Selling my childhood scooter....
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
Perth, Australia
October 19, 2019 5:53am CST
I'm trying hard to get rid of things around the house that are just taking up space. I split things up as much as I can between donating them or selling them. Some money would really come in handy as stupid Christmas is approaching. Don't mean to sound like a grouch but maaaaaaaan! I just want one year with no celebrations so I can build my damn money up! Every year I save then back to being broke in January! Bah to the Humbug! 
Anyway, I put my childhood Scooter up for sale this evening and someone has taken an interest. Said she will come tomorrow to collect. Not too excited yet as sometimes people suck at committing to a buy. Even worse, sometimes people don't even let me know if they will be late or coming at all. 
My goodness I sound like I'm in a horrible mood this evening! 
I won't regret this sale but I am sad to see it go. I got it in the 2000's so I was just a kid. But I have to be realistic. I don't use it anymore and it's just taking up space. And the extra money will help.
I think the most hardest things for me to let go of are items that belonged to my mum. I have done quite well over the years but there are still items that really should go but I can't say goodbye to them. It's just hard but hopefully over time I can do it!
Have you ever had to sell something that was hard to let go?
****photo is of my Scooter****
Anyway, I put my childhood Scooter up for sale this evening and someone has taken an interest. Said she will come tomorrow to collect. Not too excited yet as sometimes people suck at committing to a buy. Even worse, sometimes people don't even let me know if they will be late or coming at all. My goodness I sound like I'm in a horrible mood this evening!
I won't regret this sale but I am sad to see it go. I got it in the 2000's so I was just a kid. But I have to be realistic. I don't use it anymore and it's just taking up space. And the extra money will help.
I think the most hardest things for me to let go of are items that belonged to my mum. I have done quite well over the years but there are still items that really should go but I can't say goodbye to them. It's just hard but hopefully over time I can do it!
Have you ever had to sell something that was hard to let go?
****photo is of my Scooter****18 people like this
18 responses
@moffittjc (128835)
• Gainesville, Florida
19 Oct 19
It has never bothered me to sell stuff of mine that I don't use anymore, but I had always hated getting rid of clothes, toys or furniture of my kids. Because they all have so many wonderful memories attached to them. But, we can't keep everything forever, or else we'd have no space at all in our homes! So I always take lots of pictures of things, so we can at least have memories of the stuff when we look back at the pictures. And of course, I've kept many small things that have special meaning to me.
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@moffittjc (128835)
• Gainesville, Florida
23 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 I’m going to take lots of pictures of YOU! So I can keep them with me. And speaking of, I need some more pictures!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
23 Oct 19
@moffittjc Aw how sweet! I imagine me being the same way if I'm ever a mother. But I like to take photos too. If I'm about to get rid of anything, I take a photo to keep as it takes up way less space than the actual item.
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@WorDazza (15826)
• Manchester, England
23 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 Caught them off guard too!!
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@LadyDuck (502466)
• Italy
23 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 I had a meltdown a couple of years ago buying gifts. That made me so stressed that I did not enjoy Christmas at all, that year I decided no more gifts for Christmas. I will surely bake.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
23 Oct 19
@LadyDuck Thank you. 
I'm sorry you struggled at that time getting rid of things. But yes like you said, can't keep everything.
And no gifts for Christmas would literally make my Christmas. I don't want to not do anything but thinking I will make Christmas foods like cookies or something. Had a little meltdown last year during Christmas from buying gifts and I can't keep doing this. Christmas shouldn't be miserable! 
I'm sorry you struggled at that time getting rid of things. But yes like you said, can't keep everything.
And no gifts for Christmas would literally make my Christmas. I don't want to not do anything but thinking I will make Christmas foods like cookies or something. Had a little meltdown last year during Christmas from buying gifts and I can't keep doing this. Christmas shouldn't be miserable! 2 people like this
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
24 Oct 19
@LadyDuck Sorry you had a meltdown! 
It really does become too much! And I feel as if Christmas is becoming more and more of people stressing trying to get presents on time as well as trying hard to afford them. It's not really simple and fun anymore.
It really does become too much! And I feel as if Christmas is becoming more and more of people stressing trying to get presents on time as well as trying hard to afford them. It's not really simple and fun anymore.2 people like this
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 At least you'll have a picture of it. We do what we can to earn money. I'm sorry you don't have a job.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
23 Oct 19
@just4him I agree. And all good Valerie. Thank you kindly. 
Like you said, doing what I can to earn money but I'm hoping in January next year, I can start a Childcare Course. Which from there, hopefully get a job once the course is over.
Like you said, doing what I can to earn money but I'm hoping in January next year, I can start a Childcare Course. Which from there, hopefully get a job once the course is over.2 people like this
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
23 Oct 19
@just4him Thank you kindly! I love it.
