Empty Nest Syndrome Today

@CarolDM (203396)
Nashville, Tennessee
April 20, 2020 12:14pm CST
Went out slowly checking on the thrasher bird babies earlier. I know it is almost time for them to fly. It has been about 10-12 days since they were born. I saw them yesterday for a second before being bombarded by the parents. Today... they are gone. Flown from the nest to start their new lives. I feel like a mother who lost her child again. Empty nest syndrome as they call it. But there are more nests being built. This nest was challenging to monitor but the babies were protected. More stories to come soon I hope.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
20 Apr 20
They flew away so soon it seems. Will you leave the nest there?
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
20 Apr 20
@CarolDM That’s good to know. We leave our nests, too.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
@DianneN Yes it is part of life.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
The normal time is 10-12 days after hatching for thrashers. I will leave the nest. Some birds will re-use the nests.
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@AmbiePam (120533)
• United States
20 Apr 20
That must have been so cool. I love seeing nature like that.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
Yes it was, and there are more nests to share soon.
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@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
20 Apr 20
I was thrilled when the gang I had here on my bug zapper that year left...I didn't have to worry about them anymore! Rejoice!!! They have flown the nest.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
Yes I just worry about them, but that is part of the process.
@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
20 Apr 20
Do any of the birds still use the nest at all, or do they all just abandon it once the babies leave and fly away?
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@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
20 Apr 20
@CarolDM I was wondering if the babies would fly back home to the nest each night as they slowly acclimated to their new world, and then when they felt brave enough, left the nest permanently to venture out into the big bad world. But I guess once they leave, they leave, right?
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
@moffittjc No, once they leave the nest, they don't return. The parents show them how to survive the next few weeks.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
Depends on the species. I left it alone, some species do re-use.
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@NJChicaa (127116)
• United States
20 Apr 20
You love your birds
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
Crazy bird lady here.
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@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
20 Apr 20
They seemed like they were too tiny to fly; but I guess they managed OK. Thanks for keeping us updated!
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
It is so scary when they leave but the parents stay with them for weeks after they fly to show them what to do. I cross my fingers that will be safe.
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
20 Apr 20
That`s sad but that`s how birds are. They are free to fly wherever they want
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• Germany
20 Apr 20
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
Yes it is part of the process.
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@allen0187 (59648)
• Philippines
21 Apr 20
The birds cannot stay in the nest for the rest of their lives. They have to move out sooner or later. There will be new babies to keep you company real soon.
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@allen0187 (59648)
• Philippines
21 Apr 20
@CarolDM nice! Looking forward to seeing more photos of these new nests.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
@allen0187 Thanks!
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
Yes I have seen other nests.
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@Juliaacv (56195)
• Canada
21 Apr 20
This family has been nurtured in a safe nest, grown and gone off to fly. Our son's family of bunnies are growing up too, during the daytime, when they were sleeping most of the day a week ago, now they venture (on their own) out of the nest. There is one that will stay behind, but they go under the fence to the neighbour's yard. Our son is hoping that they will soon be old enough to find their own nests to live in as he fears that the temptation might eventually get the best of his dog.
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@Juliaacv (56195)
• Canada
21 Apr 20
@CarolDM We really grow attached don't we? Our son told me that there is 1 bunny that won't leave the nest, he fears it is the smallest and maybe the weakest. I told him to keep his distance so that the Mama can monitor it and come to feed if she feels it necessary, otherwise he can contact the wildlife place and ask their opinion on feeding techniques. I do not know if a little lettuce would help the baby grow and then he can catch up to the size of his siblings or not.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
Yes they have, and have a good chance of survival. As protective as the parents are, they will be fine. And I might see them in the yard flying around. I am sure the bunnies are growing. How cute. I am sure they will be fine and start a nest.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
@Juliaacv I always get attached. Someone asked me to foster animals once. I said no, I could never give them up! The wildlife agency are ways good at answering these questions. But the parents are good as well at protecting their babies. I always have a small bluebird when they nest. Seems there is always one smaller for some reason, and they do fine.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
21 Apr 20
I can feel you.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
Thanks
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@thelme55 (79311)
• Germany
21 Apr 20
I know that feeling of empty nest syndrome. They are gone to build a new life.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
Yes they are and it is part of nature.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
21 Apr 20
@CarolDM I wonder what they are thinking about their new lives.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
21 Apr 20
@CarolDM ok and thanks.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
Following the parents around . I wonder too.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
21 Apr 20
i think this speaks volumes of the care you give to these visitors.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
You are kind, I love these birds.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
21 Apr 20
@CarolDM it comes through, and no you are not a crazy bird lady!
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
20 Apr 20
Oh, I believe you are sad, but I'm sure soon there will be eggs and new birds again.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
Yes and I saw a hummingbird today, just wrote about it.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Apr 20
@CarolDM That's wonderful. I saw that post and the picture is beautiful.
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
20 Apr 20
Hopefully, they are off to a great new life
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
I think so, the parents will see about them.
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@sofssu (23660)
21 Apr 20
They are flying high and having a life without our meddling with them.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
Yes I hope so.
@amadeo (111937)
• United States
20 Apr 20
I think about this time most have left the nest?
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
Not really, many are just starting to build.
@wolfgirl569 (135583)
• Marion, Ohio
20 Apr 20
I was hoping for a prettier picture of them. You might spot them flying around.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Apr 20
I have been looking. The adults were just so protective.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Apr 20
It doesn't take long, does it, and the little birds are grown up and gone.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
Every day they are growing.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
21 Apr 20
I have not seen any nests this year.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Apr 20
You should soon hopefully.