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@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
2 May 18
@Shavkat Yes that's true!! Next time I'll just have to say I wish I could talk but I have to go!
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@Keibah (231)
• Nigeria
30 Apr 18
This happens a lot. I have friends who have this idea that if it isn't their opinion, then it is not valid. I think that is a very shallow way of thinking. You can only try to make people understand and still have in mind that everyone is entitled to an opinion.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
30 Apr 18
As it was said by you, we need to validate the opinions of others. But still, we are the captain of our life in deciding on something.
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
30 Apr 18
There are many people like this Friend..I try to stay away from them.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 May 18
As like you, I do stay away from them. It drains my energy dealing with them.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
2 May 18
• Romania
30 Apr 18
Hey! Great post! I think people always relate to their own experience when they advice others, but problems can only be solved by objective and solid analysis in my opinion. Sometimes, all-knowing ones can cross the line and not in a productive way... And they don't always have the best intentions... They tend not to think about it, vut do as their instinct tells, and this is not the solution... Anyway, you are great and your posts are so nice! :)
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 May 18
Thank you for appreciating my post. I just want to make the message to come across. Some people forget the fact that they need to think before giving an advice.
@JudyEv (326127)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Apr 18
Sometimes people think they can solve your problems for you. I try not to give advice now. I might say what I think but then don't say any more. And that way I can't be held responsible if things go wrong.
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@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
2 May 18
You have the best point on this. I sometimes gauge people if they really need an advice or accept the advice. If it is determined, I don't bother.
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
10 May 18
There are those who just happen to think they have all the answers, and others who simply want everyone to be like them. I think it is right to suggest that what works for one does not always work for all.
@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
10 May 18
They are all around. If I give an opinion I am asked for and the person wants to argue, well...I'm not Socrates. I walk away. If you only want to argue, see ya later.