Things only go good for so long before they fall apart..story of my life!

@Happy2BeMe (87167)
Canada
August 12, 2019 8:19am CST
My fiance just lost his job. Just when things were going good in our lives and really looking up. Financially we were doing so well for the first time in a long time and now we are back to just my income and to barely surviving. Jobs are hard to come by and it took him years to find that one so who knows what lies ahead for us but it isn't good. I know I haven't been here much but I just need somebody to talk to. I am feeling pretty upset and sad and I don't want to show him those feelings. I know he is feeling the same way and I don't want to add to that. :(
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@amadeo (99439)
• United States
12 Aug
Good morning.That is so sad to hear.Funny here in US we have plenty of jobs.They cannot filled them and most business are closing because lack of help.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
I wish it was that way here but sadly it is not the case.
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@Shavkat (77804)
• Philippines
12 Aug
I can feel your sentiments about this concern. I used to be in this kind of situation before. The ending, we separated ways when she got her job.
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@Janet357 (22554)
12 Aug
ouch!
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
Sorry to hear that.
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@Janet357 (22554)
12 Aug
i know this feeling. you are right. dont show it that you are sad. just cheer him up. i remember one of your post. last year i think. you were so happy then when your.fiance got a job. maybe he can resort to other.fields. keep on praying. God Jah knows what you need. have faith.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
Thank you. Yes we were so glad when it happened only to have it end like this. But we will get through it.
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@Janet357 (22554)
12 Aug
@Happy2BeMe dont worry, i experienced that too, And am sure a lot of mylotters.experienced that too. but there was something better in.store for us. there was a time that i could hardly find.a job when i got.it, i.just worked for 1.5 years and started my small.business. sometimes creating an opportunity is the solution to our problem.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
@Janet357 Thanks you are so right. My faith will get me through this. We have had more then our share of rough times with jobs and health issued but we get through them. Giving up in never an option.
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@LeaPea2417 (26081)
• Toccoa, Georgia
13 Aug
I am sorry to read this.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
13 Aug
Ya it was a shock but we will get through it.
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@LeaPea2417 (26081)
• Toccoa, Georgia
13 Aug
@Happy2BeMe I will keep you two in my prayers.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
14 Aug
@LeaPea2417 Thank you..prayers are always appreciated
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@infatuatedbby (103022)
• United States
12 Aug
Bummer Easy to write hard to apply but I hope he does find another job soon! Not sure in Canada, but will be get some sort of unemployment in the meantime to help out a little until he can find another job.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
Yes he will be able to but that can take up to a month to go through.
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• United States
13 Aug
@Happy2BeMe It will be better than nothing. I do hope it processes much quicker. I hope all works out for you and your fiancé.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
13 Aug
@infatuatedbby Thank you Michelle
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@marguicha (124484)
• Chile
13 Aug
I hope he finds a job soon.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
13 Aug
Thank you
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@marguicha (124484)
• Chile
13 Aug
@Happy2BeMe You are welcome!
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@sharon6345 (190034)
• United States
13 Aug
Oh i am sorry for that situation.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
15 Aug
Thank you
@NJChicaa (62961)
• United States
12 Aug
I’m so sorry
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
Thank you..we will get through it someway somehow.
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@marlina (84552)
• Canada
12 Aug
Sad news but I hope that something good will come up very soon.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
Thank you
@JohnRoberts (87781)
• Los Angeles, California
12 Aug
Life does not get any easier.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
No it never does.
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@snowy22315 (72241)
• United States
12 Aug
That is tough. Can he get unemployment at least? He may have to do something he doesn't want to do for awhile.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
Yes he will be able to if he has enough hours worked. It will take a month or more to get that up and running.
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@Ladanger (8997)
• United States
13 Aug
Wow sorry to his this. I know here in the city there are many jobs but maybe you live in the country side? He can go on indeed or ziprecruiter to atleast apply.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
15 Aug
We life in the city but in an area where the unemployment rate is high
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@Ladanger (8997)
• United States
15 Aug
@Happy2BeMe sometimes good jobs are in the next town or state over and transportation is needed.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
15 Aug
@Ladanger It is just the part of the country that we live in but everything will work out.
• Barquisimeto, Venezuela
13 Aug
I understand how you feel. It is frustrating, but have faith that things will improve with God's help. Remember, when the night gets darker, it is because dawn is closer.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
13 Aug
Thanks..I love that quote and it is so true.
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• Barquisimeto, Venezuela
13 Aug
@Happy2BeMe Here, wishing that things are going better for you today.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
13 Aug
@profree2019 Thank you
@dodo19 (37225)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
12 Aug
I'm really sorry to hear about this. It's hard. I've had a hard time hanging on to a job, and have mostly relied on my husband and his income. So I can definitely understand and relate. It's not easy.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
13 Aug
I know and as you get older it gets more difficult.
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@dodo19 (37225)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
15 Aug
@Happy2BeMe Absolutely. It does get harder. I will keep my fingers crossed for you guys,
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
15 Aug
@dodo19 thank you
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@Bensen32 (5796)
• United States
12 Aug
Sorry to hear that. hope he find something soon. Hope it is just opening him to something better. Stay positive.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
I hope so too. We have to believe that there is a reason for everything even though it is hard to see now.
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@Bensen32 (5796)
• United States
12 Aug
@Happy2BeMe Yes, it usually happens for a reason, just got to stay positive. Don't let it drag you down.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
@Bensen32 Thanks.
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• United States
12 Aug
bless both y'alls hearts, hon. 'tis 'lways diff'cult when one loses their job. self-esteem goes right out the window'n many cases. i hope he's able to find somethin' soon. perhaps he could do some local volunteerin' there'n y'alls community? does wonders fer ya when ya feel ya can help somebody free 'f charge. gets ya out'ta the house 'n meet new folks. perhaps e'en somebody who knows 'f the perfect job fer him'n his skills.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
13 Aug
Thanks for the wonderful words of support and advice.
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• United States
13 Aug
@Happy2BeMe yer welcome, ms. laurel. y'all're gonna be 'lright, jest keep the faith ~
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@Gillygirl (35923)
• Sutton, England
12 Aug
I am so sorry to hear this Lauren. I hope something comes along soon
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
Thank you
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@Gillygirl (35923)
• Sutton, England
12 Aug
@Happy2BeMe You're welcome
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@Tina30219 (42318)
• Onaway, Michigan
12 Aug
So sorry to hear this I hope he finds something else soon. Can he get unemployment until he finds something else
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
He will be able to but there is always a waiting period and time before it goes through. It can take a month or more so In the mean time there will be no money coming in but what I make. Oh well we will get through it someway somehow.
@Tina30219 (42318)
• Onaway, Michigan
12 Aug
@Happy2BeMe You sure will.
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@Starkinds (8133)
• India
12 Aug
Please be clam. Tell him to find another job. May God is great. So please have faith.
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
12 Aug
Thanks..he is already looking for another job
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@Starkinds (8133)
• India
12 Aug
@Happy2BeMe okay may soon allow goes well
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@averygirl72 (16884)
• Philippines
15 Aug
I'm sad to hear this things are not going perfect as we want it to be. I would be very depress but I will just pray that God would help me in moments like this
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@Happy2BeMe (87167)
• Canada
15 Aug
Yes it is good to keep the faith through the difficult times