A Living Goddess – Kumari Devi
By Judy Evans
@JudyEv (382104)
Rockingham, Australia
January 24, 2020 3:55am CST
When Vince was in Kathmandu in 2015, he visited Durbar Square and was able to see the Kumari or 'living goddess'.
It is a Hindu tradition for high priests to choose a young girl, between 4 and 7, as the Kumari Devi. She is believed to be the incarnation of Durga, goddess of destruction and blood sacrifices. She will belong to the Sakya community. There are 32 'attributes of perfection'. Shape of teeth, voice quality, eye colour are all important. The Kumari Devi must have the 'neck of a conch shell' and the 'eyes of a cow'. She is also obliged to pass several tests. One of these involves being placed in a darkened room with severed animal heads. Grotesquely masked men dance around her and try to frighten her. Other rituals and tests finally identify the true Kumari.
Once the Kumari Devi has been selected, she moves with her family into the Kumari Bahal and remains there until her first true menstruation. She only leaves the residence a few times each year on ceremonial occasions. The goddess appears to tourists occasionally through one of the three upstairs windows of the house. These are adorned with elaborately carved wooden frames. Whenever she goes outside the house, she must be carried as her feet are not allowed to touch the ground.
We saw the Kumari yesterday but I don’t have a photo to show you. I have a postcard I can photograph but that is back in West Australia. There were several guides and a handful of tourists in the courtyard waiting for the Kumari to make her appearance. We’d been told ‘no photos’ of the Kumari. The guides made sure our cameras were down but had to speak twice to a Japanese lady. Then, just as the Kumari was about to appear, there was a shout from one of the three windows as her teacher had spotted the woman at the back of the group, still intent on taking a photo. This time she scuttled off so didn’t get to see the girl.
The photo is of one of the buildings in Durbar Square. You can see the poles propping up the walls. Many of the buildings had lots of props around the walls as a result of the earthquake.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39503)
• United States
25 Jan 20
most fascinatin'...'n scary 't the same time. what happens once she's reached that stage'n her life?
'tis so sad that so many buildin's 'f great historic meanin' were completely destroyed. kind'a shocked so many survived. looks mighty shaky, that proppin' job, but certain they've 'd engineers lookin' 't such. 't least i sincerely hope so.
i dunno why some folks'll not listen, hades bent 'pon havin' their own way. grown 'dults ought not need to be told not to do somethin' more'n once, eh? bet jest bein' there'n seein' that young'un 'twas quite the 'xperience though!
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@crazyhorseladycx (39503)
• United States
27 Jan 20
@JudyEv aw, jest a mere babe! what happens to 'em 'n their families though when they leave?
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Jan 20
@crazyhorseladycx They go back to being 'normal' but of course it's not quite that simple. There is more help and education now to try to help them assimilate back into society but it must still be quite hard.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
24 Jan 20
I had read about it. I went to Nepal as a teenager and don't recall visiting it. Despite of being a Hindu, we don't have such ritual here in India. I had read once that when Kumari comes back to normal life, they take a bit to become normal ones again and many face issue with walking.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jan 20
@arunima25 I guess it is a tradition much like all the other festivals. But of course it does involve a child.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
28 Jan 20
@JudyEv That is good. Maybe in coming year with more progressive thoughts and society they might totally abolish the practice.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Jan 20
We weren't allowed to take photos in the Royal Palace today either - had to hand over backpacks which were locked in a locker but then both of us were patted down to make sure we weren't smuggling anything in to take photos with. Then another frisking on the way out to make sure we hadn't stolen anything. Interesting about the different terms.
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@rebelann (117238)
• El Paso, Texas
25 Jan 20
How interesting. I hope that woman who had no respect will not be allowed to visit them again.
Interesting building, I especially like the bell.
I will pray that during your visit there will be no more earthquakes or any thing else that might be dangerous.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Jan 20
@rebelann You do form 'real' friendships here. Although I rarely need to vent, I feel I can unload the odd burden here without it affecting anyone in the same way it would affect family/friends if I were to tell them. I truly value the chats I have with you and with some others here.
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@rakski (156506)
• Philippines
24 Jan 20
I read yesterday after your post an ex-kumari that her life became normal and she is already a regular student in school. But when her life as kumari ended she had a hard time walk-ing. Her parents needed to assist her to learn to walk again.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Jan 20
I posted the same thing twice so just deleted the other one so your comment has been deleted too. You won't lose any pennies though. I think they take more care now to see that the girl is educated and can lead a more normal life after being a goddess.
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
24 Jan 20
Wow, thank-you very much for sharing this, it was very interesting. I love to learn about different cultures.
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
24 Jan 20
@JudyEv I bet. I find it so interesting. I will have to go and find your other posts.
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
24 Jan 20
ohhh my goodness... I'm not sure I'd want that life for any child really ...

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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
24 Jan 20
I wish you can take the picture of the Kumari Devi. It is very interesting since this is the first time I've heard of it.
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
24 Jan 20
@JudyEv okay, willing to wait.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Jan 20
When I get home I'll put up a photo of the postcard. It's a different goddess but otherwise the dress and make-up are all the same.

@garymarsh6 (24026)
• United Kingdom
25 Jan 20
Fascinating traditions but poor girl having to put up with all that nonsense. It would be classed as child abuse in the UK. Shame you are not able to take photos in these places.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Jan 20
I think it is time for some of these age-old traditions to die out.
@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
24 Jan 20
the traditions of other countries are always fun. I had never heard of this, thank you!!!!
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Jan 20
Vince was very intrigued when he first heard about it.
@snowy22315 (208952)
• United States
24 Jan 20
It all sounds kind of primitive honestly.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Jan 20
You're right. Strange old traditions carried on down through the centuries.
@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Jan 20
You're welcome, Alfredo. Hope you're having a good day.
@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Jan 20
Wow, I didnt know all that, I had heard a little but not that much.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Jan 20
The Kumaris used to find it very difficult once they stopped being a goddess but now they do at least give them an education and allow them to have a few friends, etc.






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