Played music in a nice service for a friend today

@TheHorse (238349)
Walnut Creek, California
March 30, 2019 8:14pm CST
A friend of mine, a bass player in some bands I've been in, died recently due to complications associated with diabetes. Today, we held a celebration in his honor. Many of the musicians he had played with performed, and BBQ ribs and chicken were served. It was bittersweet, of course, as we were celebrating the life of a friend who was gone, but the music he enjoyed and the love his friends had for him were present. We also got a couple of kids to come up and play with us. I believe they were his Grand-nephews, and both were about 10-years-old. They seemed to enjoy the experience, and I hope Jim's spirit enjoyed seeing his love of music passed down a couple of generations.
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Eva James
@wolfgirl569 (135944)
• Marion, Ohio
31 Mar 19
Sorry to hear about your friend. Sounds like a great way to honor him.
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The Horse
@TheHorse (238349)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Apr 19
It was a good day. On days like that, I get all unscientific, and more sentimental, and hope that his spirit was watching and playing along.
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Marie
@Tampa_girl7 (54730)
• United States
31 Mar 19
I'm sorry that your friend passed
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The Horse
@TheHorse (238349)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Apr 19
Thanks. I think a musical event was the best way to celebrate his life.
Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
31 Mar 19
I am so sorry for the loss of your friend, it does sound like a beautiful honor to him. I'm sure he loved the ceremony too. =)
RasmaSandra
@RasmaSandra (98072)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
31 Mar 19
It is sad but nice to celebrate ones life through music. Sounds like a wonderful celebration and I am sure he was watching you all and happy you were remembering him.
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DianneN
@DianneN (254926)
• United States
31 Mar 19
Very sorry to hear about the passing of your friend. You honored his life in the best way possible.
Judy Evans
@JudyEv (382412)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Apr 19
That is a wonderful way to honour your friend and extra special that the boys could join in.
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The Horse
@TheHorse (238349)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Apr 19
It really was a festive celebration of Jim's life.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (382412)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Apr 19
@TheHorse Which is what it should be in most cases. Bit different if it's a child or young person.
Shavkat
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
31 Mar 19
May he rest in peace. I am sure he is happy seeing people close to his heart right now.
Four Walls
@FourWalls (86829)
• United States
31 Mar 19
I'm sorry for the loss of your friend, and I'm happy you celebrated the life. I know that's what I want people to do when I'm gone.
Anna
@LadyDuck (502729)
• Italy
31 Mar 19
I am sorry about your friend, I am sure he appreciated what you did.
Sherry
@norcal (4889)
• Franklinton, North Carolina
31 Mar 19
That sounds like a beautiful tribute to your friend's life.
George B Vieto
@Deepizzaguy (122278)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
31 Mar 19
The loss of a loved one is bad since we all lose someone we love. However remembering them is one way to keep the good times going in our lives.
Diana B.
@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
31 Mar 19
What a great celebration of your friend's life! It's still sad for all of his friends and family, but what a perfect way to remember him.
MrsJ
@SophiaMorros (5044)
• Belews Creek, North Carolina
31 Mar 19
Sorry for your loss. What a wonderful way to honor the passing of a loved one!