No Chance Mate, You Will Not Get That Out Of Me.......
By Sue21
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
Pamplona, Spain
October 10, 2019 5:21am CST
One day just another one of those days when we were living in one of the worst parts of this place anyone can get to live in as we had no choice at the time.
A guy came buzzing the door bell at the front door of the flat.
As per usual it was usual for me not to open the door to just anyone and looked through the keyhole thing in the middle of the door here we call it mirilla little spyhole thing.
I asked who he was and straight away he turned his back on me as he knew I could see him.
He was asking if I knew about a certain girl that was from another country and that she was living in our flat.
So I thought right mate I can see what your game is and obviously she was not living in the flat and I had never heard of her but he was very persistent and said that she had to be there.
I said no way was I going to open the door and I did not know about the said girl.
This was a real shady creepy guy and I thought about the girl whoever she was she was well rid of him as he was flying into a rage.
I said "not on your nelly am I going to tell you anything about anything so there" truth to tell I was very discreet and kept saying no I did not know her at all and I was English and id not understand him very much which was a big fib but who cares?
Not on his nelly was I going to tell him even if Knew anything about her so there.
He gave up and later on I found out by listening to gossipers that she had lived around there but in another number of the street and that he was not a good guy at all so I am glad I did not give him any information which I did not have anyway.
All I can say was he was real creep which the women confirmed to me just by what they were saying.
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27 responses
@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
10 Oct 19
He did sound like a creep. Good that you didn't open the door. Even I don't like sharing personal information about anyone without their knowledge. Anyway you had no information about the girl.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
10 Oct 19
That is so right I did not know about her at all but the women around there although they gossip some of them they mean well and they helped to keep that coward at bay by saying nothing.
Even if I had known about her no way was I telling him where or who she was not on his nelly.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
@arunima25
I never share anything with anyone have to say on any level.
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@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
11 Oct 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 Yes. That is not good to share personal information to others without the permission.
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@betlynfrnds (4060)
• United States
11 Oct 19
You can never be too careful these days. Watch yourself, don't turn your back on anyone. I hope this creep-o doesn't bother you anymore.
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@betlynfrnds (4060)
• United States
11 Oct 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 Thankfully he never came back. Hopefully he never does. 
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
12 Oct 19
@betlynfrnds
I think I have seen much worse than him too around over time.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
Thank you he never came back thank goodness us girls the ones I knew at least from the shops kept that up about watching out for her and none of them knew her either.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
10 Oct 19
you was very good about it. I would have called authorities right away. he was lucky
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
11 Oct 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 scary. I had one husband like that in the '70's
One time a neighbor lady came outside and told him to get away from my door as she had seen how he had beaten me
she had a shotgun in hand and threatened to use it if he didn't leave. He left too
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
12 Oct 19
@bunnybon7
So sorry to hear that Bun really am that is why he made me wary from the start.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
It would have done no good Bun as they want to know what his face was and not the rear end he was showing me and he even went to the edge of the stairs in the darker part so I could not even see that end properly.
He knew what he was doing alright.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39515)
• United States
10 Oct 19
i would'a been reportin' that fella to the authorities. since ya'd her name, perhaps they could've located'n warned 'er this fella 'twas'n the hunt.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
@crazyhorseladycx
Men like him abounded where I lived so unless you saw his face you could not say well he is that tall and that short they are only interested in his face and he hid it from me.
Some smart ....
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
10 Oct 19
Oh I think that the other women in the street took care of all that as they had become wise to him and told him to go and lose himself.
It was not possible to see his face ever he did the same with other turn his back on them really creepy guy.
Thank goodness the girl is safe.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39515)
• United States
10 Oct 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 i'd still phoned the cops, particularly since he hid his face.
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@DocAndersen (54413)
• United States
10 Oct 19
you have to take care of and protect you! good job!
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
10 Oct 19
Thank you and although I don´t have a daughter of my own I have sons and whoever it would have been at the door asking no way was I going to tell them anything either woman or man.
