Wow, I am shocked! / myLot

Toccoa, Georgia

August 1, 2020 8:46pm CST

I would have never suspected this. A couple my husband and I have known since College, my husband was a groomsman in their wedding, got divorced after 32 years of marriage. They have 9 children and a few grand kids!!! I even learned online that the guy just remarried! This is a couple who I really thought would never divorce. I really am surprised. It is true you never really know what is happening behind closed doors. Have you been thrown for a loop, thinking a couple would never divorce after having so many kids and being married for decades and then they go their separate ways?

18 people like this

16 responses

sophie a

@sophie09 (34246)

• Indonesia

2 Aug 20

Even the Korean couple that I thought they would never divorce and it happened they are not together anymore

2 people like this

Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (36428)

• Toccoa, Georgia

2 Aug 20

That's sad.

2 people like this

sophie a

@sophie09 (34246)

• Indonesia

2 Aug 20

@LeaPea2417 yes and unbelievable i suppose

2 people like this

Piyush bhatia

@piyushbhatia1 (11698)

• India

2 Aug 20

Jeff bezos is divorced as well.

2 people like this

Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (36428)

• Toccoa, Georgia

2 Aug 20

I read that online.

1 person likes this

Piyush bhatia

@piyushbhatia1 (11698)

• India

2 Aug 20

@LeaPea2417 For tax exemptions maybe.

1 person likes this

rebelann1949

@rebelann (111124)

• El Paso, Texas

2 Aug 20

No but it does happen often simply because as we get older we tend to change and sometimes the two in a marriage find they are no longer compatible.

2 people like this

Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (36428)

• Toccoa, Georgia

2 Aug 20

That's true.

1 person likes this

Kokil agarwal

@amitkokiladitya (171936)

• Agra, India

2 Aug 20

Times and situations are never the same

2 people like this

Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (36428)

• Toccoa, Georgia

2 Aug 20

That's true.

1 person likes this

Glory19

@Glory19 (98)

•

2 Aug 20

Unfortunately this happens a lot often especially if the kids are all adults now. The marriage might just have turned out to be a ''project'' to get the children through school and college and if these objectives are achieved, the ''project'' is no longer relevant.

2 people like this

Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (36428)

• Toccoa, Georgia

2 Aug 20

Some just want to get married to have children and get so involved in that, that they grow a part.

Huong Nguyenthu

@Huongp (316)

• Vietnam

14 Aug 20

Life is like that, there are always surprises and reasons for divorce of couples that we cannot imagine. When the conflict is not resolved, there is no common voice, soul and lifestyle harmony, a divorce will happen even after having many children and happy years.

1 person likes this

Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (36428)

• Toccoa, Georgia

14 Aug 20

The couple I mentioned above, I would love to know why they divorced. Hopefully one day I will find out.

1 person likes this

Huong Nguyenthu

@Huongp (316)

• Vietnam

15 Aug 20

@LeaPea2417 If they want to share, you can know the main reason for their divorce. If they don't say anything, just let it go because they all have their own choices.

ShannyBananny

@shaggin (71663)

• United States

2 Aug 20

I always find things like this so sad.

1 person likes this

Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (36428)

• Toccoa, Georgia

2 Aug 20

Me too

1 person likes this

Marlina

@marlina (154166)

• Canada

9 Aug 20

I know of a few people that did that

1 person likes this

Anna

@LadyDuck (457822)

• Switzerland

2 Aug 20

People with many children often feel they have nothing more to say to each other once the kids leave the nest. It is sad, but I am not at all surprised.

1 person likes this

Eva James

@wolfgirl569 (95015)

• Marion, Ohio

2 Aug 20

They may have just grown apart.

1 person likes this

Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (36428)

• Toccoa, Georgia

2 Aug 20

Yes , but it is still very sad in this situation.

1 person likes this

DianneN

@DianneN (246525)

• United States

3 Aug 20

That really must have come as a huge shock to you. Of course I've known couples who have divorced, but not after the length of time being married as your friends.

1 person likes this

Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (36428)

• Toccoa, Georgia

4 Aug 20

What makes it more of a shock, is the couple went to a Christian religious College (where they met). I guess it doesn't matter how religious a person is, divorce happens in different situations.

1 person likes this

DianneN

@DianneN (246525)

• United States

10 Aug 20

@LeaPea2417 Yes, it doesn't matter at all these days it seems. My son's ex was a true Christian, but that didn't keep her from breaking the Ten Commandments - cheating and lying.

1 person likes this

LindaOH

@LindaOHio (155900)

• United States

2 Aug 20

I knew of one couple many, many years ago. None since then. Have a good Sunday.

1 person likes this

Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (36428)

• Toccoa, Georgia

3 Aug 20

You too.

1 person likes this

CarolDM

@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

2 Aug 20

It happens. I have known many that did this, they said they grew apart. We never really know people it seems.

1 person likes this

bu Dian

@buDian (242)

• Indonesia

3 Aug 20

the depth of the sea can be measured .... the depth of the heart who knows

1 person likes this

much2say

@much2say (53959)

• Los Angeles, California

2 Aug 20

What a shockeroo. We have known several long time couples who split - and we never thought it would ever happen - but they were much younger than the folks you know.

1 person likes this

Krissttina Isobe

@oahuwriter (26780)

• United States

2 Aug 20

Sorry to hear of your friends. No, my family and friends all have happy marriages.

1 person likes this