Being at the Hospital Makes Me Feel Weak

@acelawrites (19272)
Philippines
January 9, 2019 2:23am CST
It had been days that I have to pitch in on accompanying my sick sister in the hospital. She was confined several times after she got that third stroke! First it was the stroke and she was confined for a week; followed by another week when she got pneumonia; and last week for urinary track infection. My sisters and I have to spare some of our time there, although we had hired two special duty nurses on a 12-hours shift to attend to the needs of my sick sister. Her left side of the body was affected so she could not move to her side or sit. Every time that I was there for a whole day, I felt so weak too. I thought I might inhaled some viruses or bacteria from there though I often wear face mask for protection. Or maybe it is the negative vibrations in there that strike me.
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@fluffy69 (4955)
9 Jan 19
So sorry for that. How old is your sister if you dont mind?
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
She is 66. And she should have been enjoying her retirement.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
10 Jan 19
@fluffy69 I don't know, but she's not so fat, and she was very conscious of her health too. Maybe she got confident that she won't have a stroke. But I presumed it could be due to stress caused by her former work.
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@fluffy69 (4955)
9 Jan 19
@acelawrites and is still young. No one can really predict pur lifestyle. Does she eat meat oftentimes?
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
9 Jan 19
So sorry to hear about your sister.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
We are affected so much by what happened to her.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
@Happy2BeMe thank you!
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
9 Jan 19
@acelawrites I know how you feel.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
10 Jan 19
It's your sad spirit because your sister is always sick and have been in and out of the hospital that made you weak. Maybe once she is a bit well and be home you can already catch some needed sleep.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
11 Jan 19
@acelawrites I hope she can recover fast, since she's still young, I suppose.
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
10 Jan 19
Stress really can weaken us. Yes, we will all be happy once she gets well and be able to walk again.
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@LadyDuck (502429)
• Italy
9 Jan 19
I hope your sister feels better now. The hospitals are depressing.
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@LadyDuck (502429)
• Italy
10 Jan 19
@acelawrites I am glad she will be back home.
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
Thank you! The doctors said she will be discharged by tomorrow because the antibiotics will be complete by then.
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@JudyEv (382036)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Jan 19
I'm sorry your sister has had a stroke. It is good that you were able to hire nurses to help her.
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@JudyEv (382036)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 19
@acelawrites That is very sad indeed.
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
It is her who is paying for the nurses; from her savings when she was still working. Too sad she should be traveling around the world but she was incapacitated by that stroke.
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@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
Me too, staying in hospital makes me sick. My most hated place including jail.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
I agree, it brings negative vibrations which we can absorb.
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
@ilocosboy yes, I agree!
@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
It makes me very nervous.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
11 Jan 19
Prayers for you at this time to be a Strength for your sister, and Prayers for your sister that she can start feeling better
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
12 Jan 19
Thank you so much for the prayers; we do really hope she can walk and be strong again.
@rsa101 (40976)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
I suspect its psychological that you feel that way. I think hospital can have a very negative effect on you especially if you are with a patient. It makes your mind think of so many things that at times you feel sickly as well because of that. I hope you are already out of the hospital since that place is really very depressing place to be in.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
I can not avoid going there because someone from the family (siblings) should be there to see if there's something needed to decide on. So we take turns in accompanying our sister if we could afford to allot some time there.
@skysnap (20152)
9 Jan 19
I too feel sad seeing people on bed. and it makes me feel bad for the future.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
The reason why we should always take good care of our health.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
10 Jan 19
Hospitals aren't fun places to be - i recently spent 12 hours a day in hospital with my ill husband. He was there for two weeks and I was thoroughly sick of the place by then. Sorry about your sister, I hope she recovers well.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
10 Jan 19
Thank you! Hopefully she will be discharged tomorrow.
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@dya80dya (36805)
19 Jan 19
I am thinking that some people are working there. Such a depressing place.
• New Delhi, India
9 Jan 19
I feel the weakness that we feel because I have been to the hospital many times
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
9 Jan 19
The place brings negative energies!
@didinedhia (8482)
• Algeria
11 Jan 19
yes you can catch viruses or bacteria but dont worry
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
12 Jan 19
It is true, so I make sure to take Vitamin C and lots of water for prevention.