I'm losing interest

Agra, India
August 13, 2020 10:21pm CST
This place is getting slower and slower. People are posting new discussions but not caring to revert to their notifications. Except for a few, I can't see anyone replying back. And this is what makes the earnings get stuck up. Do you clear all your notifications?
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37 responses
@Janet357 (75656)
14 Aug 20
we all have a choice whether to stay or not on Mylot. We cannot force everyone to respond right away. Maybe some respond a bit late just like me because I have an online job plus I work on the applications of my tutors. You have the freedom not to respond to someone's discussion if they don't respond back
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• Agra, India
14 Aug 20
I know you always revert back. But there are many who would never even care. And now I will be choosy on the discussions to which I respond. Sooner or later doesn't matter. What is important is that we answer answer back
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• Agra, India
14 Aug 20
@Janet357 yes...now no more wasting my time now.
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@Janet357 (75656)
14 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya yes. there are indeed who just like or never reply at all. I saw you once reply to a mylotter who did not reply at all. And i was thinking then, hope she realized that this mylotter would just ignore her reply. And finally, you realized it.
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 20
Yess although i was not too active yesterday but i always make sure that i clear my notificatins
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• Agra, India
14 Aug 20
Yes...that is the way it should be but sadly to this isn't the case always
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya why is people keep ignoring their notif
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• Agra, India
14 Aug 20
@sophie09 because all they are concerned about their earnings. And they don't know the real method of earning well here.
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• Philippines
14 Aug 20
I always open my notifications... it means someone payed attention to yout work...
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• Philippines
15 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya well, I guess sometimes a simple like will do... It means you acknowledge
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
And in return we should pay attention to theirs.
• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
Yes .and now our turn to return it
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
14 Aug 20
That is the first thing I do when I check in.
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• Agra, India
14 Aug 20
Sadly many people take their notifications for granted
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
14 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya I hope they find time.
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• Agra, India
14 Aug 20
@cherigucchi I hope they find the inclinations
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• Santiago, Chile
14 Aug 20
It might happen for different reasons, either they don't want to reply back due to boredom or they missed notifications causing them not go be able to reply. I always try my hardest to reply back cause mylotters need to get comments on ther posts it is a win-win relationship! But I guess some are a little selfish when they don't comment back!
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
A few missed notifications is understandable but the problem arises people don't respond to any
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• Santiago, Chile
16 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya yeah! That's right too, they should af least try to respond!
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16 Aug 20
It's really hard to know what someone is thinking or to understand them by watching what they write. It looks like it would take a lot of time to figure out what someone is about. I mean Jose how can we really know if they are being selfish or not? Really, how can we know? I think I only want to write about what I am thinking not what I think someone else is thinking. Kokil, I see this site as a kind of a fast way to make a dollar or two. The dollars add up and after a long time you get a payment. But it hardly seems worth the effort to me. I don't want to hang around for years on any web site for that reason. That is just my opinion. It's okay if someone wants to make a little money but the real reason to respond or not respond for me is because I find something interesting or not. I read many things not worth reading because it is only an exchange of polite comments designed to make a dollar and those for me do get a little boring after a while. But I want you both to know I'm not against anyone for trying to make money that way. Is it like playing a game? I suppose it could be fun finding people interested in exchanging a lot of trivia? I'm not sure if you see it this way or not but that is how I see it. If someone responds I would like to think they are interested in what I write but do think maybe they aren't at all. They might only want to exchange. Okay. But I guess that is not what I want to do. I might loose interest and stop writing anything more here.
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• India
15 Aug 20
I stick with usual people who chat with me so no such problem
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
Like me...I guess. I always respond back to you
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
@Butterfingers sounds great
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• India
15 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya yes it's better
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• Pamplona, Spain
14 Aug 20
Yes I answer all of them if I can I don´t usually miss many. Have a great day ahead.
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
That is the best way indeed.
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@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
14 Aug 20
I always clear my notifications first. I hardly post a discussion though since I like commenting more.
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
That is good. Comments and notifications both are equally important
@kobesbuddy (74554)
• East Tawas, Michigan
14 Aug 20
If the site is a mess and it's not working right, I go do something else that's important.
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@kobesbuddy (74554)
• East Tawas, Michigan
15 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya If things aren't working right, I don't waste time trying.
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
@kobesbuddy yes .. that is the way it should be
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
Yes...that is true. Even I prefer leaving at that time. Those nasty error messages spoil everything
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
14 Aug 20
I am clearing my notifications. Some are just posting. I try my best to interact. Have a nice weekend.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
16 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya That's right. I agree with you.
