Hurt Feelings

@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

Wow, then you can compose a very beautiful poem by then.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

@simplfred it could be beautiful too! Have you posted it here?

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Frederick Espiritu

@simplfred (20640)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

@acelawrites Just a dark and emotional one.

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Fat Oreo

@fluffy69 (4956)

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6 Feb 19

When im hurt i do like to be alone. But i dont easily cry. When i was young i was a crybaby, but now, no.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

You became stronger as the years go by.

CarolDM

@CarolDM (203447)

• Nashville, Tennessee

6 Feb 19

We all need to cry from time to time but I don't see us as cry babies. Just my opinion.

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Fat Oreo

@fluffy69 (4956)

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6 Feb 19

@CarolDM i know ms. Carol but my failures in life made me hard to cry nowadays. Before a small problem made me cry and blame God now no. I cry everytime i see dogs in the street being treated badly.

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DianneN

@DianneN (247204)

• United States

6 Feb 19

Yes, I'm very sensitive and my feelings get hurt very easily. It depends who hurts them and my reaction. On here, people who hurt my feelings are just virtual people I don't know, so what they say is meaningless to me and irrelevant.

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DianneN

@DianneN (247204)

• United States

6 Feb 19

@acelawrites That's true and why I said it depends who does the hurting.

@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

Yes, we can easily avoid being hurt here, just ignore, but when it is a close friend or relative, one can hardly hide the feeling.

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The Fly One

@aureliah (24317)

• Kenya

6 Feb 19

When I am sad or frustrated with something, I like being quiet and probably stay alone

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

Well, it could give you an ample time to think of your next step.

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The Fly One

@aureliah (24317)

• Kenya

8 Feb 19

@acelawrites true

Arya

@yoalldudes (35040)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

I am a sensitive person. I have learned a little bit how to cope with being hurt. Our emotions follow our bidding, it only takes some training.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

It could teach us a lesson and be a wiser person next time.

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Arya

@yoalldudes (35040)

• Philippines

7 Feb 19

@acelawrites Yes, that is true.

Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65280)

• Serbia

6 Feb 19

Sometimes I could hide my emotions and be smiling, now I can not do it anymore.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

Being sensitive makes one cry easily when hurt, but it is good because we might get sick if we do not release the emotion and keep it inside.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65280)

• Serbia

6 Feb 19

@acelawrites You're probably right, but when the soul hits it, it's very hard to withstand that pain.

louievill

@louievill (28851)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

Maybe it has something to do with how we were raised up and our position in the family. I'm the eldest son so my father always expected me to be strong and was taught that such is a sign of weakness, now I'm the head of the family more is expected, not able to hide hurt or disappointment in failure would demoralize other family members, yeah that's just me and others might be different.

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louievill

@louievill (28851)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

@acelawrites it's difficult to console them if I show unnecessary or too much emotions.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

As head of the family, your children will look at you as their icon of strength.

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Jennifer

@LovingMyBabies (85125)

• Valdosta, Georgia

6 Feb 19

I'm in a different category all together. When you grow closer to the Lord things of this world really don't bother you the same anymore. I realize the only one who had the right to be offended by people and wasn't was Jesus! Hard to explain, it's a Spiritual/Supernatural thing and it's amazing. =)

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

I agree, because if you are focused on "outside of the box" then you can think wiser; being close to God can help a lot in carrying one's load.

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Sky

@skysnap (20153)

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6 Feb 19

I am kind of burnt out on the relationship. i get easily hurt.

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Sky

@skysnap (20153)

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6 Feb 19

@acelawrites yes that is what doing right now. focusing on myself.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

It is true; if you think you are just being used, it is better to go away.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (463356)

• Switzerland

6 Feb 19

I try not to show but I feel very bad and then I cannot sleep during the night.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (463356)

• Switzerland

7 Feb 19

@acelawrites Exactly, it's something that makes you sad.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

I agree, especially when the one who hurt you is so close to you.

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Judy Evans

@JudyEv (329147)

• Rockingham, Australia

6 Feb 19

Luckily I don't get my feelings hurt very often. I think mostly I get very quiet while I think about it all and try to get over it.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

You are very wise in solving it; there are people who do not let hurtful events limit their activities; perceptions.

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Laurel (L_B)

@Happy2BeMe (99373)

• Canada

6 Feb 19

I get hurt easily but I am good at hiding it from others. I have learned over the years how to do that.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

I admire people like you who can easily handle such feelings.

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Laurel (L_B)

@Happy2BeMe (99373)

• Canada

6 Feb 19

@acelawrites Thank you

relcap23

@florelway (23184)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Feb 19

It depends on who hurt me and I share the feelings to my close friends and family. I am a very transparent person, sometimes I confront the person and tell her I am hurt.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

It is better to tell them you are hurt; than presume they understand why you are acting differently.

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relcap23

@florelway (23184)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Feb 19

@acelawrites you are right, and in that manner the person tries hard not to hurt you again.

Nana

@Nana49 (3399)

• United States

6 Feb 19

I try not to show my feelings even if im hurt i suck it up til.im alone then i will cry .. It takes alot to make me cry in front of someone.. Im a very private person But i get over things very quickly .. :)

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

It is good to release the emotion instead of keeping it in your heart or mind. It helps.

Sreekala

@Sreekala (34312)

• India

6 Feb 19

I can't act, you can guess from my face very easily if I am not good. That is me.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

Same here, I could not make a happy face with a heart so full of loneliness.

rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

7 Feb 19

I hide my hurt feelings whenever I am at the office. I can still easily laugh at jokes. But once, I go home , I go to our bedroom and cry while hubby isn't home yet, if he is the culprit.

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rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

8 Feb 19

@acelawrites In my entire life as an employee in the present company I am employed, I cried once. It's out of anger with my officemate. I walked out of her in our office room, which we both occupy and cried in the comfort room. When I came back, I was still so angry and silent, she apologized and I exploded my anger.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

7 Feb 19

I do the same sometimes; they might not notice that I really wanted to cry; just go to the comfort room.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

8 Feb 19

@SIMPLYD It is udnerstandable when you have to burst out in anger when you know you are right. Some people needs that "shock" so they won't abuse your kindness.

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YoghurtGal

@flapiz (22697)

• United Kingdom

7 Feb 19

I try to not show my feelings specially in public but during times nearing my periods all feelings come out.

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YoghurtGal

@flapiz (22697)

• United Kingdom

8 Feb 19

@acelawrites I know and before I refuse to believe that. But now that I know myself better I know it’s not fake news.

@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

7 Feb 19

You can not help it because it is physiological; health experts say there is hormonal imbalance during those periods.

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rakski

@rakski (112924)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

Once upon a time, I easily get hurt. I am way too sensitive. But I learn and I mature and I do not like to stress myself from all those. Life is short. I want to live life happily every single day. It is actually a choice for each of us.

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@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

6 Feb 19

Yes, it is a choice; one can just let it pass and ignore everything that brings negativity.

Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (130238)

• Israel

7 Feb 19

@acelawrites I get angry at people that think they can make up stuff about me. I do not understand why they do it if they do not know anything about me or I may vent about it.

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