I like to do both. Because I don't have a job right now, it helps me to make extra cash so sometimes that will be from selling things that I own. But a lot of stuff does go to charity or to people I know could use what I have. Same as you, I couldn't give away anything too sentimental. I will keep photos of this scooter but keeping the actual scooter is just taking up space.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
23 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13
I have seen those around here a lot and I was thinking of one for when I do not use my mobility scooter but then thought I would rather walk until I cannot. I can see why they would take an interest. They are very popular. I understand why you are not excited about someone showing interest and saying they will come the next day. I hate when people say they will buy something and wonder if they will show up to get it. It is nice and I cannot see why she would not come to get it the next day. I would not say you are in a bad mood. I would say you want to sell it and there is nothing wrong with that. Dani, you do not have to explain why you are selling it to anyone. I can see why that would be hard. Is there something you can keep from your Mom's stuff or do something special for your Mom to keep her memory alive for you. I either sold some things tjhat were hard to sell or gave them away because did not need them anymore.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
24 Oct 19
@Hannihar Thank you Hanni. It does just become so frustrating with how often people back out or how often people aren't considerate enough. It really does my head in!
I already have a box of my Mum's stuff and a big doll that was hers. I used to have a lot more but slowly got rid of it over time because they weren't really sentimental. I was only keeping them because it was all hers but it was taking up so much space in our small house. I don't really intend to go through her box again any time soon. I'm just focusing on my stuff for now.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
24 Oct 19
@Hannihar The woman didn't show up. She backed out completely but a man did buy it today so it's gone. I also managed to auction off a vacuum that we don't need anymore so that's another big thing to leave the house. And will try to sell / auction more things off tomorrow.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
24 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13
I understand that. Did the person show up? I understand why want to have things around from your Mom. They were apart of her. Good idea focusing on your stuff.You are welcome.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
19 Oct 19
My son had the same scooter. It will be nice to get some extra money. I have a hard time parting with anything that has any sentimental value that is why i still have so much of my kids toye and things from when they were little.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
23 Oct 19
@Happy2BeMe Unfortunately the woman who really wanted this backed out just at the time she was supposed to be here to pick it up. I had a strong feeling this would happen. Happens a lot and it's so frustrating.
aw that is so sweet! I am pretty sure I'd be the same way if I am ever a mum. I'd get too attached to their toys like you are with your kid's toys.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
23 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 sorry to hear she backed out I find people do that a lot when you try to sell things.
Awww I am sure you would be. too.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
28 Oct 19
The buyer will be a good person and do all the right things that they should and pay out right at least I hope they do.
Too many things I have had to let go of more than I would care to tell but that is long ago now.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
29 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13
Exactly, do not give them anything without they pay you first and for them not to persaude you to take the price down either good luck.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
29 Oct 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 When I first started selling things online ( when I was a young teenager ) I was too much of a doormat and too nice to people. I'm still nice! I just mean that my niceness was taken advantage of and I fell for a couple people's sob stories. Not long after dealing with those types of people who didn't pay me or tried to scam me, I became tougher. Still nice! But stricter. No one gets anything unless I receive payment first.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
29 Oct 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 Exactly right! And thank you kindly.
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@Orson_Kart (8259)
• United Kingdom
24 Oct 19
I have moved house many times and take the opportunity to get rid of unnecessary stuff each time. I've never had any of my childhood toys or treasured possessions since I left home 40 years ago.
If I still had them now I probably couldn't do it as they would have such sentimental value. My mum threw all my stuff out years ago so I can't get them back now. Shame
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
24 Oct 19
@Orson_Kart I'm sorry your mum threw all your stuff out! I don't like when parents or anyone does that. It really annoys me!
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
30 Oct 19
Aw yes I have that is a cute little scooter Dani. Sorry you are selling it.
I lost a lot of items.
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
3 Nov 19
@VivaLaDani13 Its okay Darling thanks so much you are so sweet.
Its okay Darling thanks so much you are so sweet.1 person likes this
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
2 Nov 19
@TiarasOceanView Thank you Oshy! It's ok. Was a little hard getting rid of it but doing alright about it. I'm sorry you've lost a lot of items!
It's ok. Was a little hard getting rid of it but doing alright about it. I'm sorry you've lost a lot of items! 1 person likes this
@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
26 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 I'm fine Dani, I hope you are too.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
26 Oct 19
@jaboUK Thank you very much. I did manage to sell it to some other dude. Sold it for $10 but I'm happy to get that. Every dollar helps me. Hope you're doing well!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
26 Oct 19
@jaboUK That is good and yes thank you. I'm doing alright.
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@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
19 Oct 19
It looks brand new then I read you got it in the 2000s when just a kid! You are a baby compared to us old folks.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
23 Oct 19
@JohnRoberts I'm still taking that as a major compliment if I may. 
