Unsolicited Advice how would you react on this. Would you welcome it or just ignore them.

@chavezrmc (6095)
Philippines
May 30, 2018 12:39am CST
There are times when people give us advice. Whether we like it or not they kept on giving it. Even though they know that can be annoying. Will you care? How will you react on this?
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@jstory07 (135106)
• Roseburg, Oregon
30 May 18
If it is good advise I take it. If it is bad advise I ignore it
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
30 May 18
@jstory07 thanks dear, yes its our choice if that can be of help.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 May 18
I would be polite and be civil I guess unless it has some relevance on my life.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
30 May 18
@mlgen1037 you are right, we just need to be civil and ignore if it cant be of any help.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
30 May 18
@mlgen1037 oh no problem Louise we can be busy at times.. Still trying to Mylot when i can. Addicted here. Good to be connected to you and the rest... huggssss....
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 May 18
@chavezrmc Indeed, my friend. How are you? Apologies, I was unable to say hi. But I hope you are fine over there.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
30 May 18
Advising is easy so any one can do it. But it the person, who listen it must decide what to do and what not. He/she must use her instinct for taking a decision. There is no point on believing some one blindly and take inappropriate decisions.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
30 May 18
@Sreekala right you are. We must know when to listen and when to follow too
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
30 May 18
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
30 May 18
@chavezrmc Yes, indeed.
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• Peoria, Arizona
30 May 18
I normally just say thanks for the help, but I will see what I can do first. Though I generally like advice.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
30 May 18
@DesirousDreamer That's a good one. Trying your best first before thinking of some options from others.
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
1 Jun 18
@DesirousDreamer That's the positive part of it, you have gained something.
• Peoria, Arizona
31 May 18
@chavezrmc It is like what teachers taught me in school, 1, 2, 3, try your way before you see me. Which...is not the most effective way of teaching and it made me scared to ever ask for help, but I guess that made me accept more challenges.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
31 May 18
I will let them give the advice but I decided which one to consider
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
5 Jun 18
@aureliah, mostly that's what we are doing. Getting the positive out of something. It might be of help. But sure we can do whatever we want to.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
11 Jun 18
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
30 May 18
I always listen to advice, I sometimes take it, follow it but sometimes not
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
30 May 18
@Jessabuma yes we can follow when we think they have their point.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
30 May 18
@chavezrmc yes I agree with you.. I only follow those good advices
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@mayka123 (16582)
• India
31 May 18
I just use my instinct and decide whether to heed to the advice or just ignore it.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
5 Jun 18
@myka123 Yes we can always have a choice what to do on this. As long as this won't harm us, i guess i won't mind as well.
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
30 May 18
As long as they are free, I don’t mind hearing them
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
30 May 18
@id_peace that can be a good attitude not to be affected by what you hear from others.
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
31 May 18
I ignore un non unsolicited advice.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
1 Jun 18
@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
30 May 18
If it's something I did not ask I simply do not care.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
30 May 18
@LadyLuck it will always be your choice. Afterall there will always be so many option
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
Just be positive. Sometimes it is better to think with more brains than being solo with all the plights. More ideas are better than none.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
@raski you are right. As long as they don't get into boundaries, then I think that would be fine. It is still our choice what to do in the end.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
31 May 18
That is why there is the 'unsolicited advice '. I can listen to it but I have my own choice to heed or not.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
31 May 18
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@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
30 May 18
if it is good, why not?
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
30 May 18
@magallon yes we can just listen
• India
30 May 18
I believe the best thing to do is just listen to them and do what we always wanted to do. Cheers..!!!
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
30 May 18
@SiddharthV you have your point. thanks for sharing your views.
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
30 May 18
can you give an example?
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
30 May 18
@hereandthere any event in our lives that people know and sometimes would interfer in a way of giving unsolicited advice.
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