New DBT Therapy

@Lolaze (5092)
St. Louis, Missouri
August 5, 2020 8:00pm CST
Dialectal Behavior Therapy (DBT) was created to treat Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) in the 1990’s. Before that, BPD was often considered untreatable and professionals wouldn’t work with clients who had the diagnosis. Rather than typical therapy, DBT focuses on teaching skills in a class-like setting and following a strict protocol for analyzing behavior. It can be a life changer when done well - or a disaster when done wrong. I have just started with a great therapist who actually trains other professionals how to do DBT. She is supposed to be getting me into the group where she works, which is known to be quite good. I hope this will be better than my last experience. The last group I was in was run by the county mental health agency. Although it was presented as a normal DBT group, it actually involved people talking about their problems with drugs and alcohol and their latest hospital stays. The leader would then read over a handout for ten minutes and tell us to practice what we read that week. It was a support group more than a DBT group and I learned nothing. Hoping this next experience is a good one!
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
6 Aug 20
I hope this is a better class than the one before. Good luck.
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@Lolaze (5092)
• St. Louis, Missouri
6 Aug 20
It’s sounding like it will be. The intake interviewer will be getting in touch with me.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
7 Aug 20
@Lolaze Good, I hope it’s a help to you.
@Mike197602 (15504)
• United Kingdom
6 Aug 20
I had a few issues and at 18 or 19 got a "diagnosis" from a doctor. Went over some type of checklist after a few appointments and I did tick lots of boxes but not them all. When it was explained what this disorder was I thought no way is that me and since then I haven't believed in labelling people. Over the years I've spent tens of thousands of pounds on one therapy or another until 09 or so when I just thought f*ck it I'm actually ok as I am. I know I lack in certain areas but I also know how to make up for it... whilst not actually feeling it I do know how to moderate my behaviour to fit in with societal norms...that was probably the biggest thing I got from therapy. Last year I had some issues and got put on medication for a while that messed me up so much I had to take 5 months off work. Stopped those pills (apart from 2) and I am fine now and function very nicely. So, I don't really believe in therapy and don't really believe in labelling
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@Lolaze (5092)
• St. Louis, Missouri
6 Aug 20
My label has changed a million times. I actually think high functioning autism was probably missed for me and had I got appropriate help for that as a kid/teen - I’d be doing better now.
@jstory07 (148749)
• Roseburg, Oregon
6 Aug 20
I hope you learn something this time.
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@Lolaze (5092)
• St. Louis, Missouri
6 Aug 20
Me too!
@JudyEv (382312)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Aug 20
I hope you have a much more positive experience with your new therapist.
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@LindaOHio (222565)
• United States
6 Aug 20
Good luck with your new therapist.
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• Montego Bay, Jamaica
6 Aug 20
Hope it goes well! The last one sounds like a proper nightmare! I’ve only met with a psychiatrist twice and both times I came to the conclusion they’re just full of nonsense. I suppose this kind of therapy will be a lot more beneficial than someone just writing a prescription, however. Good luck!
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@Lolaze (5092)
• St. Louis, Missouri
6 Aug 20
I’m lucky with my psychiatrist. She is super down to earth and knowledgable. And believes in as few meds as possible.