My Country - My Opinion

@Bensen32 (28658)
United States
June 1, 2020 2:31pm CST
I’m going to talk about something that might offend some of you and you might not like it and I’m sorry if my opinion upsets you but this is my opinion based off my experiences. If you don’t like it you are free to stop reading at any time. It’s all the talk now about inclusion, diversity and ending racism. We need to stop the division of our country. Acceptance of all people, the fair treatment of everyone. These are all things that you hear all the time yet we as a people keep doing things that in my opinion keep dividing us. In my lifetime, I have not seen more division happening then right now. Look at politics as one example. There was a time when you could be on one side or the other and have different opinions and that was alright, rarely leading to violence or screaming matches but now you hear about that all the time. If your opinion is different then mine, I need to shut you down so that your opinion can not be heard. Look at the race issue. We divide each other everyday by the way with talk and act. We can’t even try to understand another’s point of view because we are told we will never understand. As a white male in America I am told I am racist and I can never understand, I can not have sympathy or know what it is like to be a minority. That I am the problem and that my opinion doesn’t count. What about gender? Is every female a male hating feminist? No certainly not, and does every male think he is superior because he is the male? Again, no. But yet we as a country try to paint this picture way to often. Again, in those certain situations my opinion doesn’t count and I shouldn’t give it cause I am a male. When we stop people from having a voice is when we start dividing this country more than ever. Personally, I have sympathy for anyone who is mistreated by others for any reason. I do agree I can not know 100% what it is like to be another race or gender, just like you can’t know exactly what it is to be me. That doesn’t mean we can try to understand what each others point of view is. Or that we can’t have sympathy for each other. I like to think we all are not that different. For the most part we want to be healthy and safe, we want a fair chance at things in life, we want to be treated with respect and we want to be successful at what ever we do in life. We want to be treated as equals and as human beings. I don’t think those things change based on race, gender or politics.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
1 Jun 20
There is so much hate and evil in this world. Too many calling others names, violence, etc. We all need to come together so we can survive as a country.
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@Bensen32 (28658)
• United States
1 Jun 20
I agree. All those things just sepurate us even more.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
1 Jun 20
@Bensen32 Many cannot step back and realize what they are doing.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Jun 20
@Bensen32 I am not sure either, I think some are local and others may not be.
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@LowRiderX (22901)
• Serbia
1 Jun 20
Personally, I have the impression that most will not agree with you, maybe I'm wrong.. I would like to be wrong
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@Bensen32 (28658)
• United States
1 Jun 20
and that is alright, we wont all agree on all things.
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@LowRiderX (22901)
• Serbia
1 Jun 20
@Bensen32 I have to admit that this division in the US is very noticeable, probably because it's a big country, so it's easier to notice things ... aside from what the president is saying, raising the walls and so on
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@Bensen32 (28658)
• United States
1 Jun 20
@LowRiderX Yes, it is a pretty crazy time to be alive.
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@LadyDuck (502343)
• Italy
2 Jun 20
I agree that no matter the genre, the age and the race we basically all want the same thing, a peaceful life, a job that allows us to have a decent life, to be treated simply like "humans", because finally this is what we all are ONLY humans.
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@LadyDuck (502343)
• Italy
2 Jun 20
@Bensen32 You are so right, it seems that those who are quiet are never listened.
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@Bensen32 (28658)
• United States
2 Jun 20
@LadyDuck very true.
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@Bensen32 (28658)
• United States
2 Jun 20
It's to bad more people can't think like that. Don't get me wrong there are many who do it just seems like those that don't have the loudest voices.
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
4 Jun 20
This is very well written. As Americans and as humans, we need to respect each other.
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@Bensen32 (28658)
• United States
4 Jun 20
Thank you. Yes, it basicly comes down to the simple matter of respect.
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@Dena91 (17038)
• United States
2 Jun 20
Your opinion and mine are on the same page, nothing offensive about it.
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@Bensen32 (28658)
• United States
2 Jun 20
Thank you, glad to hear I am not the only one.
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
2 Jun 20
You made many great points! One of my biggest pet peeves is when people use blanket statements when expressing their views. For example: "Cops abuse authority." To me, that indicates all cops. It would be better and more accurate to say "Some cops abuse authority." All women aren't the same, nor all men, nor all white people, etc. People are individuals!
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@Bensen32 (28658)
• United States
2 Jun 20
Agree, it's hard now to have a reasonable conversation with many people and is not good for any of us.
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@JESSY3236 (22247)
• United States
2 Jun 20
I agree.
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