How do you feel when someone ignores you on mylot?

@dya80dya (15371)
Romania
May 20, 2019 8:21am CST
Recently I noticed that here some people are ignored. Some people answer to everyone, except for some persons. And sometimes I am ignored. I ask questions and I don't receive an answer, but I see the same person answering to other people. I think that some persons don't want to interact when they ignore my questions. How do you feel when someone ignores you on mylot? Or when a member doesn't answer your questions?
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39 responses
@arunima25 (20234)
• Bangalore, India
20 May
I try to comment to people who comment on my discussions. But I have found that there are few people who don't follow me while I follow them. So I comment to almost all their discussions but they reciprocate only sometimes. But it's an individual choice and I am okay with it.
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@andriaperry (80228)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 May
I read and comment so much I tend to miss some people, not on purpose, and then I am so behind on answering comments I am sure to never catch up. Plus I have to work on answering my own posts with comments. But each person is different, some drop by once and move on.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
This also happens to me. Maybe they are not doing this on purpose.
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@andriaperry (80228)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 May
@dya80dya No they are not.
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• Algeria
21 May
@dya80dya yes i think it's not on purpose
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@AKRao24 (23385)
• India
20 May
I don't mind such things! It is the choice of an individual and his/her liking! Basically I come here to have some nice time and keep myself positive after a hectic work! So I never think anything negative about the people and their behavior! Every one has a right to behave the way they want! Where is the problem?
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
Yes, but have you noticed that people who never answer or reply back are ignored here? Some of them have 1 or 2 answers to each discussion.
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@AKRao24 (23385)
• India
20 May
@dya80dya , That is very natural to happen! If some one is not responding back then how can she or he can expect others to respond? This a site of discussion and we expect a discussion from other members here and not a monologue! am I right?
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
21 May
@AKRao24 Yes, you're right. Maybe some people don't understand this site. This site is for interaction, not monologue.
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@Corbin5 (145424)
• United States
20 May
Due to so many users here, I am not concerned with those who may ignore me.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
Me neither. There are many users here, as you said. Sometimes it's hard to interact with so many people. And all the time I find new users.
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• Agra, India
20 May
There are many other people here. What is the point in running after one who is not worth it.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
It's so true. We have to ignore them.
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• Agra, India
21 May
@dya80dya yes...we have many other interactive people here.
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@snowy22315 (68614)
• United States
20 May
It does happen from time to time. Also, some people might ignore you sometimes and not others. I just move on. Life is too short to get hung up on trivialities.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
Yes. This is not important because here there are lots of people. I can interact with them.
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@weevee18 (1859)
• Philippines
20 May
Of course I also feel ignored but it doesn’t really make me feel bad. There could be tons of reasons why you’re not getting a reply.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
Yes. I am not feeling bad. It's their loss.
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@Nevena83 (26883)
• Serbia
20 May
I know you feel bad, but I do not pay attention to such people.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
I feel ignored. But I am not feeling very bad. It's their choice.
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@Nevena83 (26883)
• Serbia
20 May
@dya80dya Yes, I know you do not feel best about it, but stop commenting on their discussions.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
21 May
@Nevena83 I will stop commenting and asking questions. Why should I ask something if never answer?
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@amadeo (95358)
• United States
20 May
Good morning.Does not bother me at all.Why should it be.there loss.Nope could care less.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
Yes, they don't want to interact and it's their loss.
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@amadeo (95358)
• United States
20 May
@dya80dya I really do not get upset.I have to much things going on in my life.Do not need this
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
@amadeo Yes, life is stressful enough.
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@Gillygirl (30349)
• Sutton, England
20 May
Time can be a factor. I have a lot of notifications and questions to answer but I am busy at present. Don't taake it to heart. Move on as there any many discussions in which to interact.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
Yes, this can be a reason. I was not talking about you. I will move on.
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@Gillygirl (30349)
• Sutton, England
20 May
@dya80dya I know you didn't mean me but this can be the case with some people. There are people who don't reply so I don't bother with their posts.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
21 May
@Gillygirl Yes, people who don't reply are ignored here. Have you noticed that they have one or two answers to their discussions?
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@tech40 (15656)
• Philippines
20 May
For me I'm always trying my best to reply to every notification that I received, If there's a response that doesn't have a reply, it means that I didn't notice it,
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
This can be a reason. Maybe they don't notice the reply. But I noticed something else. People reply and I don't receive notifications soon enough. I receive them after a few hours. This is weird. Do you have the same problem?
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@tech40 (15656)
• Philippines
20 May
@dya80dya Oh yeah, that's kinda weird and sounds new to me, I'm not sure because when I received notification it'll show how many minutes when the response was created and usually it shows 5 mins or 10mins, depends on how fast I saw it, but I haven't encountered any delays in my notification tab.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
21 May
@tech40 Maybe I am the only one who has this problem.
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@Mavic123456 (19364)
• Thailand
20 May
I just stop coming to their discussions. Although I don't really care but why will I give this person earning when I don't receive my share?
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
Yes, and most people do the same. People who don't reply are ignored here. I noticed this. They have 1 or 2 responses to they discussions.
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@Mavic123456 (19364)
• Thailand
21 May
@dya80dya well that's what they want. why waste time on them when we can spend more time some discussions we will surely earn.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
21 May
@Mavic123456 I agree. I feel that I am wasting my time when I ask a question and I never receive an answer. But maybe that person didn't see the notification or didn't have time to answer.
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@Porcospino (25288)
• Denmark
20 May
I have noticed the thing you describe. Sometimes I get a comment, but some of the other members who respond don't get comments. Sometimes it is the other way around. If I am interested in the topic I usually respond. It is great to get a comment, but if I don't get a comment and other people do it isn't a big problem.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
Yes, it's not a big problem. They don't want to interact and they prefer to ignore us.
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@Porcospino (25288)
• Denmark
20 May
@dya80dya When it happens if I just find someone else who wants to talk. There are many other members who like to interact.
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@Aansh13 (3832)
• India
20 May
This could be little disheartening, but I think here on myLot everyone has their own way of dealing with discussions and comments... So I think it's kind of Okay, if people don't response back the same way like you do. Happy myLotting
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
Thank you. I like to mylot. Some people never answer back, but I have to get used to that.
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• Hangzhou, China
20 May
it's normal,we can't always live in narcissism,sometimes,we should learn how to let it go and be tolerant
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
I am very tolerant. How do you feel if you ask questions and people don't answer?
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@XEGRAND (948)
• India
20 May
Not at all. Different people have different likeings. People who find the topic interesting respond and those who do not find them interesting do not. I think. Can't be sure.
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@dya80dya (15371)
• Romania
20 May
Yes, it can be a reason. Or maybe don't notice the question.
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@Hannihar (63393)
21 May
@dya80dya I would prefer someone ignoring me than blocking me. There are people I just do not like so ignore or stay away from their posts and others I do not answer because maybe in my frame of mind I am not in the mood to read a long post.
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• United States
21 May
more fish in the sea.i don't worry about it.
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@allknowing (82661)
• India
20 May
There could be several reasons why this happens. Trying to find out will make you unhappy. Just move on.
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@thelme55 (18173)
• Germany
20 May
I am sometimes behind with answering the comments. I don't do it on purpose, just lacking of time.
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