Life Does Have Its Joys!

Thank you for your kind words and support, Lots of joy
@DianneN (246334)
United States
July 21, 2019 7:31am CST
Many of you know our younger son is in the process of divorcing his wife. Many of you know that we are blessed with another son who is the father of our two precious grandchildren. Right now, he and his wife are visiting the kids. It’s Parents Visiting Weekend. They drove to Maine first to visit our granddaughter. The photo is one taken at 4th of July. She is the one in the middle, between some of her very bestest of friends, including Lionel Richie’s granddaughter, Nicole Richie’s daughter (on the left). Our son texted me that she LOVES camp. Yesterday was spent in New Hampshire at our precious grandson’s camp. He LOVES camp, too! Our son and daughter-in-law will spend several days in New England before driving back to New York City. I’m sure they will eat lobster for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. We do have plenty of joys in life to see us through the next few months. We are blessed with two sons and two grandkids whom we love to the moon and back, a loving family, and so many wonderful friends right here on myLot and in real life.
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@LadyDuck (457321)
• Switzerland
21 Jul 19
I would love lobsters for the three meals too, not for many days, but for a few days I would. They are a wonderful happy family.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
TWINS I could do two solid days of lobster eating, but then the enjoyment would wear off.You know what they say about too much of a good thing. Thanks. At least one side of the family is happy right now.
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@LadyDuck (457321)
• Switzerland
21 Jul 19
@DianneN Youo get tired even of the most delicious thing after a few days. I am sure that your older son will be of a great help to your younger now.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
@LadyDuck You are right except for martinis. Yes, our older son has been very helpful to our younger son and such a great brother. He isn't a divorce lawyer, but knew where to send him in Connecticut.
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• United States
21 Jul 19
Eating lobster 3 meals a day doesn't sound like a bad thing to me! Love it. But, I would settle for once a day. There is always joy to be found, we just need to look for it. Even on the darkest day, there is a glimmer of sun.
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• United States
21 Jul 19
@DianneN Well, maybe I could eat it 3 times in one day at least!!!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
@ElusiveButterfly I think you could force yourself at least one day.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
They can do it and so could I. Lobster omelette for breakfast, lobster roll for lunch, and lobster for dinner! Thank you. You know what you are talking about and so do I.
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@kareng (54307)
• United States
25 Jul 19
Now you have me thinking of lobster. I guess I'll have to settle for a veggie omelet. I'm glad the grandkids are enjoying summer camp.
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@kareng (54307)
• United States
28 Jul 19
@DianneN Nope, but I like veggie omelets. I'm trying to eat healthier.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
26 Jul 19
Are you a vegetarian? Thank you. The kids love it there. It's so good for them to be out of the city in the summer.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
29 Jul 19
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@wolfgirl569 (94747)
• Marion, Ohio
21 Jul 19
Glad they are having a great time.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
Thanks! We are, too. They couldn't wait to go and their parents couldn't wait for them to go, too!
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@wolfgirl569 (94747)
• Marion, Ohio
21 Jul 19
@DianneN But then the parents miss them
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
@wolfgirl569 They love not driving all over the place for hockey and ice skating. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Yes, the parents miss them, and were looking forward to seeing them.
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@just4him (305417)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Jul 19
That's wonderful they LOVE camp and are having a great time. It's great they could visit the kids during parent's weekend. Lobster three times a day sounds like a good deal to me. I love lobster. It's been a long time since I have it. The price here is outrageous.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
Thanks, but you knew from previous years how much they love camp. lol Lobster must be even more outrageous where you live than where we are. It's like ordering Dover sole here.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
22 Jul 19
@just4him Thanks. Dover sole is white. It's also very delicious, but expensive since it's flown in fresh daily from Dover, England. Low cal, too. lol
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@just4him (305417)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Jul 19
@DianneN Yes, I know they did in previous years. I'm glad they still like it. By the way, great picture. I haven't heard of Dover sole. What kind of fish is it? White or ?
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@DocAndersen (54413)
• United States
21 Jul 19
That is a great way to look at things, find the joy! Camp, now that brings back memories!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
Thanks! There is lots of joy to be found if one looks. Did you go to sleepover camp?
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
@DocAndersen Sounds like you had some fun summers growing up!
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@DocAndersen (54413)
• United States
21 Jul 19
@DianneN i did several different times. Plus my mother shipped me off to my Grandparents house every summer for at least a month!
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
21 Jul 19
A beautiful picture of happy children! Yes, it's good to focus on our blessings! Have a beautiful Sunday!
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
21 Jul 19
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
Many thanks and the same to you, too, Felix.
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@much2say (53907)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Jul 19
Glad the kids have been having a great summer at their camps! Happy travels and eats to their parents . Enjoy all the wonderful blessings you have - you are one lucky lady and we are lucky to have you as a friend too .
