Don’t ask me to send money

By C
@ShyBear88 (59342)
Sterling, Virginia
June 29, 2019 12:45am CST
This is a first for me. Someone on here on mylot asked me to send them money to help them out. I understand what it’s like to be broke and have no money and have bills to pay but this is one thing I can’t not do. I don’t send people I don’t know money. I have a hard time sending people I do know money. I do give to those in need when I can. Don’t think the money I’ve earned that goes into my PayPal is something you can ask me to send to you because your in need. Um... no that’s a big fat NO!!!! I put a lot of time and effort into what I do earn and put into my PayPal that money goes for things that my family of 5 needs.
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23 responses
@owlwings (43897)
• Cambridge, England
29 Jun 19
That is very much against the rules here. If it was by PM, you should let Admin know. If it was in a discussion, you should hit the 'Report' button!
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
I reported!
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@maezee (41985)
• United States
29 Jun 19
I agree. That is annoying. Plus, most of us here are not loaded.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
Nope not loaded! I’m better off then I was a few years ago but it’s still a struggle and we make it.
• United States
30 Jun 19
I have helped a fellow myLotter a few bucks. And she messages me occasionally and I just ignore her because she just asks for money.
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• United States
1 Jul 19
@ShyBear88 She had a story but I don't know. I felt bad she needed a few $ to cash out PayPal or something. But nope, no more being nice to her. I don't even talk to her!
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
1 Jul 19
@infatuatedbby yeah you can’t believe anyone without some kind of evidence
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
I wouldn’t do that.
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@ShifaLk (17811)
• India
8 Jul 19
Yes right. How can we give all that to someone
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
8 Jul 19
Yep
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
8 Jul 19
@ShifaLk welcome
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@ShifaLk (17811)
• India
8 Jul 19
@ShyBear88 and thanks for sharing with us. That's helpful
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@dya80dya (36805)
25 Jul 19
I wonder how some people can be like that. Money earned here is hard earned money. I wouldn't give it unless that person is facing serious health problems.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
25 Jul 19
I probably still wouldn’t give to them since I don’t know them.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
25 Jul 19
@dya80dya anyone can lie
@dya80dya (36805)
25 Jul 19
@ShyBear88 They can lie.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
29 Jun 19
I totally agree with you. And it is against the guidelines of the site. Each one should work to earn. I would not give my hard earned money to someone I do not know. Internet is full of such scams.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
Yes the internet is and social media as well.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
3 Jul 19
@arunima25 very true
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
29 Jun 19
First time I heard somebody did that around here.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
Definitely a first being asked on here at all.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
6 Jul 19
No. I wouldn't either.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
7 Jul 19
Ok
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@NJChicaa (127116)
• United States
29 Jun 19
That is pretty nervy to ask someone to send them money.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
Yes
@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
29 Jun 19
That's the first time I have heard of such a thing. Not an appropriate thing for this site.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
Indeed I agree with you, they have been reported just so you know. That’s not something I would let slid.
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@porwest (112717)
• United States
2 Jul 19
In all my years in social media sites like this one I have never been asked for money, so that's a first. I would have felt the same way. No way. Not in a million years. This money is mine. Go get your own.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
3 Jul 19
Yep, do your own time many your own money you don’t own anyone it other then whatever you need to use that money for.
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@porwest (112717)
• United States
3 Jul 19
@ShyBear88 Exactly.
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@Janet357 (75638)
30 Jun 19
really? inl thought it was only on emails.yes you have a family of 5 and and you need it also.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
I didn’t get an email they commented in one of my post asking to give them money and posted there email for there PayPal for money to be sent to. UM no!
@florelway (23339)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Jun 19
Money earned here are hard earned ones. How can they have the nerve to ask for that?
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
Don’t know good questions!
@florelway (23339)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Jun 19
@cacay1 yes really Grrrr,
@jnrdutton (3447)
• United States
23 Jul 19
People shouldn't be begging for money from other users here. Seeing as the site itself allows people to earn, there's no excuse for people to be panhandling.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
23 Jul 19
Yes that is very true
@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
29 Jun 19
as owlwings has said, it's against the rules. here's what it says: "myLot Community Guidelines However, here is a list of behavior that is never tolerated. Requesting donations, posting charity requests or petitions." reference:
This is where you will find out what kinds of behavior are accepted and unaccepted on myLot. When in doubt, remember the Golden Rule!
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
Thanks, I already know the rules those
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
29 Jun 19
I have never been asked from anyone here. On Facebook, but never. I would not just send anyone money anyway.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
Yes on Facebook I see it often one of the groups I’m in as lots of struggling single moms but they have to prove to admins they are really in need. They dig deep to make sure they are not lying. So some times if I can I send $1-$5 if I can or even offer a gift card I’ve earned.
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@Sojourn (13833)
• India
29 Jun 19
This person has crossed the line. I agree with @Kahl39 about this.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
Yes they did cross the line and I reported them for it.
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@Ladanger (14572)
• United States
19 Jul 19
That person should interact and earn money on here like the rest of us.
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@Starkinds (32737)
• India
29 Jun 19
Right first learn and then earn.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
Yes!
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@Starkinds (32737)
• India
30 Jun 19
@ShyBear88 it's true
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@cperry2 (5608)
• Newport, Oregon
29 Jun 19
wow, but not really a surprise. I see that this is something against the rules, as it should be. Any who might be tempted to send me such a request, don't bother.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jun 19
Yes it is against the the rules and I reported that comment it was made so I could be removed or the person removed .