no visitations

@spiderdust (14745)
San Jose, California
September 28, 2018 1:39pm CST
The other half's ex finally crossed a line with the kids. Today he went to the courthouse, police report in hand, to file for a change in custody and a revocation of her visitations. He's hoping to get court supervised visitation so the kids can still have some kind of relationship with her without being put in danger. Without giving too many details, there is currently a warrant out for her arrest and she's been charged with 2 counts of abandonment of a child under the age of 14 and 1 count of contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Anyone who's been following the saga with the stepkids probably isn't too surprised by this. I'm just glad they were okay and were able to find a police officer and tell him what happened. Things could have so easily gone badly.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
29 Sep 18
I had really hoped it didn't have to get this far..but apparently it did. Supervised visitation would be the only way she be allowed anywhere near them.
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@spiderdust (14745)
• San Jose, California
30 Sep 18
I completely agree with you. I hope the court sees that as well.
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
30 Sep 18
@spiderdust I have a feeling it's either going to be that, or shes not going to have any contact with them at all. I would hope that they enforce her having to get a real job, go through counseling or some sort of other treatment to even be around them as well..
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
1 Oct 18
@spiderdust at the minimum that should be the requirements. I think she needs psych evaluations out the Ying Yang too
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@amadeo (111957)
• United States
28 Sep 18
yes it could had gone badly.
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@amadeo (111957)
• United States
28 Sep 18
@spiderdust I see.How did this turned out
@spiderdust (14745)
• San Jose, California
28 Sep 18
@amadeo We haven't heard from them yet, although since the report is against her and not us, I'm sure we'll be okay. They may come over to talk to us, but I'm not worried about that.
@spiderdust (14745)
• San Jose, California
28 Sep 18
We got a call from the school counselor about it, as one of the kids talked to her about the incident. She has to call CPS and report it, which I don't see as a bad thing right now.
@LadyDuck (451237)
• Switzerland
29 Sep 18
I am not sure that this Court decision is a wise decision, what example could she be for her kids?
@LadyDuck (451237)
• Switzerland
30 Sep 18
@spiderdust The decision to let her meet her kids. Not sure that it's a good idea.
@spiderdust (14745)
• San Jose, California
29 Sep 18
Which court decision, the current one? He's trying to get that changed. They haven't had a chance to learn about what happened yet.
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@jaboUK (64363)
• United Kingdom
28 Sep 18
She sounds like a nasty piece of work, perhaps the kids would be better off without her completely.
@spiderdust (14745)
• San Jose, California
28 Sep 18
I don't disagree, but that's a court decision.
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@just4him (300249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Sep 18
I hope it all works out and he gets visitation.
@just4him (300249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Sep 18
@spiderdust I hope it is.
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@spiderdust (14745)
• San Jose, California
29 Sep 18
The stepchildren live with us. He already has visitation in that sense. He's trying to have her visitation revoked, and with good reason.
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@NJChicaa (115006)
• United States
28 Sep 18
Oh boy. I don't know what happened but I'm glad that the kids were okay.
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@spiderdust (14745)
• San Jose, California
28 Sep 18
I'll send you a private message.
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@Courtlynn (67003)
• United States
29 Sep 18
Oh man.. feel so bad for those kids.
@august18 (3908)
• Tunisia
28 Sep 18
I wonder why did she keep the kids if she can't assume responsibility for them.
@spiderdust (14745)
• San Jose, California
28 Sep 18
She didn't keep them, she abandoned them in a huff after being around them for less than an hour.
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