I did almost nothing online yesterday
@GardenGerty (169505)
United States
June 9, 2018 7:41am CST
I hope you missed me. I was barely here. This is a long narrative post about my day.
At 7:30 I left for my sister's house. Arrived on time, we left for her appointment that was scheduled for 9:30. We were about two minutes late. Of course there was paperwork. With all of her talking and not being prepared she took an hour to do it all. It was only three pages, most of it was circling things.
When she was called back to be seen we again had her life story repeatedly. She is almost 74 so there is a lot she chooses to tell.
They took dental impressions, and also asked her some questions that could have been "yes, no" but in her case were not. Like " your uppers seem off center, do you want that fixed?" she said "it has been that way for twenty or more years, so no, leave it. It may be from my deviated septum from my ex beating me up for thirty years." I said it much shorter than she did.
"Your uppers and lowers meet, do you want us to fix that so they fit correctly?" she said "no, that is how they are supposed to fit." The dentist came in to talk about options, and eventually gave up. He talked to me briefly, and also showed me something on her upper gums that concerned him, because she kept talking, constantly and not listening to him.
They needed to keep her plates for the lab to set up and pour her new teeth, for a while. She would not go anywhere without them, but my blood sugar needed lunch. Eventually she got her old dentures, and we found a good place to eat. It was a nice lunch. Then the adventure began.
I had directions, I thought, to a garden center I wanted to visit. We got lost. The dental lab is in a part of Wichita that has streets that change names and curve this way and that and go back and forth across the river.
There was a festival happening in down town as well.
We drove around for an hour and a half. I got directions from a postal person, but must have missed something. My sister was talking while she tried to explain.
Later we saw a woman walking a dog by a veterinary. We stopped. She was from Iowa. She said her daughter lived in Wichita, and she was lost the day before and that the police found her. She called her daughter and handed the phone to me. While I tried to tell her daughter where we were, Iowa lady and my sister talked loudly and randomly. The daughter gave me directions I knew were wrong, because she was directing me to a street that was no where near. I told her "thank you" and gave the phone back.
I knew the place I needed to turn. I knew I had missed it a time or two because I could not get in the correct lane. It is hard to deal with heavy traffic and a talker telling me to go another way.
About the time I managed to make the correct turn, the dentist called to say the dentures were done.
I did not go back to try the teeth in the back room with my sister. Eventually she called me, mad and upset. The lowers did not fit right, and hurt, and they were cutting them down. She said the girl could not understand her. They gave her the correct overbite of upper over lower. She was angry. I calmed her down. Told the girl that she had asked for them the other way. It was not written the other way on the work order. By that time the lower plate was reshaped, fit right and did not hurt. She was assured she could come back if they started giving her trouble.
The lab did a nice job. The teeth look good. The top fits perfectly. My sister talks constantly about things that do not relate to what she needs to say about things. Consequently people ignore her and tune her out or they do not get to explain things to her. The way her teeth come together now is how they are supposed to be. I think she will like them.
It was almost 8:00 pm. when I got home last night.
I have responded to more than ten discussions this morning, before posting this. I hope to get stuff done today, and see more of you.
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12 responses
@BarBaraPrz (51837)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
9 Jun 18
Your sister sounds like the mother of my friend Juanita... talk talk talk talk talk!
I wasn't here much yesterday either, because I decided to update my software and ran into all kinds of roadblocks. I'm finally (I think) all up to date.
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@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
9 Jun 18
I am scared to do any updates. It usually kills my computer.
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@BarBaraPrz (51837)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
9 Jun 18
@GardenGerty Yeah, I'd put it off for a long time, afraid it would screw up things, which it did. I ended up leaving it and going out to do some gardening. It seems to be ok now.
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@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
9 Jun 18
@BarBaraPrz I need to pick a day and do the same, regardless.
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@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
9 Jun 18
Yes we missed you. Enjoy your day and happy weekend!
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@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
9 Jun 18
I am looking forward to being inside a while today.
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@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
9 Jun 18
@Jessabuma I am. I got to do some rearranging that is very much needed.
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@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
9 Jun 18
@GardenGerty yes, that's good idea. Enjoy your day!
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@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
9 Jun 18
Yes. That area of Wichita tends to confuse me. When I do know where to go, it is hard to get to the proper lane.
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@popciclecold (40214)
• United States
9 Jun 18
@GardenGerty I hope you don't have to go back none too soon.
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@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
10 Jun 18
@popciclecold I just will not make the same mistake again.
@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
9 Jun 18
Yes. NOw she has a friend who wants to go there, but is afraid to drive in that city. I may be taking a road trip with them both soon.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 18
@GardenGerty I'm glad she has a friend to go with her.
@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
28 Aug 18
@GardenGerty
Heather, thanks for sharing that with us. It sounds like you have a lot to deal with right now or is always like that. Your sister is lucky to have you. You like a very patient person. I am glad that now her plate fits her and doesn't hurt her now. So, how did it go with the woman getting to her daughter? Does she have alzheimers or just did not know the area?
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@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
28 Aug 18
The police assisted the woman. She does not know the area and is from a different state. Wichita is laid out in a strange way, as well.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
9 Jun 18
wow, that was a very long update, try to rest as for now.
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@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
9 Jun 18
I am moving furniture and cabinets, etc. today. It is restful as no one is talking.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 18
@GardenGerty you need someone to help you out, I will drop by your house then 

@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
9 Jun 18
Honestly her talking is more wearing on me than anything else. She shares stuff all over and over again that most people do not want to hear.
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@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
11 Jun 18
That is alright, we see each other when we are here.
@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
9 Jun 18
Gosh....I bet you were ready for some peace and quiet weren't you ? 

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@Marilynda1225 (91127)
• United States
9 Jun 18
Whew!!! What a day but glad you're home and your sister is happy with her new dentures
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@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
10 Jun 18
I hope she continues to be happy.She kind of gets wrong ideas sometimes.
@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
9 Jun 18
Today I will have myLotting much more.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
11 Jun 18
That sounds like a fun day, I know a man who likes to talk like that so I know what you go through. lol














