She Complains About Her Job Almost Daily
By Diana B.
@BloggerDi (3121)
United States
January 3, 2020 1:10pm CST
One of my Facebook friends frequently posts about how much she dreads her job. She makes personal statements and shares memes too. This has been going on for many months.
Okay, I understand that we are all human and have bad days. I complain about various issues too sometimes. But I am getting frustrated with my friend!
I just want to say "Alright, we all know that you hate your job!! But have you even tried to get another one? What are you doing to make your situation better?
It reminds me of a cleaning job I had when I was in college. My work partner complained from the time we clocked in until we clocked out. I started dreading my job, not because of the work itself, but because I was stuck with a whiner for four hours every week night! 
Do you know someone who complains constantly? Do you tend to be negative a lot? Please share your thoughts.
Do you know someone who complains constantly? Do you tend to be negative a lot? Please share your thoughts.7 people like this
7 responses
@crazyhorseladycx (39503)
• United States
3 Jan 20
i hear that some can lose their jobs due to such via social media?? i do my best to be positive, such doesn't 'lways work out that way. can relate to others whinin' makin' yer tasks unpleasant. my last "real" job i renamed those i worked with's the 'snake pit'. lots 'f ugliness 'mong that lot.
why don't jest ask her such? if'n 'tis schtuff she's no control o'er with management, then she needs to seek 'mployment elsewhere. then 'gain, some folks seem to thrive off the whinin', particularly when there's so many who'll dish out sympathy...
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
11 Jan 20
@crazyhorseladycx I do not ever put anything out there that I would not want to share with employers, etc. Not even on here for just that reason. I also do not test stuff.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39503)
• United States
4 Jan 20
@BloggerDi hmm, she aint the sharpest knife'n the drawer coz 'unless she's spoofed/private, anyone can share said posts with her boss 'n other upper management.
yer welcome, hon. i'm plum full 'f worthless info, lol.
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
4 Jan 20
One time I asked her if she was worried that her boss would see her negative posts. She said she purposely declined her boss's friend request for that reason.
I think I will just ask her why she doesn't look for another job @crazyhorseladycx.
Thank you. You always have good insight about all kinds of subjects.
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
5 Jan 20
Thank you @mrki444. I agree. People shouldn't make assumptions about things they have never done.
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@mrki444 (15162)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
5 Jan 20
@BloggerDi Try it. This is my advice especially for Young people.
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@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
3 Jan 20
From what I understand it use to be people complain when they do not have a job. If only people think of their jobs as a blessing, i could understand we all get burnouts at times from what we do but personally I would rather keep it all to myself, not make a big fuzz with a lot of people who are unemployed living in a poor country like me
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
3 Jan 20
Yes, you make an excellent point @louievill. Thank you.
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
3 Jan 20
Yes, I agree @TheHorse. This woman is not my best buddy, but I feel fairly comfortable with her. I think I will message her or ask in person, if she has considered finding a new job.
@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
4 Jan 20
Thanks @JudyEv. You and I are alike then. I'm glad I don't work with her.
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
11 Jan 20
Some people seem to do this hoping someone else will fix it for them. They take the non-direct method of coping. I have been so fed up with my job at times that I have either quit outright, or found another job, or did a lot of praying which also helps. Sometimes there are ways either to change the job, or your perspective on the job to make it doable. I am sure we would all prefer to sit at home and do our hobbies instead of work but it just does not pay the bills.