I have this fear that I'm really old. NOT saying being old is to be feared. I just mean, I feel old and unsuccessful with where I am in life. So whenever someone calls me young, I feel a bit better. So even through your joke, thank you.
I have this fear that I'm really old. NOT saying being old is to be feared. I just mean, I feel old and unsuccessful with where I am in life. So whenever someone calls me young, I feel a bit better. So even through your joke, thank you.2 people like this
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
24 Oct 19
@JohnRoberts Well thank you. Gives me more hope and motivation.
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@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
23 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 I was not joking. You are a "baby" compared to many of us here. You have plenty of time to accomplish in life.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
24 Oct 19
I had to sell and part with my motorbike many years ago because I seldom used it anymore. I loved and took good care of that motorbike. It looked almost brand new when I sold it.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
26 Oct 19
@sunrisefan I'm sorry you had to part with it. Hope you were happy with the price you got for it.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
27 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 No problem with the price. It’s just that I felt bad seeing my motorbike in shabby condition.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
26 Oct 19
@nela13 Sorry you also have things that are hard to let go. It really can be stressful. And it's good you only give presents to family. I'm sure that saves money and a lot of stress before Christmas.
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@nela13 (59365)
• Portugal
27 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 yes, I don't spend too much money for Christmas. What is important is being with our family and friends.
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@isweartokira (3459)
• United States
19 Oct 19
I had one of these too, and also was very sad to get rid of it. but I know some other kid out there is enjoying it :) but I still miss that thing, and my roller skates!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
23 Oct 19
@isweartokira I totally agree with you. I hope wherever my scooter goes will be enjoy by another kid.
Awww! I'm sorry you miss your roller skates! 
Have you ever bought a new pair for yourself just so you could ride around in? Not saying it will replace your memories but I just mean to ride around again?
Have you ever bought a new pair for yourself just so you could ride around in? Not saying it will replace your memories but I just mean to ride around again?2 people like this
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
23 Oct 19
@isweartokira I hope someday you can.
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@isweartokira (3459)
• United States
23 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 I've honestly thought about it a few times but there isn't anywhere great around here to skate. maybe someday though
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@JESSY3236 (22245)
• United States
23 Oct 19
Yeah. It is hard. I do have some of my grandmother's clothes still.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
24 Oct 19
@JESSY3236 Sure can be! And I can only imagine getting rid of your grandmother's clothes would be so hard to do.
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
30 Oct 19
You are a resourcefull person. Find a way to make it economically easy on you. Atleast until you get a job and start earning regularly. Like you mentioned you can cook what they like or a handmade gift?
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
10 Nov 19
@Daljinder That's the sad thing. I actually love Christmas. I love buying people presents. I love watching them open their presents. I love looking at the lights and decorations. I'm just tired of every year being the same where I'm still in the same position. I don't look forward to those feelings. Life wise and just financial wise. It's not that I don't want to celebrate it. I just wish it didn't feel like it comes around so quick and hate how I have trouble with money. Like I wish I could have a Christmas as an adult where my life is content but ( again as an adult ) I don't think I've ever really felt that.
lol and I love what you said at the end! You're awesome. Thank you.
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
2 Nov 19
@Daljinder Thank you DJ! I've sold a few more things since then but that money will help me through Christmas. But yes, I will be trying to do baking goods and / or handmade gifts if I can.
The thought of Christmas makes me sad every time I hear about it. I literally, honestly 100% am not excited about it.
I've sold a few more things since then but that money will help me through Christmas. But yes, I will be trying to do baking goods and / or handmade gifts if I can.
The thought of Christmas makes me sad every time I hear about it. I literally, honestly 100% am not excited about it.1 person likes this
@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
3 Nov 19
@VivaLaDani13 Maybe it's time you finally decide that enough is enough. It only stresses you out year after year. A festival is supposed to cheer you up. Not put you down. Honestly, it sounds more like its a burden on you.
You need to find a way that makes you happy where this festival is concerned. You are already more than halfway to resenting the festival which is not good coz someday you will have your own family. You wouldn't want to be the one just barely tolerating the festival with your future family. You would want to enjoy it wholeheartedly. Time you set a precedent now!!
Your family and friends will understand if they have even an ounce of care in their heart for you. And if they don't then tell'em, DJsays, "Dani isn't asking you. She is telling you." You do NOT need anyone's permission or approval. You have my understanding in advance. 
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
23 Oct 19
@thelme55 I'm sorry you also find it hard to let go of things! I do hope you do well selling your clothes if you decide to.
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@thelme55 (79324)
• Germany
23 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 Yes, I hope I can sell some.
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@Butterfingers (66603)
• India
28 Apr 20
Sorry to know about it. Wish I can help you but I feel how you must have felt selling this scooter
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
28 Apr 20
@Butterfingers Thank you for your lovely comment.
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