What would you do?need some answers.thank you

@amadeo (111956)
United States
July 11, 2020 7:26am CST
Good morning.Yes I know been away for a few days. Not ill had to take some time off for families and here at home. my daughter is coming up for a few days for a visit. One problem is that she lives in GA.and they have one of the highest rate of the virus.I ask her to think about this, but she said that she does not live in fear. she does want to come home to visit her mother not really well. She will be here next month.Both of us getting along in age not sure how long will be hanging on in life.
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@LadyDuck (454979)
• Switzerland
11 Jul 20
It's not at all a good idea, I agree with @myklj999, insist that she get tested before visiting. It's also to respect her mother who is not well... fine that she does not live in fear, but it's not a good reason to contaminate the others.
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@LadyDuck (454979)
• Switzerland
11 Jul 20
@amadeo You must protect yourself and Mike, stay safe Alfredo.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@LadyDuck yes this is pretty sad to do this.But health is first with me and Mike
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@LadyDuck thank you.that is what been thinking
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• United States
11 Jul 20
I can understand that she isn't living in fear, but it doesn't take fear to have compassion and understanding for others. I think that she should consider the health of her parents too. If she comes to see you I would wear a face mask and ask for no hugs. It's sad that these are the ways we have to deal with things, but it's necesary.
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• United States
11 Jul 20
@amadeo Yes. I really wish that everyone was of the same mind about this virus, but that's simply not the case.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum yes it is very sad that you can or be careful to hug your children.
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum your right it is not.Most do not believe it is going to happen to them?
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@Juliaacv (48236)
• Canada
11 Jul 20
That is a hard question. I would request that she get tested and even then visit outside, and stay physically distanced.
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@Juliaacv (48236)
• Canada
11 Jul 20
@amadeo I know, I have missed you. Are you doing alright? I have missed you so much.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@Juliaacv I am doing fine.But bored,bored,Do not go out too much because of my age etc.I hate it. Has your son moved there yet?
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@Juliaacv yep that is what I am planning to do.Or wait till next year. how are you been awhile for me.Just came back on.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
11 Jul 20
I don't know what the situation is going to be next month, but as they are possibly going on look down again she should be really careful. You don't want her to bring anything with her you don't want.
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@gr8nana6 yes I agree there.Kind of spooky and scary
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@gr8nana6 Will see what she is up to.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
11 Jul 20
@amadeo Yes it is
• India
11 Jul 20
I think it's fine because people are already moving and even working
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@Raj you got a great comment there from @garymarsh6 he is right.
@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
11 Jul 20
NO it is not fine Raj. It may be ok for younger people but for the elderly and those who are immunosuppressed it could be fatal. Numbers of people dying in India are on the increase every day 27,000 new cases alone yesterday and 521 deaths.
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• India
11 Jul 20
@garymarsh6 yes it is but what to do. As they say we need to live with it. So get on with the life in a cautious way
• Hungary
11 Jul 20
She should wait some time before entering your home...... It is very risky for you to catch the virus, not for her.
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@marlina (154183)
• Canada
11 Jul 20
Yes, I agree with this,
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@Luacsadel14 thank you.so sad to have to think about this
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• Hungary
11 Jul 20
@amadeo Yes, it is :( But I hope the virus goes away as soon as it can, and then you won't have to worry about meeting each other
@DianneN (246452)
• United States
11 Jul 20
I would be worried if she wasn’t tested first. She may not live in fear, but it’s not fair to visit her mother who is not well.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
12 Jul 20
@DianneN yes it is not fair at all.I have not heard from anyone yet about this.Thank you and will see what the outcome is going to be.
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
12 Jul 20
@DianneN thank you.
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
12 Jul 20
@amadeo Good luck!
@JudyEv (323673)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Jul 20
I really think she should be considering the risk to her parents, rather than to herself.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
12 Jul 20
@JudyEv yes she does.But family wants to see her
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@JudyEv (323673)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Jul 20
@amadeo It's a tough one, isn't it?
@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
12 Jul 20
Yes she will understand that if she comes you will have to social distance this time but would love to see her. She should wear a mask for sure.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
12 Jul 20
@Marymargil thank you and yes you are correct.
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
13 Jul 20
@MarymargII yes it is very much.Thank you and good morning
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
13 Jul 20
@amadeo But it's always important and wonderful to see family.
@thelme55 (76376)
• Germany
11 Jul 20
That is not a good idea that she will visit you. Can she not have a test if she is Covid positive before visiting you? I hope she can.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@thelme55 I told her to get tested.thank you
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@thelme55 I have not heard from her.she is at work
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@thelme55 (76376)
• Germany
11 Jul 20
@amadeo Is she going to do it?
@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
12 Jul 20
I hope all is well there with you all. What to do, we are just fed up with this situation
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
12 Jul 20
@ShifaLK yes I want our life back.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
13 Jul 20
@amadeo yes seriously. Me too
@CarolDM (203478)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Jul 20
I would do as JJ suggested. Before she visits, she should get tested.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@CarolDM yes I am going to
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
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@CarolDM (203478)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Jul 20
@sophie09 (34278)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 20
I think before she visits you, she should do the test first, just to make sure
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
12 Jul 20
@sophie09 yes she is going to do this.Thank you
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@sophie09 (34278)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 20
@amadeo glad to know
@JohnKu (2552)
12 Jul 20
Urge her to get tested first. Also, ask her to always wearing a mask, wash her hands, and keep the distance if possible.
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
12 Jul 20
JohnKu thank you.I plan in doing this
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@JohnKu (2552)
12 Jul 20
@amadeo Please stay safe.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
12 Jul 20
Family really ties together and there's love always..if she really want to go home please tell her to be safe. Make herself covered well if she can.. Do not talk to much. Keep in distance to avoid physical contact. And the most important thing is to pray. We dont know where is the virus we cannot see them. So keep safe by protecting just to see you both at home.. Hope all of you are well. Godbless.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
12 Jul 20
@mods196621 thank you much on the well advice.
@cherigucchi (14885)
• Philippines
11 Jul 20
That is too bad. You have to take extra precaution before you let her inside the house.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
11 Jul 20
@cherigucchi yes I do.
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@cherigucchi (14885)
• Philippines
12 Jul 20
@amadeo That is good.
@RasmaSandra (72527)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
12 Jul 20
I agree with that she should get herself tested before she visits you.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
12 Jul 20
@RasmaSandra thank you most here do
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• Philippines
12 Jul 20
I guess she needs to be tested first just to be sure.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
12 Jul 20
@freekancermariagrace yes she does..Told her this.
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@fluffy69 (4956)
12 Jul 20
You can isolate her in one room for 14days and after that follow the social distancing. but i agree she need to test before going to you to assure your health..
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
12 Jul 20
@fluffy69 yes I believe so.Thank you
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@Flakes (42)
• Netherlands
12 Jul 20
Place the chairs or sofa in your living room so that you always keep a distance of 1.5 meters from each other. Wear a face mask and ensure adequate ventilation, so windows open. Ask her if she takes temperature beforehand and does not come with a flu. Wash your hands with soap regularly after personal contact. Furthermore, use your mind and then it should go well. I hope you all have a enjoyable time and have fun.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
12 Jul 20
@Flakes thank you for well advice there.
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