I never liked him.
By AmberLynn
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
United States
September 27, 2018 6:19pm CST
I never liked him. He seemed like a man that was full of himself, that was a bit of a bully. He seemed like the type of man who had hit her, had made her scared of being true to herself. I could see it in her eyes, the fear that she tried to hide from the rest of the world.
I wished that I could help her, that I could do something, but I didn't know her that well. I didn't know her true circumstances, and so I did nothing. Time went by and I did nothing.
She would come in, quiet as a mouse, eyes downcast, shoulders slumped. She was soft spoken, that is when she spoke at all. He did most of the talking. Oh, he was sly of course, being amiable to the point of annoyance. It seemed like the more aggravated I appeared, the friendlier he was. I wasn't sure whether he did this on purpose, but I suspected that he did.
Months went by and I no longer saw them. I knew they must be around, he owned a business that was a staple to the community. I knew that business was still around, and so I could only assume he was as well. Sometimes I wonder about them. I wonder if what I saw was the truth, or only perceived imaginings.
I only bring this up today because I saw another man's wife this evening, and I began to wonder the same thing. She seemed happy enough, but I know a bit of the character of this man, and so I can only wonder, is their marriage a safe and happy one?
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@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
28 Sep 18
And yet, behind closed doors and away from prying eyes, he may have been the most wonderful husband. People are odd and judgements can oftentimes be wrong. But, it is better to err on the side of caution. Our guts can be wonderful predictors.
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@celticeagle (189793)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Sep 18
I doubt any marriage is perfect. It's hard to see this sort of thing. What can you do? You don't know for sure but you could ask for a health check if it got to that point.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
28 Sep 18
This happened several years ago when I was a cashier at the store I used to work at. I was the only one on duty when he would come in, and so it wasn't as if I could ask someone else to take care of him. I couldn't exactly call the cops without a valid reason.
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@celticeagle (189793)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Sep 18
@ScribbledAdNauseum .......People like that are very slick and don't go far enough to get in trouble with the cops most of the time.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
28 Sep 18
@celticeagle This is true. I was told that this particular guy (who owns a restaurant in my area) is also a scumbag who does not pay his waitresses properly.
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
28 Sep 18
Sometimes you can have a really accurate gut instinct.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
28 Sep 18
This man put off a vibe that I did not like. It wasn't what he said or didn't say that bothered me the most. It was his body language, and the way he positioned his body in relation to his wife's.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
28 Sep 18
As do I.
I think she was stronger than she seemed. I got that feeling about her, especially towards the last time I saw her.
@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
28 Sep 18
No marriage is perfect. Two imperfect people have to make it perfect. But no one should suffer abuse..be it physical or mental. That makes a relationship sick.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
28 Sep 18
I agree, though I think sick isn't a powerful enough word.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
28 Sep 18
@ScribbledAdNauseum I agree. But the sad part is you can not jump and save the victim until they come out for help.
@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
29 Sep 18
I agree with Elizabeth.
Sometimes we see things one way, but they're actually the opposite. Its always okay to worry though








