My Dancing Ladies is Blooming Again!
By Thelma
@thelme55 (79309)
Germany
November 22, 2018 5:23am CST
How do you like the brilliant color of these orchids? They are beautiful, aren't they?
I am not in a good mood today as one of my in laws misused my and my sisters trust. I confronted her about it. She pawned the jewelries in the pawnshop which are not hers but my sibling and niece. The jewelries are the inheritance from my parents. As I am still here in the Philippines, I have to sort out the problem for the owners of the jewelries who are living abroad. Trust is lost and it will take time to recover.
I want to convert my negative emotion to positive and so I am posting this dancing lady photo here.
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
22 Nov 18
One of the jewelries is here already but the other one is still in the pawnshop. I made clear to my sis in law to get the money for the necklace before it will expire in a month. She said she will. My niece will come home in January and the necklace should be here by me. You can't imagine how angry I was this afternoon. I didn't shout at her but made clear that what she done was not right. I was always there to help them financially but if my trust is misused, sorry, no more help coming from me anymore. Thanks @sofssu
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@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
22 Nov 18
aren't your ladies dancing very well? I love seeing them and remember my mother she loves orchids so much. How on earth they had their hands on your property? by the way...
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@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
23 Nov 18
@thelme55 do you feel better now? my mother would look at her orchids whenever she's upset with us or the world.
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
23 Nov 18
They live in my property @Mavic123456. My dancing ladies reminds me of my mother, too as she was fond of planting orchids.
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
24 Nov 18
@Mavic123456 yes, I feel better now. It sounds that your mother is like me. Thanks.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
23 Nov 18
When trust is lost, it's something very difficult to regain. To be able to get the jewelries back, I guess you're again pulling out from your own purse to redeem them.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
23 Nov 18
@thelme55 Too bad for your niece. It's so sad when a member of the family whom one is supposed to trust is the one who takes advantage of the trusting family member.
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
23 Nov 18
You are right @sunrisefan. No, I will not pay that as the jewelries are not mine. Only one necklace left in the pawnshop and my niece will have to get it with her own money if the culprit can't get it back.
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
23 Nov 18
@sunrisefan so true. That is very frustrating to have this kind of family member.
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@responsiveme (22923)
• India
22 Nov 18
Lovely and cheerful flowers.
Hope you settle your problems
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
22 Nov 18
I am sure I will @responsiveme. It was not actually my problem but as the eldest of the siblings, I am entrusted to take part especially that the owners are not at home. Yes, lovely flowers indeed.
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
23 Nov 18
@responsiveme yes, in the Philippines. Is it also in India?
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@responsiveme (22923)
• India
22 Nov 18
@thelme55 eldest entails responsibilities
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
22 Nov 18
Due to high price of commodities here that's why people are doing unexpected things I guess. Anyway, where's the dancing lady?
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
22 Nov 18
The habit of making Utang/debt is popular in the Philippines community. A bad habit if one can't pay. Worse if they betray relatives who trust them. Sorry the photo came late. It didn't upload immediately. I had to reduced its size before it showed up.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
22 Nov 18
@thelme55 I definitely agree. Debt with interest is kicking everywhere. I think I'm lucky that my debt only comes from my siblings with no interest at all. Nice yellow dancers you have there.
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
22 Nov 18
What a terrible thing. I hope everything will be ok soon with you over there. It`s really a good way to convert negative feelings to positive. I love the orchids you have there in your photo 
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
23 Nov 18
Yes, indeed @m_audrey6788. I am already calm and can move on with that trouble. Thank you.
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
23 Nov 18
It is sort out already @Sreekala. By next month, the necklace of my mother will be back in my hand before my niece who inherited the necklace, comes home from Europe. My niece knows already what happened yesterday. She was disappointed just like me.
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It's so sad, when our relatives are the ones who broke our trust because of financial scams like that.
@allknowing (153544)
• India
22 Nov 18
How did your in laws get to deal with jewelries belonging to your family?
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
23 Nov 18
Because the jewelries was in my Philippines house while I and the owners were in Europe @allknowing.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54715)
• United States
2 Dec 18
I'm sorry that you were done wrong The flowers are lovely
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
3 Dec 18
Thanks. I was really pissed off. Gladfully it is okay now @Tampa_girl7
@antonbunot (11146)
• Calgary, Alberta
24 Nov 18
Cheer up! That is not much a problem compared to the truckload problems of Donald trump. Hehehe
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@thelme55 (79309)
• Germany
28 Nov 18
I have cheered up already @antonbunot. God forfid. I don't want to be in his shoes. Horrible.
