Good Afternoon

@just4him (305965)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
September 26, 2020 1:50pm CST
It's sunny and warm outside, and cold to the point of shivering inside. They keep the rooms cool and in order to turn up the heat they need to put in a work order. So I sit in my hoodie with a blanket wrapped around me. OT - Occupational Therapy was here this morning with arm strengthening exercises. My arms are pretty strong so I did a lot more reps of the exercises she had me do than she expected. I also need to do breathing exercises. This makes certain I don't get pneumonia while I'm here. And I need to put the ice machine on my knee to bring the swelling down. I do that in bed so I can have my knee higher than my heart with three pillows under my knee. I take a nap while I have the ice machine on my knee. I need to do that a couple of times a day. Which makes being here limited with all the sleep I'm getting. I found out the pain medication I'm taking causes drowsiness. I wondered why I was so tired when I got up when I normally do and an hour later I'm ready for a nap. It's the medication. I have one nurse upset with me. She said I'm being rude. I'm trying very hard not to be rude. She tried to put a bib on me, and I took it away. I uncovered my plate and told her I couldn't eat what they gave me. I couldn't. Yes, it was on my diet, but I don't have upper teeth and they gave me raw veggies: cauliflower and carrots. I couldn't chew those if I wanted to. So, it's been a trying day. I'm not trying to be rude, but it's coming out like that. I did apologize. The staff is limited. They really need more help. This facility has a whole floor unused because they don't have the staff. So, when I turn on my call light, yes, it takes time for a nurse to get to me. There are 18 beds on this floor. One of the nurses who came to help me is very nice and we got to talking. Now, I was in a nursing home five years ago. That nursing home closed down and the staff have gone to other nursing homes. The nurse I was talking to was from that nursing home. She told me a couple of other nurses from there are also here. She's going to send a text message to one of them and let her know I'm here. She was my favorite nurse when I was there. It will be so good to see her. Okay, the nurse who thought me rude surprised me. The gal from the kitchen just brought me my veggies, steamed so I could eat them. She's a good nurse, I only hope I can redeem myself in her eyes. I just redeemed myself. I apologized to her and she did the same. We're all good. And I'm crying. There are rude people in this world. I'm not one of them, or at least I try very hard not to be. I've been on the other end of that spectrum with people being mean and rude to me and I don't want to be that to anybody. Okay, that's my day so far. Let's see how much I can accomplish now before I need to put this away and do something else. How is your day going? Thanks for reading. The image belongs to me. I think I'll find a bay picture.
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
26 Sep 20
Imagine a work order being needed to turn the heating on, what a crazy world we live in, although I am sure someone somewhere will be able to justify it on either health and safety grounds, or financial ones. Glad that the arm exercises went well. That's good. Breathing exercises, yes, very important to keep good lung function. A lot of pain meds do cause a bit of drowsiness, but I don't mind that as I sleep a bit easier. People seem to play the rude card too much these days and seems to be if you state your case with reasonable rhetoric, you are being rude. I would have been rude if anyone had put a bib on me. I also would have been reluctant to apologise because how you were expected to eat what you were given is beyond me. Staff seems to be limited in Nursing Homes and Care Homes here also, but methinks it is aimed at cutting costs to the owners and increasing profits. It's all about the Money. Glad to hear that the veggies have been steamed and you can now eat them. That's good to hear, the Nurse took on board what you said. There are rude people in this world, I used to think that there was never a reason why someone should be rude, Not so sure these days. And as I said previously, you can be called rude just for telling the truth or not agreeing with someone. Our day has been ok. We had a late one last night so it was 2pm when we got out of bed. Had the Chicken for Dinner that we put in the Crockpot last night. Not done much else, it's quite cold outside. No plans for tonight. I've been sitting here responding to notifications and a few interesting posts. Hope the rest of your day is good.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 Sep 20
You did have a late night to get up at 2 PM. I hope the rest of your day is good and no unexpected problems arise. I don't understand why people need to be rude. It always makes me feel uneasy around rude people. It's sad it's all about the money when it comes to getting good healthcare.
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
26 Sep 20
So true about owners. Assisted living is worse as if a family has the money but their family member really should be in a nursing home they will take them and charge the family extra though it makes it hard on the staff especially with the extra lifting.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
@Elizaby My parents were well-cared for in an assisted living home. Yes, it is expensive to live in assisted living.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
26 Sep 20
So glad that you and the nurse are on better terms now,
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 Sep 20
Thank you. I am too. It makes life easier.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Sep 20
Oh Valerie, I must have been away for a while, did you have surgery on your knee? I can't imagine you ever being rude to anyone and I am glad that nurse got you steamed veggies. That should be on your menu board that you have to have soft food to chew, I hope she added it. You recover quickly and Im glad you will have some nice nurses there for you to chat with.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
Yes, I had the first of two knee replacement surgeries. I'm in rehab. Things are good between the nurse and me now, which is good.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
27 Sep 20
@just4him Thats good, I hope your knee will recover quickly for you. When will they do the other knee then?
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
@cintol The other knee is November 2. Six weeks from the first.