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@much2say (53907)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Jul 19
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
Stop making me tear up! I love you, too.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
22 Jul 19
I did not know I like your attitude to bits. That is called art of living
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
25 Jul 19
@DianneN I am sure you must be doing everything to diffuse the situation for you and your husband.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Jul 19
Yes, it’s called the attitude of living. The alternative is much worse.
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@divalounger (5849)
• United States
28 Jul 19
It sounds like you have a loving family--hopefully, the divorce is not too stressful for everyone involved.
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• United States
28 Jul 19
@DianneN I know--but once done, usually everyone is happier--
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
28 Jul 19
@divalounger We are waiting for that time to arrive. We want to see if she and her lawyer tries to take his house.
@DianneN (246334)
• United States
28 Jul 19
Thank you. Unfortunately, divorce is very stressful.
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• China
22 Jul 19
Isn't she the ice princess ? Two grandkids are the apple of your eye.
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• China
23 Jul 19
@DianneN You are welcome ! Both of them love ice sports.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
22 Jul 19
Yes, she is our ice princess! Our grandson should be called our ice prince, since he is goalie for 3 ice hockey teams. lol Thanks for remembering. They are the apple of my eye! . Thank you so much.
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@LeaPea2417 (36392)
• Toccoa, Georgia
22 Jul 19
Diane, I am shocked! I am in the minority here ,, I didn't know your younger son and his wife are divorcing! Didn't they marry not too long ago? From all you have mentioned here, they seemed very happy.
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@LeaPea2417 (36392)
• Toccoa, Georgia
24 Jul 19
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Jul 19
Thank you. It was a huge shock to us, too.
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@Hannihar (129377)
• Israel
22 Jul 19
@DianneN So Nicole's daughter is back at camp with her again. I am glad you have good news to share. I am glad she loves camp. I did not like it. Who is the other girl on the other side of her? I am so glad you have a lot of good things in your life. I wanted to ask if Doodles understands what is going on? I am glad both grandchildren love their camps and your son and daughter-in-law are happy too.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
22 Jul 19
Nicole’s daughter is her bunk mate. They have kept up their friendship all year. I don’t know the other girl. Thank you so much for your support. I did tell Doodles and he’s happy to see that cheater and liar go.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Jul 19
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@Hannihar (129377)
• Israel
23 Jul 19
@DianneN I know when I got my divorce and was free of him my dog and cat were so happy that we were rid of him. That is so nice that they kept their friendship up. I know your son is happy about being rid of her but I know he is sad. I felt very free when I was divorced because that was a horrible marriage all the way around.
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
22 Jul 19
I have a good experiences about camping especially outdoor one. I am talking about the Boy Scout movement. It's good to hear about your grandchildren. I know they'll enjoy their summer camping.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
22 Jul 19
My brothers were also Boy Scouts! So glad you had a good experience. Thank you. My grandkids look forward to camp every summer. It's a great experience for them.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
22 Jul 19
@Nakitakona I’m so happy to hear that. Camp has so many wonderful benefits.
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
22 Jul 19
@DianneN Lately our three grandchildren joined their youth conference camp for three days within the city capital. It's attended by the youth members of the Church coming from different units and branches in.our district. According them, they enjoyed the camp. They found new friends and learned to develop their self-confidence and self-esteem.
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@shaggin (71659)
• United States
23 Jul 19
I haven't been very active here. I meant to look you up on here about a week ago and catch up on your posts. I didn't know your younger son who was more recently married then your other son is divorcing his wife. I am so sad to hear this news. I can't imagine what happened. Last I knew they had moved into their own home. I am very glad your grandkids are doing well and enjoying their summer.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
23 Jul 19
I haven't been around here much since returning from Florida. Not to worry. All this about the divorce is recent. It is very sad, but he doesn't want her back. He's feeling much better now after being in despair. I needed to think of the good things in my life to help rid my mind of the horrible shock of the divorce. Thank you! Missed you.
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@rebelann (111073)
• El Paso, Texas
28 Jul 19
Great shot of your grand daughter and friends. It's been decades since the last time I had lobster.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
28 Jul 19
Thank you. I last had lobster at my birthday dinner.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 19
You are truly blessed with these two lovely granddaughters and two handsome and financially stable sons.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Jul 19
Thank you. My son’s work hard for the lives they want. Thinking of my blessings helps put things in perspective with the divorce my younger son is going through.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
26 Jul 19
you have a beautiful family with your son and his wife and kids. surely this should overcome the hurt caused by your other son's divorce with his wife.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
26 Jul 19
It helps put things in perspective, but I still feel so badly for our son and what he is going through right now. At least we know she is not asking for alimony so far.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Jul 19
Says the proud granny!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
Is it that obvious?
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Jul 19
@DianneN Just a little bit!
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@raveeen (3457)
21 Jul 19
That's good! Sounds like you really have a happy family
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
21 Jul 19
Thank you! You missed my last post, but we are a basically very happy and loving family.
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@raveeen (3457)
22 Jul 19
@DianneN Oh what a blessed family you have hehe :)
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