My eldest grandson will come to live with me for a while.

@marguicha (230350)

Chile

September 29, 2019 7:53pm CST

I thought I had told you but no. Daniel asked me while I was in Aruba and only Coral know about it. Daniel called me while I was on vacation telling me that he was leaving the place that he was renting. He lived in a sort of community house and he did not get along with the other people there. Tania is in Europe now and after she comes back (and after her ex? BF leaves, she wants to part her house in 2 and rent the second floor. So Daniel cannot stay there and he wondered if I could have him. I said yes but yesterday I invited him to talk about the thousand rules of the house. I don´t know what will happen. It is easier to help someone giving a room to be used as a warehouse than to have a person living with me. From yesterday on, he has been moving so many boxes that I wonder if he will have a place to sleep. I´m sure that Leticia will not be very happy. We´ll see.

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@LadyDuck (502484)

• Italy

30 Sep 19

If he approved the rules I hope he will also remember to respect them.

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

1 Oct 19

I remember more rules as hours go by. Poor boy!

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

1 Oct 19

@LadyDuck I will, if needed. But he is a nice young man.

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@LadyDuck (502484)

• Italy

1 Oct 19

@marguicha I did the same with my niece, she respected let's say, the first week, better to remind the rules time by time.

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Tina Dalasinski

@Tina30219 (82978)

• Onaway, Michigan

30 Sep 19

I hope it goes well with him staying with you

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

30 Sep 19

I hope so. He needs a place to stay right now.

Tina Dalasinski

@Tina30219 (82978)

• Onaway, Michigan

30 Sep 19

@marguicha That is good he is staying with you then he can help you out as well

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

1 Oct 19

@Tina30219 I don´t think that he will help much. He studies a lot.

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@rakski (156481)

• Philippines

30 Sep 19

How long will he be staying there? I hope he finds a place of his own soon

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

30 Sep 19

We don´t know. It depends on how we get along.

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

1 Oct 19

@rakski Thank you so much.

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@rakski (156481)

• Philippines

1 Oct 19

@marguicha good luck

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@TheHorse (238306)

• Walnut Creek, California

30 Sep 19

How old is he?

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

30 Sep 19

He is 27 years old. I hope I will not have any problems. But I am telling him what are the house rules.

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

30 Sep 19

@TheHorse He has lived on his own for some years in different countries. He saved money being a street musician in Switzerland and a worker in a farm in the US for some time and bought here a piece of land with a sort of community with like minded people that want to protect the natural resources and plant native trees. You´d like him, I think. But I´m an old lady and so is Leticia. And we don´t want dirty dishes piled up in the kitchen although he can bring his friends and make music until 3 am.

@TheHorse (238306)

• Walnut Creek, California

30 Sep 19

@marguicha Is he a "responsible" individual? I was in Graduate School in psychology when I was 27. I liked to drink, but I was responsible overall.

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@LindaOHio (222408)

• United States

30 Sep 19

I certainly hope that it will work out for you. I tried having a roommate once when I was a lot younger; and she moved her boyfriend into the apartment; and I had to send her packing.

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

1 Oct 19

My house is big. I hope we get along.

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

4 Oct 19

@LindaOHio I´m sure we will. This week has been very nice for both of us.

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@LindaOHio (222408)

• United States

1 Oct 19

@marguicha I hope so too!

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

30 Sep 19

I hope it all works out for you.

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

1 Oct 19

I hope so too.

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@shaggin (74987)

• United States

30 Sep 19

That is nice you are allowing him to stay. I hope he will follow your rules!

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

1 Oct 19

He is nice, he loves me and he is not so young (almost 28 years old).

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@RasmaSandra (98004)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

30 Sep 19

I sure hope it all works out but what does Luna have to say about this? Does she get along with Daniel and will you both have your own space? I wish you the very best but it can be difficult,

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

30 Sep 19

Luna is an outside dog. So what we have to work out is about Daniel´s and my space. Luna has the whole terrace, most of what used to be my garden and a new concrete block second playground near the entrance of the house.

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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl

@1creekgirl (44560)

• United States

30 Sep 19

I wish the very best for you.

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

30 Sep 19

Thank you so much.

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@noni1959 (13048)

• United States

30 Sep 19

Hope it works out for you. It can be very hard with family living with you.Rules and ways of life can interfere.

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

30 Sep 19

We talked a lot about my house rules. But he is a man so I hope that he knows what I mean. He is 28 years old. He should know by now how to live with me.

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@JudyEv (382104)

• Rockingham, Australia

30 Sep 19

If you have set the groundlines from the beginning that will surely help. Good luck with this. I hope it works out for both of your sakes - and for Leticia's too.

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

1 Oct 19

I´m sure she will like him. He remembers when someone says what he likes.

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@JohnRoberts (109841)

• Los Angeles, California

30 Sep 19

Will you enjoy the company?

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

1 Oct 19

Yes. Although each of us will live our lives.

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@Kuttu_007 (1939)

• India

30 Sep 19

Hope you have a great time with your grandson

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

30 Sep 19

I hope so too.

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@Janet357 (75638)

•

30 Sep 19

well it is better to discuss everything with the members of the family involved.

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@marguicha (230350)

• Chile

30 Sep 19

I´ll see what happens.

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