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
26 Sep 20
Day is going good here. How many staff members (aides and nurse) are on your floor. I worked as a CNA both in nursing homes and assisted Living facilities and we were always short staffed (and in some assisted living they expect the aides to do the housekeeping and laundry too along with being responsible for 12 to 15 residents with varying levels of care need)
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
I'm going to say about four CNAs and one nurse per shift. There are 18 beds on this floor. They generally work 10-12 hour shifts.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
@Elizaby That's a lot of residents to care for in one day. I'm seeing three today.
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
27 Sep 20
@just4him Three or 4 CNAs here would be considered overstaffed even on day shift. Here you were lucky as an aide on day shift if you had only 10 residents assigned to you. Often when I worked in a nursing home on the 3 to 11 shift I would have as many as 20 residents (once we were so short I had 25).
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
26 Sep 20
I am sure it will all get worked out. Glad they are helping you. Love the photo.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 Sep 20
Yes, it's getting worked out. I'm glad they are too. Thank you. I'm glad you like the photo. That tree bent over the water like that intrigued me.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
26 Sep 20
@just4him The tree makes the photo.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 Sep 20
@CarolDM Thank you.
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• Mexico
26 Sep 20
Hello! I'm glad that at the end you could both apologize, I hope she understands that you weren't tried to be rude or anything, maybe they could have known that you can't bite on hard foods, but at least they know that now. I woke up a bit late today and I'm just starting to work for the day, I'm drawing a few pumpkin stickers for the season, hope you have an excellent rest of the day :D
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 Sep 20
Thank you. I'm glad too.
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@popciclecold (35085)
• United States
26 Sep 20
I'll be happy when you go home.
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• United States
26 Sep 20
@just4him Well, I'll be glad when all of it is over.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
@popciclecold Thank you. Yes, so will I. I've got a ways to go. My next surgery is November 2nd and then more therapy in the nursing home.
@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 Sep 20
So, will I and I can take care of myself for a couple of weeks before this starts all over again with the other leg. At least I know what to expect. I'm also going to request this facility again. We know each other.
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@snowy22315 (169883)
• United States
27 Sep 20
They should ahve ralized you couldn't eat raw veggies. Glad you two made up though.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
Unless I tell them, they're not going to know. It was okay. Yes, it's good we did. She's working today.
@LadyDuck (457918)
• Switzerland
27 Sep 20
I am glad that the nurse understood your point and you both apologized, now there is no more reason to feel down. She could not understand why you could not eat, now she knows.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
Yes, she does.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48908)
• United States
27 Sep 20
I’m sure it wasn’t you Valerie The nurse is probably having a difficult time if they are short staffed.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
It's all settled now. Now when she sees me there's a smile on her face under the mask.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48908)
• United States
27 Sep 20
@just4him awesome , I know that makes you happy.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
@Tampa_girl7 Yes, it does.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
27 Sep 20
Good afternoon. I'm glad that everything is good and settled between you and the other nurse. I'm happy to hear also that you will meet your favorite nurse again.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
28 Sep 20
@just4him that is great!
@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
Thank you. Yes, all is good. I'm hoping to see her tomorrow. It will be awesome!
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
27 Sep 20
You are not rude. Though, we can all seem like we are here and there. Even when we don't try to, unfortunately. Glad you both apologized and can move on from all that. And that you got food you can eat now
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
Thank you. Yes, all is good now.
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@Hannihar (129388)
• Israel
27 Sep 20
@just4him I am glad that you have a friendly face around to help you through this. It does not sound like a fun time and I bet you wish you were home where you could have heat on if you want. It is too bad that nurse did not understand you and thought what you did was rude. I am glad she did that for you and she does not know you. You are so sweet and kind that she has no right calling you rude. I hope you will not have to be there longer than the 10 days.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
It's all good between us now. I hope I won't be either. I want to finish healing at home before I have the next surgery.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
@Hannihar I'm sure I'll be doing the majority of my healing at home.
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@Hannihar (129388)
• Israel
27 Sep 20
@just4him I hope you can heal at home too. It must be very hard to heal if it is really cold there.
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• Surabaya, Indonesia
27 Sep 20
it’s good knowing there is sunny, in my place the rain drop from morning till 6 pm
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
I'm sorry it rained so long.
@jstory07 (134393)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 Sep 20
I never want to come off rude to anyone either. There was times I had to when I worked nights and someone came in to steal. I am glad you redeemed yourself and got steamed veggies.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 Sep 20
When someone is stealing something, you can't be miss nice, you need to lay down the law. I'm glad it worked out and I got the steamed veggies.
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@wolfgirl569 (95080)
• Marion, Ohio
27 Sep 20
Maybe you both were having a bad day. It can take time to teach them what you are used to for food also. Dont let it bother you. Just start new tomorrow.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
Yes, it's all good. I've already seen her this morning. Everything is good. I think she was smiling behind the mask.
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• Midland, Michigan
28 Sep 20
I temporarily forgot about your knee surgeries or surgery. I had that I've machine too. It really helped with the first one not didn't seem to with the second so much. I hope things go well with your healing, Valerie.
@dwstory (1276)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Sep 20
I do hope you can recover fast and go home soon. Take care of yourself.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
Thank you. That's what I'm hoping too.
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@ulinnuha (71)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 20
Just glad to hear that all are finally settled , and it seems you have a happy ending now.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
Yes, there was a good ending.
27 Sep 20
Hi from India, it's warm here and sharing the pic. Its lovely.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 20
Welcome to myLot. I'm glad you like the pic.