Divorce Or Compromise
By SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16094)
Bangladesh
June 2, 2020 11:20am CST
Hey guys don't take the topic personal please. It just appear on my mind. Suppose you are married and your partner is not behaving as he/she should be. Such as a careless, irresponsible and sexaholic almost all the time.
Will you divorce the partner or you’ll deal with patience because living single or divorce is a issue that people can talk about It's negative side.
What if such situations (hope not) come into your time?
So many people compromise sake of kids, family and society, do you support them?
Or support them who takes the decision of divorce and move on?
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14 responses
@sabtraversa (12938)
• Italy
2 Jun 20
Divorce is more accepted by society nowadays, at least here. Parents are often good at looking after their children despite the divorce. It's probably worse for the kids to have a toxic relationship at home where the parents argue and fight all the time than going through the process of divorce.
So it really depends on the situation.
My parents got separated. It could have been better, it could have been worse, who knows. I don't condemn them for their choice but I can tell I learned from it. Would I ever divorce? I would try my best to not let it happen but if the situation escalates and becomes unbearable, I think I could. Health comes first.
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@sabtraversa (12938)
• Italy
3 Jun 20
@SHOHANA I see, it used to be the same here. Some people keep on judging but generally it is more accepted. I hope things will change there too.
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@Manish107 (120)
• India
3 Jun 20
@Sabrina Yes, i completely agree with you if situation getting worse then we must maintain our self respect and take a concrete step.
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@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
2 Jun 20
I was married for 11 years, but my wife and I got divorced. There was nothing either of us did that was wrong, we just weren't in love with each other anymore. But we are still best friends, even to this day.
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@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
2 Jun 20
@SHOHANA I have not remarried, but she has. Her new husband is a really great guy, we hang out together a lot. I have a girlfriend, but no plans to get married. She is much, much younger than me.
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@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
2 Jun 20
It's always good to resolve conflict and come to s compromise.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
2 Jun 20
@jayanth_77 but sometimes things goes out of control we need to have the decision of divorce
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@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
2 Jun 20
@SHOHANA it's important to have patience and make compromises.
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
4 Jun 20
Sexaholic !!!
Ok you really need to explain that fo me.
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@marguicha (215441)
• Chile
2 Jun 20
It all depends on many things. There are some things I would never accept but others that need patience and compromise (from both sides).
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
3 Jun 20
i am separated. no divorce here, but i like my life now that i am separated from the father of my son.
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@dgobucks226 (34369)
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2 Jun 20
I would try to communicate my feelings to my partner and then reach some kind of agreeable compromise. If we can't work it out then of course divorce would be an option. When kids are involved the decision to divorce becomes tougher since it is they who will suffer most.
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@princessmarie (1045)
• Philippines
3 Jun 20
Here in the Philippines Divorce is not yet legalized but if that will be the case then you can file a complaint against your partner Violation of RA 9262 or violence against women and children. He can be punished by his actions. Yes we need to consider the kids and family, but if you are the one who is suffering from this kind of actions and abuse you can report him to the authorities.
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