My Son Showed Up

@just4him (323168)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
July 27, 2018 4:06pm CST
He was early for work and visited for a bit. He said he was mad at his dad for taking the cinnamon rolls recipe to his grave. I told him I had his cookbook and found the recipe and he said it was the one. He also vowed he would steel that cookbook from me. Not a wise plan on his part. Maybe I'll just scan the recipe for him. The cookbook was originally his father's and the only thing I kept besides a large cake pan from our divorce. The other good thing about his visit is that he took the map I need him to transfer, so I can get it into the book. I'll get that back next week when I go to do laundry. Then I'll have everything ready for the book. The picture is the one I scanned, that he took. Have you ever thought you lost something you could never get back again? That only your parents or grandparents had, and you have no way of retrieving? Thanks for reading.
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@tammys85 (31394)
• Baltimore, Maryland
28 Jul 18
I'm glad he stopped by to see you, and that you had the recipe for him. As for your question, I'm not sure. My late Aunt found the ID bracelet my late Daddy bought for my Mom when they were dating though. It's not my experience, but I was glad she found it and gave it to her. :)
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@tammys85 (31394)
• Baltimore, Maryland
3 Aug 18
@just4him Thank you! Was that the only recipe he wanted from it?
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
That's good it was found and she has it again. Yes, he's happy to have it, though he did leave the book here.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Aug 18
@tammys85 That's the only one there was. There was another recipe, a pizza dough recipe, but it wasn't in that book.
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
28 Jul 18
I am glad that you found the recipe for your son. Is this the map you need to have in black and white? If your son has no time or cannot come out with a good map I can do this for you Valerie.
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
29 Jul 18
@just4him I am sure that when it's done it will look great. I think it's very well drawn.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jul 18
@LadyDuck Thank you. It will be even better when he's finished with it.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
Yes, this is the one. He's going to do it. Thanks for the offer. He's going to clean it up and make it look nice. This is a bit messy, and not very good, but then I'm not an artist by any stretch of the imagination. I'm confident when he's done with it, it will be very good.
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
27 Jul 18
that is interesting about the rolls.How many will think of this.
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
28 Jul 18
@just4him I guess he was.Have a good evening
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
Thank you. When he said he wanted them and regretted not having the recipe, he was surprised I had it.
@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
28 Jul 18
In my life moving from the states to Latvia and back to the states a lot of things have come and gone. I am looking forward to the boxes I will receive from Latvia. It will be like Christmas to see what exactly I have in there. I got too confused during the packing.
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@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
29 Jul 18
@just4him the boxes are coming by ship so should be here by sometime in September. It takes a full seven weeks.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jul 18
@RasmaSandra That's a long time. It will be like getting something brand new by the time they arrive.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
That will be a real treat. When will they arrive?
@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
28 Jul 18
Thankfully, no. Glad you had the recipe and can give him a copy of it.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jul 18
So, am I.
• Agra, India
28 Jul 18
I always fear losing my loved ones. I always miss the love and care they have given me
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
It is sad to lose those you love.
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• Agra, India
29 Jul 18
@just4him true..there is nothing more traumatic than this
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
28 Jul 18
There are things i wish i had. Like a picture of my real dad and pictures still of my grandparents. At least my husband has stuff from his Mom that just passed including recipes that we now cherish more than ever
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
I'm glad he has that. I'm sorry you don't.
@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
28 Jul 18
I fear losing family recipes. They are something I don't want to lose. I need to talk to my Mama about writing them down.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
I hope you have more success than I did. I continually asked her for recipes, but she never gave them. I asked my sister if she found any when she was going through the house when we were getting ready to sell and she found some, and the ones I wanted. I was very happy to have them.
@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
27 Jul 18
I have my mother's cookbooks and recipes but she rarely used a recipe so they are all in her head somewhere, we did get her to write down her crepe recipe and the baked beans.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
That's good you got her to write down a couple. I'm glad you have her cookbooks.
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• Philippines
28 Jul 18
At least he had a time to visit you, hope you two had a great time together.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
We did, thank you.
@garymarsh6 (23979)
• United Kingdom
28 Jul 18
Good old mum to the rescue yet again!
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
Yes, I was.
@Shiva49 (28366)
• Singapore
28 Jul 18
My mom is alive but my dad passed away over twenty years ago. I feel uneasy to go through his possessions. My brothers have done it. I cherish the values he lived by more - siva
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
When we divorced, he didn't say anything about wanting the cookbook or the pan, so I kept them. It was fortunate I did, because my son now has access to the recipe he used to make the cinnamon rolls.
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@NJChicaa (127116)
• United States
27 Jul 18
My great-aunt's pasta fagioli recipe. She wrote it down for me once but I showed it to my mother after she passed away and my mom said that it wasn't right. She said that she lied and gave me the wrong one. I don't know why she wouldn't just give up the correct recipe. It isn't like she could take it with her where she was going. I think I threw away what she had written down because I was so pissed.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
It's a shame you threw it out. It might have been a good recipe even if incorrect.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
27 Jul 18
Your ex husband liked cooking I gather.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
Not really, but there were a couple things he did well. Only a couple.
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@popciclecold (40215)
• United States
27 Jul 18
They must be mighty good cinnamon rolls. Have a great day.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
They were. My husband could really make good rolls.
@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
27 Jul 18
I am glad you and your son were able to help each other out.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
Thank you. It was good.
@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
27 Jul 18
If that book is so important for him, he might just wait I told that to my granddaughter SofĂ­a then I showed her my amethyst ring.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jul 18
He's going to be opening a restaurant in a few months, and wants to use that recipe.
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
27 Jul 18
Seems like you got the good things from the divorce.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jul 18
Only the cookbook and the pan. I didn't want anything else.