Its very tricky to live in flats here you have to be so very careful even if you know the neighbours.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
10 Oct 19
@DocAndersen
Very tough world and we all have to be careful within reason of course.
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@DocAndersen (54413)
• United States
10 Oct 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 it is a tough world sometimes.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
I did not have time to be scared really I just wanted him to get out of there and so he did after all the no, no stuff I was giving him heck she could have been my daughter.
From what I gathered she was from Russia or the Ukraine somewhere around there.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
15 Oct 19
@Nevena83
I felt protective of a young girl from another place like Russia.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
15 Oct 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 I can only imagine how you felt.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Oct 19
Glad you trusted your instincts about him.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
10 Oct 19
It was easy for me to see that he meant to harm that girl whoever she was she would have been in big trouble with him for sure.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
@LovingMyBabies
If she was able to I think she must have hopped it right quick to another city to be free from that no good person.
Yes he was really bent on that she lived where I was living but that to me was just a ploy to be even more sneaky than what he already was.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Oct 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 I'm so glad he didn't go to the correct house then!
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I'm glad you didn't trust this stranger.@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
10 Oct 19
Wow, the bad feeling I was getting about him was from the stance he was taking by hiding his face and his not very nice voice too.
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@smileyhema (4606)
• United States
11 Oct 19
Oh my God. But, good that you'd handled that way.. it's better to ignore these guys without going to details.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
I did igrnore him and eventually after about 20 minutes he went away and never came back.
I would not call the Police as here you have to have facial indentification of the said person and all he was showing me was his back all the time and so was showing me his lack of sincerity.
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@smileyhema (4606)
• United States
13 Oct 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 Yeah, that's what I meant. You handled it in a good way of not indulging to provide many information..
I also get that part of complaining to the police. That involves a lot of effort..
@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
14 Oct 19
You did the right thing to tell him nothing, he sounds awful. I would have called the police.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
14 Oct 19
Awful or not if I could not see his face I could not really tell them anything they don´t already know as there are quite a few men around there like that.
Also there are a few girls from other countries that come here thinking they have perhaps found a paradise when it is totally the contrary.
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
12 Oct 19
Well done you! I would not give any information to a creep like that either!
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
12 Oct 19
Thank you all I did was to think of such a young girl running around this place its just not safe for them.
They have to get their papers in order to be able to get a job and a better place to live in.
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
No chance of me opening that door for sure he was a real sneaky person and I just kept saying no and he got fed up oh but he was riled by that alright.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
13 Oct 19
No way was he going to get anything out of me no way.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
10 Oct 19
Thanks,, my first concern was not for me but for that girl whoever she was would be in danger with that kind of person.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
Well he was a creepy person doing what he did he had a menacing voice for sure.
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@allen0187 (58438)
• Philippines
10 Oct 19
I wouldn't have opened the door as well.
I might have called the cops about him as well.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
Thing is it would have done no good as if you could not see his face it was a waste of their time at least for them.
@ptrikha_2 (45454)
• India
11 Oct 19
Some folks can be really dangerous and obnoxious.
He must have been a local bad person or a goon who might also had been misbehaving with women.
But you dealt in a firm way.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
Yes I think he was some kind of you know what picking up younger girls.
See if you don´t have proper papers here you have had it if they find you out.
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@marguicha (215325)
• Chile
10 Oct 19
I neither open my door to people I don´t know nor give any information by phone to strangers.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
Me even less Margi,
He was scruffy and really shady to say the least.
@RasmaSandra (73326)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
11 Oct 19
Good for you not opening the door to someone like that.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
Deffo, I was not going to give a young girl away and I did not know about her anyways as there were and are a lot of them around with no proper papers.
Thing is now they are going to have it tough to get proper papers so now I don´t know what they will do in the future.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Oct 19
Well I am not living there now thank goodness its not a nice place to live in except for the people you get to know.
Some insist on living there but I certainly don´t.
I hope all women stay away from him really.
