Horrible start to the day

@shaggin (71673)
United States
October 11, 2019 9:52pm CST
Yesterday my boyfriend started being a jerk and it led to me being too upset to sleep. After my kids went back to school I laid back down because thankfully I didn’t have to babysit. He and I messaged back and forth and talked things out. I had such a headache I had to get up and take an Advil. I laid around until 1pm on the couch with my dog getting up often to go to the bathroom which is what happens when my nerves get bad. Then I got up and made myself coffee. I finished a movie that I had started watching yesterday called “Me without you”. I watched it because Michelle Williams is in it but I didn’t care for it. My sisters ex messaged me on Facebook asking me to talk to my sister to get her to let him see his son. Every few years when he he’s clean he does this. I don’t take sides. He kept messaging me telling me I needed to do the right thing. I can’t force my sister to do anything! I was nice the whole time but then told him I would tell her and to stop messaging me. He said I have no heart just like her. That enraged me. He just couldn’t handle that I wouldn’t take his side. So I blocked him. I watched two more movies “The poker house” which had Jennifer Lawrence in it and is a true story. I really liked that one. really good. “The spy who dumped me” had Mila Kunis in it and I liked that one too. My boyfriend came by with a new food dish he bought my dog. Since I haven’t been able to get out to take her on longer walks he took her out for me. We watched an episode of Bates Motel and I was so bummed at the way season 4 ep 9 turned out. My kids went to the park together tonight for about a half an hour. My daughter wanted to buy my dog a Halloween Costume. I browsed Amazon, Walmart and eBay and found the Pikachu one in the photo which is a stock photo from the listing page. It was under $5 with shopping. It’s something she can wear all the time now that it’s getting chilly but it’s thing enough it won’t make her hot.
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19 responses
@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
12 Oct 19
Your daughter would be glad with the Halloween costume.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@Alexandoy we are both excited. I can't wait to put it on our dog.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
12 Oct 19
Try it on the dog and post the picture.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@Alexandoy I might after it arrives.
@sallypup (58197)
• Centralia, Washington
12 Oct 19
I hope you continue to feel better.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@sallypup thank you!
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• United States
12 Oct 19
I would have responded to your sister's ex by saying it was between the two of them and doesn't involve you. Then block him if he continued to be a jerk. I don't get involved with things I have no control over. Better for my emotional well being.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@ElusiveButterfly I was nice but when he started being a jerk that was when I blocked him. I kept telling him there's nothing I can do but let her know what he said but he kept bugging me. Oh well now that he is blocked I won't have to deal with him anymore.
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• United States
14 Oct 19
@shaggin sounds like he was more than a jerk. More like a stalker type.
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@LadyDuck (459718)
• Switzerland
12 Oct 19
I am sorry your boyfriend has been a jerk, I hope you are no more angry now. You did the right thing to block the ex of your sister. It's not up to you to take sides or oblige your sister to do anything. I like this cute costume.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@LadyDuck She and I do not always see things the same way. Even if I did but in on this one it wouldn't change her mind. It's not my business how she raises her kids.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@LadyDuck yep I was willing to relay his messages but to stay out of it otherwise
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@LadyDuck (459718)
• Switzerland
12 Oct 19
@shaggin I fully agree with you, the best is not to give unwanted advice.
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
13 Oct 19
And I thought your horrible days would be over. The costume is so cute!
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
14 Oct 19
@DianneN well the day full of things that went wrong breaking things etc is gone. I don't expect to have a crazy day like that again for quite some time. The horrible start to my day was due to people not being nice. Things are better today and it's been a calm weekend.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
14 Oct 19
@DianneN aww thank you!
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
14 Oct 19
@shaggin You deserve calm and all people being nice to you..
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
12 Oct 19
I am glad you and the boyfriend talked things out
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@andriaperry thank you!
@tammys85 (29952)
• Baltimore, Maryland
23 Oct 19
I'm sorry your day started off bad, but I'm glad you could work things out. That dog costume is so cute!
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
23 Oct 19
@tammys85 thank you! The costume looks cute in person too but unfortunately is quite long on my dog.
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@tammys85 (29952)
• Baltimore, Maryland
30 Oct 19
@shaggin Aww. We have two smaller dogs (and one medium-sized dog), so I get it.
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• United States
12 Oct 19
Sounds a little bit of a roller coaster day for you. Hope you are doing okay and relaxed now Shanny.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@TiarasOceanView I guess it was a bit of a roller coaster. Today has been very calm and boring but better then stressed.
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• United States
14 Oct 19
@shaggin Yes much better good.
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• United States
15 Oct 19
Sorry your day started out bad, but it looked like it ended well.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
15 Oct 19
@Carmelanirel2 yes it got better thankfully.
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@cahaya1983 (11120)
• Malaysia
14 Oct 19
Sorry to hear that you had to deal with all that drama, hope you feel better. Also, that's a cute costume!
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
14 Oct 19
@cahaya1983 The costume should arrive in a few days. I'm excited to try it on here. This weekend was calmer then when I wrote this Friday.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
12 Oct 19
nice costume. Horrible start but ending nicely
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@rakski yes it was a really bad start but was better by the end. I can't wait to put the costume on my dog!
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
12 Oct 19
@shaggin that is nice
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@Happy2BeMe (99390)
• Canada
12 Oct 19
That is a cute costume and a good price too. Hope today is a better day for you.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@Happy2BeMe I was so surprised at the low prices of the costumes on there. Thanks to mylot I was able to pay for this with my PayPal account
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@Happy2BeMe (99390)
• Canada
12 Oct 19
@shaggin That is a good way to spend your earnings
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@Janet357 (75656)
13 Oct 19
i feel your headache. there are days in our lives when the people around us will just piss us off. at least in your case you can still focus on what you watch even if you are angry.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
14 Oct 19
@Janet357 it wasn't me being in a bad mood that caused everyone around me to annoy me. It was just them not being nice. I was surrounded by jerks.
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@Janet357 (75656)
14 Oct 19
@shaggin yap. they are everywhere
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Oct 19
Hope tomorrow will be a better day for you.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
13 Oct 19
@CarolDM today was better. Boring but better. I'll take boring over a bad day anytime.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Oct 19
@shaggin Absolutely.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
12 Oct 19
Sorry that your boyfriend has been nasty to you. No wonder all that gave you a headache. Well done for blocking the ex of your sister. This is a very cute little costume.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@maximax8 my boyfriend tends to bottle up what bothers him for along time then blows. He needs to work on that! I can't wait to get the costume in the mail and try it on my dog.
@snowy22315 (170756)
• United States
12 Oct 19
Sounds like it was a tough day but it could have been worse.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
13 Oct 19
@snowy22315 absolutely. Any bad day could always be worse so thank God it wasn't.
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@jstory07 (134752)
• Roseburg, Oregon
12 Oct 19
I hope you and your boyfriend worked everything out.
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@jstory07 we did thank you very much!
@RasmaSandra (73861)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Oct 19
That is very cute and I hope your dog will like wearing it, I hope you have a much better Sunday
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
14 Oct 19
@RasmaSandra only a few more days until it arrives I can't wait. My Sunday was very nice thank you! I will write a post tomorrow night probably.
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@sol_cee (38222)
• Philippines
12 Oct 19
So Pikachu is famous over there?
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@shaggin (71673)
• United States
12 Oct 19
@sol_cee a few years back who Pokemon go was a huge hit my kids started buying the Pokemon cards to collect. We went and saw the movie Detective Pikachu in the theater this past summer.