Covid or depression

Agra, India
July 20, 2020 11:55am CST
The whole world is suffering. Those with infection are the worst affected. and those left behind are suffering with depression. All because of lack of income, inability to resume old lifestyle and being house arrested is gradually taking many people towards depression. One of my husband's friend's father is Gradually seeping into depression because of staying inside the house for four months now.
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@innertalks (21024)
• Australia
20 Jul 20
Yes, depression is a worry, and it seems to be on the rise, within society. What is depression, and why are so many afraid of it, and being stuck in it? Depression, to me, is merely a ditch, or a deep well, that we have fallen into emotionally. We can still look at the ditch, and see the mushrooms growing in the soil there, and realise that depression is just another state that we go through, or stay in, and life itself is depressed at times, or jumping over itself, depending mostly on the energy alive in you, or depressed in you, by outer circumstances, which make you fall to the bottom of your own ditch, or well. The truth is though, that at the bottom of every ditch, or deep well, there is still a tap of energy, that we can turn on, when we are ready to do so. In the meantime, we should perhaps just enjoy the seat at the bottom of the well, or ditch, and do not try too hard to ditch it, nor to climb out of it, for now, otherwise, it will ditch you up in itself, by your thinking that it, this ditch, (or deep well, or bottomless pit) is the only reality, when the ditch always still exists within a far greater reality than just itself's existence.
@innertalks (21024)
• Australia
21 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya Well, the bottom is wherever you are right now, in a lot of ways, because the tap of energy renewal is available at every level. Everybody revives back in some ways to me, as nothing stands still; we are all growing like a plant does, whether we know this, or not. We are always growing forwards. Nothing goes backwards. Our depression is not all of us, just a blanket that we cover ourselves with at the moment. I feel that most people know this at some level. They are not their depression. All of this is only true though, if we believe in an afterlife, and that we are spiritual beings, or souls, greater than just our human selves are. If I didn't believe in that, my own depression would be a whole lot worse then too.
• Agra, India
21 Jul 20
But there are only a few who can reach and explore the bottom. The rest remain clinged in between and are never able to revive back
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@Lilypa (25)
• Cape Town, South Africa
21 Jul 20
@innertalks I really like this perspective, especially the blanket analogy... it's comfortably stifling and keeps you in bed when it's a beautiful day experience the world outside
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• United States
20 Jul 20
My emotions run high and low these days. Maybe the low days are depression even though I've never had depression? This Covid certainly has affected us all one way or another. Hope your friends father gets help if he continues to slip into depression..
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• Agra, India
20 Jul 20
Yes...it does affect us in some way or the other ..and we all are having those low days very often now.
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
22 Jul 20
Its not helping with peoples mental health, thats for sure.
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• Agra, India
22 Jul 20
Yes...it is only causing harm and nothing else.
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• Agra, India
22 Jul 20
@JimBo452020 why? Because you are saving money by avoiding eating out ..
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
22 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya Not sure about that.
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@Lilypa (25)
• Cape Town, South Africa
20 Jul 20
I have been diagnosed with Bipolar type 2 so I am well accustomed to depression. That being said, this time it feels different: it feels more sharp, like I am constantly feeling challenged by the simplest of daily activities. I have been jobless since before COVID, but now my job search is even more difficult because of it. I am going on 10 months without an income and I have lost everything: my apartment, my phone has been cut off, and I am about to sell my car in order to put food on the table for the next few months. I have been trying to find remote work opportunities that does not pay peanuts, but to no avail. Incidently the need for finding ANY form of income at all is what brought me here. You are right about many people sinking into depression because I see it in my family members as well, and that makes me feel worse because I cannot help them at all, I cannot even help myself, really. I didn't mean to sound dark and dreary - there are okay days when my family and I connect on levels I know would not be possible if we weren't stuck together.
• Agra, India
21 Jul 20
That sounds really tough and things are really troublesome at your end. Have faith in God and if your efforts are true he will definitely show you a way out.
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• Agra, India
21 Jul 20
@Lilypa yes...and they say good comes only after the bad has been at it's peak
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@Lilypa (25)
• Cape Town, South Africa
21 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya thank you and I agree. No matter how hard it gets, I continue to move forward. My mother always used to say: they are not stumbling blocks but stepping stones
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@JohnKu (2552)
20 Jul 20
A lot of people are feeling the same.
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• Agra, India
21 Jul 20
Yes ..a lot many. And if this virus doesn't go then things will definitely move out of control
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@JohnKu (2552)
21 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya Sadly, we may have to wait until a few more months to get the pandemic under control, if all went as planned.... The Oxford vaccine is showing a good promise, but the production and distribution worldwide may take even more time.
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• Agra, India
21 Jul 20
@JohnKu yes ..true. I hope other vaccines getting tested all over the world also show good results
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20 Jul 20
The whole world are feeling pretty same. Now a days depression is our companion. We should support each other, talk to our friends and relatives over the phone. We must engage ourselves in various different pass time works inside the home
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• Agra, India
22 Jul 20
But those who don't talk to others and keep things to themselves are usually the ones who are seeping towards depression
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• India
22 Jul 20
Its happening to many people, as per government order 60 or above 60 aged person should not go outside. Obviously person get depresses after staying inside a home for a long time. I suggest try to engage him in religious or meditation
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
22 Jul 20
I can understand that...It's a crazy thing. Stay safe & healthy & in good spirits.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
21 Jul 20
We can call it depression too
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
21 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya its good for us to be more careful
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• Agra, India
21 Jul 20
@SHOHANA yes...that is the one and the only way
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• Agra, India
21 Jul 20
Yes.. getting very serious these days
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@Shiva49 (26202)
• Singapore
25 Jul 20
Yes, this virus is indeed a challenge to all of us as it has upended our lifestyle. We all feel caged in, imprisoned, deprived of our freedom to live a carefree lifestyle. I take comfort that no one is spared though I feel really sorry for those deprived of their income. They need help from all quarters - siva
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• Agra, India
26 Jul 20
There are many who have been jobless since March and still have no hope of earning anything this year
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• Philippines
21 Jul 20
I feel the same way, too. I have anxiety issues and this pandemic is making it worse.
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• Agra, India
22 Jul 20
That doesn't sound good. You should try to focus on the good thing around and take each day as it comes.
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@bbghitte (3294)
• Philippines
21 Jul 20
Depression is really hard to deal with especially when we have limited outlet available now. I hope he'll get all the support and understanding during these times.
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• Agra, India
22 Jul 20
Yes...but the worst part of depression is that people lose their ability to think understand and react
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• Agra, India
22 Jul 20
@bbghitte yes .. maybe one day .but only he wants this for himself
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@bbghitte (3294)
• Philippines
22 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya Yeah, it must also be hard for the family seeing him like that. Hope he'll think things over and get away with depression
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@Babale (1869)
• Semarang, Indonesia
22 Jul 20
The sad thing is that many people lose their only jobs, making it difficult to meet their basic needs. This obviously makes people depressed.
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• Agra, India
24 Jul 20
Yes...and lack of money is definitely the biggest depression in this world.
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21 Jul 20
Depression is the worst disease in the world. You should take care of such personsn.they are helpless.
• Agra, India
22 Jul 20
Yes..but only their own strong will power and nothing else can help them
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22 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya yeah that's true
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