Do you have many or few friends in real life?

@Janet357 (75656)

May 30, 2019 3:20am CST

Everyone can be our friends. It is easy to make friends especially if you have this jolly or bubbly nature. But finding a close friend or friends is the hardest part. We cannot make people aprpeciate or accept our flaws. When someone sees your flaws, thats the time he decides whether to continue his friendship with you or not. People like this are not real friends at all. Because true friends love your flaws not just your positive sides. What about you? Do you have many or just a few friends outside mylot?

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@LowRiderX (22907)

• Serbia

30 May 19

Just few, but I have a lot of acquaintances.

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@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

30 May 19

@LowRider, me too

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

Me too. That i think we have a lot.

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@LowRiderX (22907)

• Serbia

31 May 19

@cacay1 Very few of those true, sincere friends

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@Sreekala (34312)

• India

30 May 19

I don't have many friends.

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@Teekaaa (11580)

• India

30 May 19

Even I don't have many... When compared to real life ,mylot friends are more

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@didinedhia (8475)

• Algeria

30 May 19

i have little too

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@didinedhia (8475)

• Algeria

30 May 19

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@rsa101 (37969)

• Philippines

30 May 19

I unfortunately have few close friends around and most of them are already not in contact with them anymore. But I do have few acquaintances around work and family circles. They are not close like the ones I used to have but they are good friends.

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@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

30 May 19

@rsa101, there are not close to us but real . It's hard to find and trust real people.

@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

30 May 19

@Janet357 ,I agree with you my friend, at work there is professional jealousy.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

To be honest it is hard to find real friends at work.

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@tech40 (23128)

• Philippines

30 May 19

Just a few, because I want to keep the real ones, I've been betrayed by a lot of people that I treated as friend

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@tech40 (23128)

• Philippines

31 May 19

@Janet357 Yeah and because of them I changed how I treat people surrounds, so even tho I only have few friends I still put boundaries

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@Janet357 (75656)

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1 Jun 19

@tech40 time heals. I understand you but someday you will meet people who dont take advantage and who are real indeed in making friends.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

Oh yeah, this is very common. Betrayal.

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@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

30 May 19

I have so many friends outside of this site, but so sad , only few are true or genuine.Many are fake.

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@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

30 May 19

@Janet357 very true, they don't care if we're the one in need They ignore us.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

@cacay1 at least that helps you know whether they are real or not.

@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

Thats inevitable. They are just good with you when they need something from you. Sometimes this is the case.

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@Starkinds (32703)

• India

30 May 19

Yes i have few friends but all they are also for me when I'm in any kind of discomfort

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

They are true friends indeed as they love you at all times.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

@Starkinds i do have few real friends.

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@Starkinds (32703)

• India

30 May 19

@Janet357 hmm so don't worry you have few friends

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@Porcospino (31366)

• Denmark

30 May 19

I have two very close friends, my other friendships are less close, but I have known them for many years and I enjoy spending time with them when we get the chance to meet (some of them don't live in my area)

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@Porcospino (31366)

• Denmark

31 May 19

@Janet357 I agree that two is good number. One of them I have known 21 years. We have travelled together and done many other things together.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

Two is a perfect number to me when it comes to friendship. I used to have two close pals before too.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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1 Jun 19

@Porcospino it’s like a family to you. It is amazing to think that we talk more often with our friends than we talk with our family,

@Shavkat (137238)

• Philippines

30 May 19

I must admit that I have a few friends offline.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

I think most of us have few friends because we are wiser enough to pick who are real.

@rakski (112925)

• Philippines

30 May 19

I have only few friends

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@rakski (112925)

• Philippines

30 May 19

@Janet357 that is correct

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

Few but real is better than many but fake.

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@Marilynda1225 (80023)

• United States

30 May 19

I have a few very good friends but we don't live close to each other anymore. We're all retired and have moved to be closer to our grandchildren. I'm happy to have myLot where I can chat and enjoy spending time with other people.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

Do you still contact each other?

