Do you ever get that feeling?
By Amber
@AmbiePam (85522)
United States
July 30, 2018 3:34pm CST
I like so many mylotters here. So many are wonderful people. There are just a few who get angry because they live to be angry at someone or some thing. However, those are few and far between.
Lately, I have gotten a feeling a mylotter I think is wonderful has changed their view of me. I can't think of anything I have done, and I could very well be conceited when I think their behavior towards me has changed. They might just being having a difficult time in life, overall.
Have you ever thought something similar to what I am thinking?
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23 responses
@rebelann (111190)
• El Paso, Texas
14 May 19
same here, I have only been blocked by one person but I don't really care because that person isn't that important to me.
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
31 Jul 18
Me three! I really enjoy a lot of people on here and often ponder at many things - how many awesome people there are scattered in the world - how many I wish I could hang out with in real life... Far and few in between I find some grumpy people on here, but....
Oh I feel your pain. I drive myself insane with that kind of pondering. In person friends and online friends.
Over time I have taught myself that - if I didn't do something intentionally mean - then it is their responsibility to take any issue up with me.
I can't control what people think of me, only how I react.
We don't know what's going on in some people's lives that changes how they act - it may have nothing to do with us.
Anyway, I hope that helps and that the person starts acting normal around you soon
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
31 Jul 18
No, don`t blame yourself for the attitudes of people online you don`t even know.
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@Shellyann36 (11385)
• United States
24 Aug 18
Everyone here seems to be nice to me. I had one person ages ago who blocked me here and I have no idea why. We always seemed to have a good relationship and the last time we responded back and forth on a thread it was in a positive light. I have no idea what went wrong and of course since I cannot send that person a message I will probably never know.
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@rebelann (111190)
• El Paso, Texas
14 May 19
If you remember the person maybe you could have one of us leave a message asking if they were aware they had blocked you.
@much2say (53958)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Aug 18
@compslick Yep - we don't get to see facial expressions or body language nor hear the tone of their words online.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
31 Jul 18
Yes. I have only encountered a couple people who were not nice people with a one track mind, its their way or no way, and I blocked one. Another blocked me when I did a US government statistic.
I try to treat every one as I want to be treated and I am only a know it all when I know it all about a subject but I am still open to learn more to know it all more
Don`t allow those people to steal your joy.
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@rebelann (111190)
• El Paso, Texas
14 May 19
Not bad really, we can't always get along with everyone no matter how much we want to.
@GardenGerty (157553)
• United States
31 Jul 18
I have, but not usually here. More in real life, at jobs.
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@rebelann (111190)
• El Paso, Texas
14 May 19
I don't think anyone gets along with everyone they meet but we can hope.
@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
8 Oct 18
Uhm I think I also felt that way at some point but it doesn't really bother me that much anymore if it will happen again. I'm not too active around here as much as I used to. Hehe.
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@snowy22315 (170010)
• United States
30 Jul 18
Not really, but honestly, you can't expect everyone to like you. If you feel comfortable you might ask the person..if you have done anything to offend them.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
31 Jul 18
I had to do this and it was all a misunderstanding on another site.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
31 Jul 18
There is a sea change when compared to the old myLot. There were nasty people then. There are a few here too but I now know how to stay away and so I am happy.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49005)
• United States
31 Jul 18
I've been blessed to have pleasant experiences on here.
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@DianneN (246905)
• United States
31 Jul 18
Oh, who would ever be angry at you?
Perhaps that person was having a bad day or just tired. It's difficult to get the gist just from reading a comment. If you like that person, just send a PM to get at the truth and get peace of mind.
I avoid people who are out to make others angry. That's not fun for a site like this.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
I have a change of view of someone here and I ignored him abruptly. But I have a really good reason to anyway.
But the way I read your discussion, it seems that you haven't done anything wrong or probably you offended that person without you knowing it.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
3 Aug 18
I'm sorry you've been feeling that way, and I hope you've gotten an answer on this so that you can clear your mind of it.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
When I experience such thing or such behavior through negative comments, I avoid them.
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@thislittlepennyearns (58140)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
30 Jul 18
People can get angry about the stupidest stuff.
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