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
Yes...some people forget that interaction is the main aim of this site
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
14 Aug 20
It has slowed down yes and I haven't been on it a few months but I'm back for now. I always answer my notifications on here and discuss back and forth.
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
That is good. Enjoy your Mylotting now
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
15 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya thank you.
• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
@hillhjill good night
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• Indonesia
14 Aug 20
Yes i do that as soon as i receive them.
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• Agra, India
14 Aug 20
That is the ideal way of working here for sure
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• Agra, India
14 Aug 20
@hayyusophana anyways I hope you are enjoying yourself her e
• Indonesia
14 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya of course!
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@KityCat (7573)
• India
14 Aug 20
Yes , whenever I get time
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• Agra, India
14 Aug 20
That is good.
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@Adie04 (17360)
14 Aug 20
I notice that too. Hopefully this site will maintain as times goes and not losing its mylotters.
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
Atleast those active should follow the correct method.
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@Adie04 (17360)
15 Aug 20
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
14 Aug 20
Some of my notifications disappear before I get the chance to read them, but I always try to read as many as possible, and I also check my old discussions in order to see if I missed any of the responses. I think this site would be boring without interaction. A late reply is okay, but I avoid people who never comment back.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
20 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya I agree. Missing a few is okay, but some members don't interact at all. I try to find discussions from people who like to interact.
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• Agra, India
21 Aug 20
@Porcospino yes .. talking to the ones who know to interact is the one and the only way of enjoying ourselves here
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
A few doesn't matter. Not caring to answer any and that too always is what isn't good.
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@lovebuglena (43074)
• Staten Island, New York
15 Aug 20
Not everyone responds right away. And there are people who will read a discussion but not leave a response because they don't know how to respond, have nothing to add, or don't wanna write a generic response. In that case, they just hit the like button. I always deal with the notifications and make sure I don't miss anything, but I've probably missed some stuff. I usually try to take care of notifications first before posting a discussion or browsing discussions by others.
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15 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya Please follow the Guidelines which say: "Discussions, responses or comments that offer little or no value - Answers like "I don't know" or "I don't care" help no one and will be removed." In other words, If you have nothing worthwhile to say, then say nothing! You do NOT earn anything at all when you post a response or comment which isn't at all likely to generate a comment back and contributes nothing to the discussion, so why waste your time? If Admins delete such worthless comments within an hour of being posted, the recipient earns nothing from them either, and, in any case, responses and comments only earn a VERY small fraction of a cent. If we find that someone is making a lot of worthless posts which we have to delete and doing very little else, we may well decide that it's easier to terminate their account than to keep removing posts!
• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
That is the way it should be. Even after reading a discussion when I don't understand I write no idea rather than saying nothing
• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
@GoAskAlice I completely agree to what you say. I have been an active member here since many years and understand the need of the site and it's guidelines very clearly. But this post was only because of the changes which I felt lately and nothing against the site or its methodology. I apologise I said something wrong but this is very true that there are many users here who never revert back to the comments they get. No matter how relevant and well explained they are. Interacting with such people then turns out to fruitless. This is what I meant. And with time we all come to know which user is active and which isn't. I apologise again if I did something wrong.
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@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
14 Aug 20
I do not always have the time. I am not being stuck up. I have not forgotten you.
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
I know...you are the one who always reverts back for sure
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• Agra, India
16 Aug 20
@Spontaneo it was fine. How was yours.
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@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
15 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya How was your Saturday?
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• Sonora, California
14 Aug 20
I try to, but sometimes I fall behind...
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• Agra, India
14 Aug 20
I can understand. But you do revert back and that is the most important thing
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• Agra, India
14 Aug 20
@Michellekidwell ofcourse..no one has all the time in the world. I was talking about people who think their isn't anything like notifications
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• Sonora, California
14 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya Yes, I am getting better at it, but sometimes life can get busy, thankfully you all seem to understand that though...
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15 Aug 20
How are you now?
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
I'm good.what about you
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
@mynameiskate I did not understand
15 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya I'm okay. Of course have been better. Pulled things and spread dirt around in the rock garden.
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
14 Aug 20
I would prefer to clear my notifications first before I post a new discussion if I have.
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• Agra, India
15 Aug 20
@Nakitakona I can agree.
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• Agra, India
14 Aug 20
Yes..but sadly many people don't like doing this
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
14 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya Let's respect them for they've the preference on what to do. There are some myLot users who don't ever dare to reply back in their comments in their posts.
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