My Uncle Lost His Battle to COVID

@CarolDM (203454)

Nashville, Tennessee

June 4, 2020 10:25am CST

Got the news late last night that my uncle passed away in the nursing home in quarantine, on a ventilator, from COVID. I had a feeling all week he was declining. The nurses stopped giving me information a few days ago. I was never added to the call list. Another issue I have been dealing with. I have called all week, held for up to 30 minutes each time, waiting on updates about his condition. Something told me to keep calling. So I did. Finally at 11:00 pm last night I got a nurse to tell me he had passed just 10 minutes before I called. I stayed out on my deck last night until after midnight staring at the full moon. A few clouds. Then it was like all of a sudden, the clouds left and I could see the bright moon shining. I snapped this photo with my phone. Not as good as what I witnessed but it was very peaceful and comforting. He is at peace now. Thank you all who have supported me through his issues the last few months. Have no idea how the arrangements will be handled.

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@kobesbuddy (74408)

• East Tawas, Michigan

4 Jun 20

Your Uncle is in heaven, no more sickness, no more pain and he's in perfect health! Yes, you will miss him, but he's experiencing a fullness of joy! On earth, we only taste a small amount of God's perfect love:) In heaven, it constantly floods by day and by night

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

Thank you Kharla for your support as always. I have needed your inspiration and you are always right there.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

@kobesbuddy Thank you and sorry about your loss.

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@kobesbuddy (74408)

• East Tawas, Michigan

4 Jun 20

@CarolDM Marnie was outspoken, her descent was Hungarian. She spoke the truth, which some people didn't like to hear. I bonded with her, she was always kind to me! My mother adored her.

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@NJChicaa (115900)

• United States

4 Jun 20

oh my God. I am so so sorry. You were a wonderful niece to him. May he rest in peace

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

Thank you, I did all I could for him.

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@PatZAnthony (14752)

• Charlotte, North Carolina

4 Jun 20

So sad to hear this @CarolDM It seems too many in nursing homes are being exposed to the virus. You know they did not go anywhere themselves and get the virus. It was brought in by someone no doubt with no symptoms.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

5 Jun 20

Thank you Pat. I hoped he would recover. So unfair.

@xFiacre (12608)

• Ireland

4 Jun 20

@CarolDM So sorry Carol. It was good that you were able to be a friend to him over this past while.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

Thank you. I am very thankful for the memories.

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@thelme55 (76477)

• Germany

4 Jun 20

My heartfelt condolence Carol. It is sad but you know that he is in peace now and no more pain. He will be watching over you.

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@thelme55 (76477)

• Germany

5 Jun 20

@CarolDM You are very welcome. Enjoy your weekend.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

Thank you very much Thelma.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

5 Jun 20

@thelme55 You do the same.

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@LindaOHio (155387)

• United States

4 Jun 20

I'm sorry. I have been behind in the Discussions for the past couple of days. I know this is a big blow for you. I'm so sorry that you weren't able to see him. PM me any time. I thought he was doing OK. What a shock this must be for you.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

Yes it has been very difficult. Appreciate your support very much. The nurses told me he was ok but still in quarantine. That is all I knew. Then BAM.

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@AmbiePam (85245)

• United States

4 Jun 20

Oh, Carol. I am so sorry. You have had such a hard time with this, I can't imagine. I am glad he is at peace, but I know it must hurt.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

Amber, You are very kind. It has been a struggle since day one. Another piece of heart gone. But forever memories.

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@dodo19 (47044)

• Beaconsfield, Quebec

4 Jun 20

I'm sorry to hear about your uncle. It's sad when you lose someone.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

Thank you, it is very sad indeed. But I have happy memories.

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@LovingMyBabies (85127)

• Valdosta, Georgia

4 Jun 20

I am so sorry that your uncle passed away. =( I'll be praying for comfort for everyone that loved him. I love that photo, it's beautiful.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

Thank you, I appreciate your support. I was in awe of the moon last night.

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@Juliaacv (48615)

• Canada

4 Jun 20

I am sorry for your loss Carol.

You have my sincere sympathy.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

Thanks my friend. Another hard time. But I will get through.

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@marlina (154166)

• Canada

4 Jun 20

So sorry to read about the loss of your beloved uncle. Upset to read that you had so much trouble getting some news about him from the nursing staff.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

It was a struggle from day one. But he knew I loved him and he is at peace now. Thank you.

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@wolfgirl569 (94703)

• Marion, Ohio

4 Jun 20

So sorry. I was hoping you would get to see him again. But you are right. He is with his wife now. I remember you saying he was ready to be with her again.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

I was holding out hope as well, up until the end. He was ready to go months ago.

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@LowRiderX (22907)

• Serbia

5 Jun 20

I'm sorry Carol

I really hoped for a happy outcome.

My condolences

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

5 Jun 20

I know, I was so hopeful for a few days. Thanks for your friendship and support.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

5 Jun 20

@LowRiderX I have so many stories you wold not believe. I am so glad it is over. I don't mean I am glad he is gone of course, but the drama and struggles were piling up. Thank you.

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@LowRiderX (22907)

• Serbia

5 Jun 20

@CarolDM I just came, I was out all day. I know it's not the time, but I have to mention that I didn't like the fact that they didn't answer the phone at all...you are welcome Carol

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@Butterfingers (66585)

• India

4 Jun 20

Am so sorry to know about it dear. RIP

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

Thank you.

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@eileenleyva (27562)

• Philippines

5 Jun 20

My deepest sympathy. Eternal rest grant unto your uncle, oh Lord, And let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace. CoViD-19 has taken many lives. Includes relatives and friends in my circle, too. Hu Hu.

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@eileenleyva (27562)

• Philippines

6 Jun 20

@CarolDM Thank you.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

5 Jun 20

Thanks and sorry for your loss too.

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@simone10 (54189)

• Louisville, Kentucky

5 Jun 20

Carol, I am so very sorry about your uncle. My heart is saddened as I felt like I knew him from reading your posts. You are right, he is at peace now and is in no more pain. My heart goes out to you

. I'm here for you if you need me.

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@simone10 (54189)

• Louisville, Kentucky

11 Jun 20

@CarolDM You are very welcome

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

5 Jun 20

Thank you Sharon. I was hopeful for a recovery as well. Much appreciate your support.

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@JudyEv (325264)

• Rockingham, Australia

5 Jun 20

I'm so sorry but you can be comforted by knowing that he loved hearing from you and that your calls gave him a lot of pleasure.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

5 Jun 20

Thank you Judy. I try to hold onto the good times.

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@Hannihar (129349)

• Israel

5 Jun 20

@CarolDM Thank you for sharing that with us. I am so sorry for your loss. Even though he was at peace I am sure it was still very hard. Good for you to keep calling. I read the news on another site. Thank you for sharing that with us here too. I am so sorry that he did not make it and sorry that they did not put you on the call list.

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@Hannihar (129349)

• Israel

5 Jun 20

@CarolDM Yes it is and you are welcome.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

5 Jun 20

Very difficult situation to lose someone you love. Thank you.

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@freelancermariagrace (27219)

• Philippines

4 Jun 20

Sorry to hear that, Carol. May he rest in peace.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

4 Jun 20

Thank you.

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@DocAndersen (54413)

• United States

5 Jun 20

i am so sorry. i am here if you need to vent.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

5 Jun 20

Thank you so much for your support.

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@DocAndersen (54413)

• United States

5 Jun 20

@CarolDM i wish there were magic words. i know how much he meant to you!

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

5 Jun 20

@DocAndersen I know you are there and offering support is huge. Thank you for being a friend.

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