Handing out our handout

@JudyEv (382016)
Rockingham, Australia
April 18, 2020 6:01pm CST
Vince has been to Nepal three times and has some good friends there now. One family belongs to the highest caste and have some backing behind them. Another girl, we’ll call her Monica, is not so lucky. On the second visit, he took several Australians with him to visit Monica and her family. Some of them have visited her on other occasions. For a couple of years now, we have been paying the school fees for the girl’s nephew. Because of the coronavirus, seniors in Australia have received government handouts. We earmarked half of ours for next year’s fees for Neev, the little boy but have since discovered that the situation in Nepal is dire. We found a way to send money to Nepal without wasting heaps of it in fees. Vince’s Australian friends and ourselves have now sent money to Monica. Here is what she is doing with the money. Some has gone to a single mother who was on the point of starving; she has bought supplies for her husband’s grand-mother who had no food, she has bought essential medicines for her husband and father-in-law, both of whom are diabetic, and with the rest, she is buying supplies for her own and her in-law families. Hopefully, this will tide them over the worst period. Once again, I’m counting my blessings. The photo is of some school-children in Kathmandu.
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@noni1959 (13035)
• United States
19 Apr 20
You all are such a blessing. I had to watch a video for my class today called, "Challenging the Cultural Stigma of Disability in Nepal." The more rural country people seem to suffer much more with poverty. The Rose International Foundation, founded by Rob Rose, is one I'm going to be sending donations to.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
Nepal is a very poor country. It's good of you send donations. They really do need all the help they can get.
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@id_peace (17036)
• Singapore
19 Apr 20
I do hope that they will be able to pull through with this.
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@id_peace (17036)
• Singapore
19 Apr 20
There is so much we can do. I do like to believe that they will help themselves. Our help will help to enhance their living standards.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
I don't know what happens when what we sent is all gone. We can't keep doing it.
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@rebelann (117220)
• El Paso, Texas
19 Apr 20
You two have kind souls.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
Thank you. I'm glad we were able to help.
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Apr 20
The mention of starving reminds me of some neighbors renting rooms in the compound here. Many of them lost their jobs and there is no financial aid from the government even if it was on the news since 2 weeks ago. I wonder how those neighbors survive now on their own. They have families to feed.
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Apr 20
@JudyEv well, there is nothing much we can do although I know that you are doing your share to help. This is a very sad situation.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
It would be a terrible situation to be in. And there must be dozens and dozens having problems at the moment.
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@moffittjc (128832)
• Gainesville, Florida
19 Apr 20
That was such a wonderful thing to do with the money you received from the government. I'm sure the people of Nepal that you helped are very grateful for your generosity.
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@moffittjc (128832)
• Gainesville, Florida
19 Apr 20
@JudyEv Taking care of people always comes first.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
Thanks. We are supposed to be helping our own economy but when it comes to buying something I don't need as against helping someone buy food, it's a no-brainer.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 20
That's great you could help in that way so she could help her countrymen.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 20
@JudyEv Yes, it is. It's great you never experienced that.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
I've never even been close to having to go hungry. It must be really awful to have no money for food.
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@topffer (42155)
• France
19 Apr 20
That was perhaps not the way your government wanted you to spend this money, but you can be proud of it. Are people also confined because of the virus in Nepal, or is it because of a hard winter or something else that they lack of basic things like food now ?
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@topffer (42155)
• France
19 Apr 20
@JudyEv Very sad situation, a lockdown impacts people very hard in a third world country.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
I know we were supposed to 'stimulate the economy' but we have no need of anything and these people are starving. The country is in lockdown because of the virus; there are no tourists; I think all the people we know have lost their jobs and I don't think there is anywhere for them to go to to get help.
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
19 Apr 20
we were surprised to receive "relief goods" 3x now. we know the barangay tend to prioritize the depressed areas here. we will be dividing them between my 2 brothers and their respective families once the lockdown has been lifted.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
I'm sure the handouts much be very welcome even if you are not in great need. It's nice to be able to share too.
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
19 Apr 20
You and your husband are amazing for helping Monica and her family.
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
20 Apr 20
@JudyEv I'm sure they were very happy and appreciative.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
Thank you but we are fortunate to be able to do it.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Apr 20
@simone10 They have sent little clips on FB saying 'thank you' so that's nice.
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@wolfgirl569 (135690)
• Marion, Ohio
19 Apr 20
Glad you found a way to send it without losing a bunch in fees.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
It really puts you off sending money when they take so much in fees.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Apr 20
@wolfgirl569 It's the banks that are taking the fees in this case. There are at least three banks involved because ours doesn't have branches or links to Nepal so they have to use an interim bank which also takes a bite out of the money.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
19 Apr 20
my handout went to pay off medical debt, so that we have more freedom to tighten our belts a little.
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• Centralia, Missouri
20 Apr 20
@JudyEv yeah, that's a big deal, and that money will cover a month IF NOT less for a lot of people. Wife and I are lucky to still being paid
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Apr 20
I know many here will need it just to pay bills too. We (Vin and I) have so much to be thankful for.
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@Dena91 (17039)
• United States
19 Apr 20
We never fully understand how blessed we are until we see the needs of others. You and Vince, and your friends are a blessing. Thank you for being so compassionate.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
Thanks for the kind words. I just can't imagine what it must be like to have no money and no food in the house.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Apr 20
Couting your blessings is a good thing. Cute photo.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
Everyone in Nepal seemed so happy but it would be a bit different at the moment.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Apr 20
@JudyEv Yes things are changing all over now.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
19 Apr 20
it is when we give that we make the world a better place. Thank you to both of you!
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Apr 20
Thanks for the kind words. Our help is only a stopgap but you do what you can do, don't you?
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
20 Apr 20
@JudyEv we do what we can do.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
19 Apr 20
@JudyEv Judy, thank you for sharing that with us.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Apr 20
You're welcome, Hanni.
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@LindaOHio (222310)
• United States
19 Apr 20
I'm so glad that you received the money and were able to donate it to people in need. That's very generous of you.
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Apr 20
We can do without the handout but we can't continue to support them indefinitely. I hope their country comes out of this okay.
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• India
19 Apr 20
It's a great feeling to help and help the needy is a great thing in these circumstances
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@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 20
You are so right. It is always a great feeling to help others.
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