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@Marilynda1225 (80023)

• United States

31 May 19

@Janet357 Yes we keep in contact through Facebook and actual phone chats. I saw her about two years ago and we're hoping to get together again this year.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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1 Jun 19

@Marilynda1225 that is good. I seldom meet my friends. Am sure coffee will be at the center of this meeting

@DianneN (247219)

• United States

30 May 19

I have many very close and true friends, and many acquaintances and former colleagues that I am very friendly with. I’m blessed.

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@DianneN (247219)

• United States

1 Jun 19

@Janet357 I think good skin is hereditary and requires good care.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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2 Jun 19

@DianneN true! Ms. D!

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@Janet357 (75656)

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1 Jun 19

@DianneN well i notice i notice ms. D that happy people have less if not, no wrinkles at all. They have this bright aura.

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@petatonicsca (7070)

• Japan

30 May 19

I care about many people but have few really close friends. A few from each part of my life (school, college, work).

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

It was hard for me to have real friends when i still worked in the office.but in school, I had few real friends there indeed. In your case, years at work have perhaps developed true friends between you and these people.

@Aansh13 (11251)

• New Delhi, India

30 May 19

Many in number... Having friends is something I cherish... But if I have to count the number on whom I rely and trust... Just 4...

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

4 is lot for me and you are blessed already.

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30 May 19

There were many friends in school. Years passed and every year, friends are less. Yes, I have a few friends. Literally a few :(

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

Well, as time goes by, you will meet new people and they will become your friends.

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30 May 19

@Janet357 Yes, I hope)

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crazyhorseladycx

@crazyhorseladycx (39515)

• United States

31 May 19

many acquaintances, 1 true friend.

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crazyhorseladycx

@crazyhorseladycx (39515)

• United States

1 Jun 19

@Janet357 yes ma'am. sadly i've no gal friends here any longer. jest aint 'nto hair/makeup/nail polish 'n shoppin', lol.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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1 Jun 19

@crazyhorseladycx

really? That is interesting, well i dont like make-up. I like shopping but not always. I like buying groceries and furniture and appliances for the house but maybe once in a year. So you have one male pal?

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@Janet357 (75656)

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1 Jun 19

I can see that you are a reserved person. You are picky but when you make friends, it’s very true.

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@andriaperry (116860)

• Anniston, Alabama

30 May 19

I have friends but only one I would call a best friend that knows more about me than anyone.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

Am wondering who is it:)

@Hannihar (129590)

• Israel

30 May 19

@Janet357 I find it very hard to find real friends in real life. I have met people that are users and manipulators and not friends.

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@Hannihar (129590)

• Israel

31 May 19

@Janet357 I have a friend that is real and also some people in my life that are also real. I hope to find another friend to hang out with that is real also.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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1 Jun 19

@Hannihar you will meet that person someday. Of if we are married, we tend to make our husbands or wives as our best friends too.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

I understand you, but not all of them are like that, you will meet someday someone who is real

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@Nickzter1331 (4229)

• Philippines

25 Jun 19

I have few friends...

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@Janet357 (75656)

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25 Jun 19

it's okay to have few.as long as they are real.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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25 Jun 19

@Nickzter1331 someday you will.meet some. but make.God Jehovah as your.Friend. He will never disappoint you.

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@Nickzter1331 (4229)

• Philippines

25 Jun 19

@Janet357 so truwn cause i already tried to have a lot of friends and all.of them arent real.. at the end the friendship fell apart,,

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65280)

• Serbia

30 May 19

I have no friends.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

Why? Why?

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@Janet357 (75656)

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1 Jun 19

@Nevena83 oh there must be a reason why you still dwell in the past, but try to move on. Life is like a chapter of a book. You will never know what life has in store for you if you dont move on.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65280)

• Serbia

30 May 19

@Janet357 Because I got out of social life and stayed in the past, while everyone else continued on with life.

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@didinedhia (8475)

• Algeria

30 May 19

yes i have friends

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@Janet357 (75656)

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30 May 19

You musg be a likable person.

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@Janet357 (75656)

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1 Jun 19

@didinedhia well if you have a lot of friends, these people like you.

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@didinedhia (8475)

• Algeria

30 May 19

@Janet357 homme i really don't know if im a likble person or not

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