"Are you a JUDGMENTAL Person?"

@Shavkat (141905)
Philippines
April 4, 2019 9:24am CST
I was so busy doing things that you couldn't imagine. Let me share something, I had also shared this job online here and I declined it. Could you still remember a virtual job that the applicant can be chatbot to a dating site? Well, a friend tried for curiosity's sake. He was hired last Monday. He indulged to a dirty job online. During the orientation per se, he had seen what's the real purpose of this job. It is simply fetching clients from four different countries. After the training, he was launched to be the company's chatbot. He won't elaborate more about it. All I can say, it is more on sexual encounters virtually with those people who are so into this. "Do you think that he is committing the biggest SIN?" "Should I judge him for having this kind of job?" Image Credit: paycron.com
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
4 Apr 19
No you should not, you are not God so you should not judge people. I wish I could get paid for talking dirty to people.
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@dfollin (27267)
• United States
4 Apr 19
Your right it’s not his place to judge but at the same time if he doesn’t have to have that in his life if he doesn’t want to.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 19
@andriaperry I was also thinking about how can he can manage this kind of job. After a month, I will ask him if it is worth to try. I agree that I shouldn't judge him about this. @dfolin
@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
4 Apr 19
It's not up to you to judge him, if he commits a sin is only his own problem.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 19
You are right. It is his life to be involved in this kind of situation.
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@dfollin (27267)
• United States
4 Apr 19
It is up to God to judge him not you.. If it is not effecting you or your family I wouldn’t worry about it.
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@dfollin (27267)
• United States
5 Apr 19
@Shavkat I hope he does too
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
9 Apr 19
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 19
In some point, it will not affect me or my family. I was just being a concerned friend to him. I hope he will find his way of knowing what is really good for him.
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
8 Apr 19
It is not our place to judge other people which can be easier said than done
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
8 Apr 19
Personally, I don't judge people that easily. Since he is my friend, I tried my best not to. You are right. He might have a good reason for this matter
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
9 Apr 19
@simone10 I agree. It is totally a different implication.
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
8 Apr 19
@Shavkat it's ok to disagree with what he does and still be his friend, that's not judging.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
4 Apr 19
I would say if it doesn't impact your friendship let that slide!
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@dfollin (27267)
• United States
4 Apr 19
I agree!
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 19
@DocAndersen I agree. Let him control his life. I am confident that he will jeopardize our friendship.
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5 Apr 19
Coming from a somewhat technical background or at least having an interest in computers I kind of like chat bots but like everything they can be used in ways I don't want to get close to. Not attempting to be disparaging just decisive.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
6 Apr 19
I think it is not that technical per se with this kind of work. It needs to use the company's system. The employees will just send instant or conversational messages to the clients. I, myself got intrigued about how to work with them.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
8 Apr 19
@mynameiskate The sad thing is that some of the conversations are about S*X. That's what I am concern about this matter.
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6 Apr 19
@Shavkat I wouldn't mind the work but somewhat sensitive about the content. There is a difference in the content between looking after customers who want information on products and those that indulge in dirty talk.
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
5 Apr 19
I don't really care what my friends do for a living. As long as he still remain a good person, no big deal about it.
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
5 Apr 19
@Shavkat It's just a chat after all. No big deal.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
9 Apr 19
@cherriefic As a modern thinker, I think it is fine. I hope he will not share with people who are traditional.
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 19
You have a point there. I do think that he will not change. He just wanted to have a job and be productive.
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• Preston, England
6 Apr 19
he is providing a service people are willing to pay for - he and they are hopefully happy. There is no sin here
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
10 Apr 19
I agree. It is a matter of having a job and not beyond extra service as compared to other dating sites that I am aware of.
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@yugocean (9963)
• India
12 Apr 19
I am Judge? If yes then I will. But as per the rules I have to. Dating site job? If good salary, have it.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
13 Apr 19
I am not sure how much is the salary. But I think it is just suitable for having a part-time job.
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Apr 19
That's between him, his conscience, and God.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
10 Apr 19
I agree. A friend can always be there when he needs help.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
4 Apr 19
Its for you to think if you are being judgemental. He is your friend and you should not go about carrying tales about him.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 19
I think it is not right. As long as I had my piece of advice to him, it is still his own decision. I just only wanted him to find the real job in the world of internet.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
14 Apr 19
@aninditasen It is still his own business for now.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
10 Apr 19
@ShavkatHelp him out to do so.
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@thelme55 (79324)
• Germany
4 Apr 19
I would not judge him. If it is a problem, it is not mine or yours to judge.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 19
I agree. We, humans, are not entitled to judge others. God has the only right to do this.
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@thelme55 (79324)
• Germany
10 Apr 19
@Shavkat so true. Have a nice evening there.
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• Philippines
19 Apr 19
No dont judge..
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
20 Apr 19
If a person judges you, what's your call on this?
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
21 Apr 19
@Nickzter1331 For me, it would be acceptable if it is constructive criticism.
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• Philippines
20 Apr 19
@Shavkat i kinda get angry or pissed.. we dont have the right to judge..
@Junbals (1421)
• Philippines
6 Apr 19
My take as a Christian is - even the hardened thief who hanged with Jesus on the Cross at Golgotha was forgiven and went straight to paradise. There may have been thousand reasons why your friend should not be judged.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
6 Apr 19
Indeed. I think he has a good reason why he needs to indulge in this kind of job. In time, he will share this sentiment with me. I will always here to listen to his sentiments in life.
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
15 Apr 19
If it is a legitimate, paying job then you have no place to judge him. Would you judge him for not having a job at all?
@Tampa_girl7 (54715)
• United States
5 Apr 19
I try not to judge others.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
6 Apr 19
I also tried not to do this. If it is really affecting me, then I need to say something.
@db20747 (43419)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
4 Apr 19
He will stop when he's tired of this!!
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 19
I agree. I hope it is for his own good. We cannot force somebody if he or she is into something. He or she is basing on his or her own discretion.
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@karakay (365)
• Philippines
4 Apr 19
Is it just in the chatbox or do they meet up and do se×ual stuff? If there's some action going, then I might judge him as well. Im thinking he's into pr0st!tut!0n if there's some real action going.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 19
There is no meetup scheme. It is a big no for the company. It is one of the rules that they cannot give personal information.