Giving and receiving advice.

@besweet (9861)

Ireland

February 29, 2020 1:37am CST

Some people are very passionate about giving tips and advice on all subjects within their knowledge. They become very excited when someone asks for their opinion. My best friend is like that, she will invest a lot of time and truly provide the best information in her powers and she is very effective. Are you the person everyone calls to get your opinion and advice? Are you open to receiving tips and information from others?

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@JudyEv (326052)

• Rockingham, Australia

29 Feb 20

It's nice that your friend is so kind about sharing her knowledge. I would do my best to help someone but only if they asked for my advice or help.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

29 Feb 20

She is doing it when someone asks and offers to help, but I can see how enjoyable it is for her to offer help. Even if it's simple opinion about a restaurant that she went or more important matters.

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@JudyEv (326052)

• Rockingham, Australia

29 Feb 20

@besweet Some people just love to help others, don't it? She sounds a lovely friend.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

29 Feb 20

@JudyEv Yes she does it with passion. I told her she should turn it in a profession.

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@Iam_jauntyjen (4951)

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29 Feb 20

Not really. But I am a person who people call to when they need a hand. Sometimes, when they need money hahaha.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

29 Feb 20

It's good when people call you and you can offer your help! For money I am not so sure it's good.

@rappeter13 (8608)

• Romania

2 Mar 20

I also like to share my knowledge and I try my best to explain the things as much as I can. I guess the fact that I am a tourist guide has made me like this.

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@rappeter13 (8608)

• Romania

2 Mar 20

@besweet it has changed the way I am. I was a shy person and now I am very communicative. Sometimes, even too communicative.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

2 Mar 20

@rappeter13 It's a positive change, I think it can help you very much professionally.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

2 Mar 20

As a tourist guide you need to provide the best information to your group. I undestand how this can extend to our personal.life also.

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@msdivkar (23359)

• India

29 Feb 20

I am neither good at giving advice nor like to give one so also does not like to receive one from anybody.

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@msdivkar (23359)

• India

29 Feb 20

@besweet Very true. Why give unpaid advice and get in trouble. I will rather advise on paid basis on my subject.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

29 Feb 20

@msdivkar That's the next step for the paid advice. I told my friend that she should do it professionally and get the benefits.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

29 Feb 20

I have someone very close to me who sounds like you. Always looking at his own business and doesn't ask or give advice. Sometimes when you give advice you can even get in trouble without expecting it, I think that' what he is trying to avoid. Is it like that or it's just different point of view?

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@Shavkat (137221)

• Philippines

29 Feb 20

I just advise if someone wants to have it. But I'm not going to pretend to be an all-knowing person.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

29 Feb 20

When giving advice and tips to someone can be helpful for them then it's a very kind gesture to try and help.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

1 Mar 20

@Shavkat That's true, it depends on the person.

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@Shavkat (137221)

• Philippines

1 Mar 20

@besweet I agree. However, it depends if a person would listen or not.

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@Alexandoy (65308)

• Cainta, Philippines

29 Feb 20

I am open to receiving advice and tips but not through Facebook messenger. Some people have the temerity to send such advice and warning without my solicitation so I am annoyed.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

29 Feb 20

That's very strange to send unwanted advice through messanger. Are they trying to sell something?

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@Alexandoy (65308)

• Cainta, Philippines

29 Feb 20

@besweet the messages are usually fake news that they couldn't post on their timeline. One is the bombing of malls... sent by my cousin last December. I blocked him.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

29 Feb 20

@Alexandoy I never had experience like that. Only sometimes I am added in group discussions by someone but I leave as soon as I get the message without reading because I assume it's a virus.

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@RebeccasFarm (86782)

• United States

1 Mar 20

I am very open to any help, especially if I am not knowledgeable regarding a topic. Not many ask my thoughts no.

@LadyDuck (458628)

• Switzerland

29 Feb 20

I am open in receiving tips and I am glad to give my advice when people ask.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

29 Feb 20

I enjoy doing both too. When someone wants to give advice without being asked I will listen carefully also, especially if it's work related and I trust them.

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@LadyDuck (458628)

• Switzerland

29 Feb 20

@besweet I always listen, if what I hear is worthless I forget.

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@DianneN (247099)

• United States

29 Feb 20

It is awesome that you have such a friend! It’s a two way street with close friends. I’ve given advice to many when asked. Some advice was accepted and some not. My best friend and I trade information and tips all the time.

I do appreciate receiving tips and information from others.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

1 Mar 20

We have been friends since the first year of college, we are lucky to have each other. We live far away from each other now. It's great that you exchange tips with your friend, sometimes our best friends can give the best advice because they know us so well.

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@DianneN (247099)

• United States

1 Mar 20

@besweet Too bad you and your friend don’t live closer. I’m far away from my best friend, but she’s coming to Florida this month, so we will definitely get together. We are very similar in tastes, so we share tips about everything!

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@thelme55 (76484)

• Germany

1 Mar 20

I am open to receiving tips and information from others but I just wait if someone ask my opinion as it might not be welcome to others. It depends anyway who ask me.

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

1 Mar 20

It depends on the person I agree. Also it depends if the advice comes from someone we trust, I find that people who knows us very well give the best advice because they take under consideration our character and our needs.

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@thelme55 (76484)

• Germany

1 Mar 20

@besweet I agree 100% with you.

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@resukill22 (25052)

• Las Pinas City, Philippines

2 Mar 20

Yes I am so we know the thought of other

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@besweet (9861)

• Ireland

3 Mar 20

Sometimes other people might give you great ideas, I find it interesting to hear another point of view most of the times.

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@resukill22 (25052)

• Las Pinas City, Philippines

3 Mar 20

@besweet yes true

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