Got a secret admirer- my student,LOL
@cacay1 (83220)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
May 25, 2019 4:36am CST
I have just learned this afternoon PH time that my student has secret feeling for me. I was so shocked and , never felt excited for I may be charged for " Corrupting Minor "
. I learned this when I opened my FB messenger this day after I closed it for 5 days now, after receiving those uninviting calls from an unknown guy from Portugal.
This student has a gut of his Adrenalin, no shame and never will gain from me as too old for him. I will turn 39 in July and this guy 26
so funny life. My ex- from New Zealand was older than me and here comes now the opposite too young for me.He sent roses and placed them on my table in the faculty and my co-teachers laughed, so amused and bullied me.
Well, I told the guy to stop his foolishness. He should not expect me to be happy with his secret love.Love is beautiful only to the right person, right time and right match.
Am I right? I don't know.Thanks for your care. Love you guys.
Photo is mine during college days with friends.
. I learned this when I opened my FB messenger this day after I closed it for 5 days now, after receiving those uninviting calls from an unknown guy from Portugal.
This student has a gut of his Adrenalin, no shame and never will gain from me as too old for him. I will turn 39 in July and this guy 26so funny life. My ex- from New Zealand was older than me and here comes now the opposite too young for me.He sent roses and placed them on my table in the faculty and my co-teachers laughed, so amused and bullied me.
Well, I told the guy to stop his foolishness. He should not expect me to be happy with his secret love.Love is beautiful only to the right person, right time and right match.
Am I right? I don't know.Thanks for your care. Love you guys.
Photo is mine during college days with friends.20 people like this
22 responses
@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
25 May 19
Does love choose an age? Age doesn't matter they used to say...
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but I can't dare to accept man in young age. I prefer mature or older than me@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 May 19
@simplfred , it's hard for me, my dream man should be older than me. This is not the first time a student courted.When I was in the other school one wanted to marry me. He was 21 that time and I was 26. He is now an architect and blamed me of my refusal. Maybe I was not in love to that guy no matter how persistent he was that time.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
25 May 19
Is a 26 year old a minor in your country?
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
25 May 19
@cacay1 So, do you like him? Could you like him?
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 May 19
@1hopefulman , I do not like him. I prefer older than me.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 May 19
@LadyDuck, that is right, he is too young for me. I already blocked him in FB messenger to avoid his love notes. It's not in my dream to have a relationship with a guy younger than me. I should not put myself to shame and pressure.
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my mom looks young than her age.
but that's a silly things you handle him well 
@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 May 19
@db20747, actually he has face value, height right, but my conscience told me not to put myself in disgrace. Who knows if that guy is just experimenting to prove that it could be possible teacher-student relationship. Yay, I should not put myself in shame and pain.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
26 May 19
It's no longer a secret because everyone now knows hahaha! A difference of 13 years - that's not much :) Don't you have any news about Dennis?
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 May 19
@sunrisefan, Hi handsome friend? Yes, it's no longer a secret. A secret is made known,LOL. About Dennis, no more updates about him for almost 2 years now.My cousins there told me every time they call him through his home phone, they got no answer. Maybe he is now in a nursing home in Christchurch. By the way, when is your visit in Auckland?
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
26 May 19
@cacay1 We'll probably go before the years ends, that is, if we're able to get a visa :) When we went there last year, we flew from Auckland, landed in Christchurch and drove to Queenstown in a rented car. We went to Milford Sound which was a 5-hour trip by bus. The trip was long but it was worth it. Milford Sound is very beautiful.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 May 19
@sunrisefan you'll surely get a visa for you been touring there many times.
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
26 May 19
13 years apartz not bad. Though sure he is brave for sending you those flowers.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 May 19
@chicnthin, yes true he's so brave, gutsy, but I am No to younger than me.Thank you.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 May 19
@chicnthin me too, younger than us seems a burden. I am so sure, the guy will be dependent on us thinking that we are older than him. Let us not give aches and pains to our heart. We only live once and we need to be happy not sad because of age disqualification, unless if a guy is mature in nature, if not bad destiny.
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
26 May 19
@cacay1 I understand that we all have our preferences, in fact I like to be with someone who is 2-5 years older than me.
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
25 May 19
This is kind of sweet and crazy at the same time. I can totally understand it, because I went through a similar situation. Love for sure is a great feeling and you can respect that, but accepting all this isn't very wise, just the way you said, It's foolishness.
Your going perfectly right
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
26 May 19
Congrats. Age doesn't matter. The guy who's in love with you isn't minor. He's 26 years old. Grab the opportunity. Remember you're now an old maid.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 May 19
@Nakitakona 
, I already had made a decision to stay single. I have so many friends and siblings marriage broken and children are so affected. I don't like to suffer the pain of losing love who may not be committed to his vow in the altar of the holy matrimony.
, I already had made a decision to stay single. I have so many friends and siblings marriage broken and children are so affected. I don't like to suffer the pain of losing love who may not be committed to his vow in the altar of the holy matrimony.@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
26 May 19
@cacay1 Just take it as a joke. Sorry, I don't know your the background of your life.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
26 May 19
well well..you are so lucky , but yes i agree age matters and you are clear about what you want in life that's good.
, but yes i agree age matters and you are clear about what you want in life that's good.1 person likes this
@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 May 19
@prashu228,yes age is the barrier of a mismatch guy-girl.
yes age is the barrier of a mismatch guy-girl.
@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 May 19
@TiarasOceanView , nice if only of the same age, I won't hesitate to accept him. It's loud and clear age matters me.
nice if only of the same age, I won't hesitate to accept him. It's loud and clear age matters me.1 person likes this
@crazyhorseladycx (39515)
• United States
25 May 19
'tis not unusual fer students to fall fer their teachers/'r mentors. glad ya nipped such'n the bud 'n hopefully someday he'll see the value 'f yer actions.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 May 19
@crazyhorseladycx, so true, someday he will realize that age gap matters most in marriage.Plus, I already decided to remain single.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
28 May 19
Who knows? He might win your heart if he is so persistent! Are you not attracted to him even a bit?
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 May 19
@acelawrites, I won't put myself to shame, people might just say I am just a sugar mommy.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
30 May 19
@cacay1 it is true here in our country; people will mock you!
@dgobucks226 (34405)
•
26 May 19
Well, isn't life full of surprises sometimes even unpleasant ones. I guess this younger man had an infatuation with an attractive slightly older woman...you! I think you handled it alright.
There's a big difference between infatuation and falling in love.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 May 19
@dgobucks226, so true, and love is so beautiful if the two of you are of the right match. Soon the guy finds someone at his right match.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 May 19
@dgobucks226 thanks, but there are also guys who are faithful to their wives older than them, but the case is so rare.
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