Day is not good

@ZedSmart (19839)
Philippines
November 9, 2020 5:54am CST
I woke very late today and I took breakfast and lunch simultaneously. I have some issues at home with my niece and I voice out what it's all about to her. Better to say it all so that at least she will take time to think. I head to office in a not so good mood as well as with physical condition. Anyway, I can manage. At office, some of the people made me upset. Goodness! How can I handle this? It seems that I have no place to go. OK, I need to calm down. I don't want to end as pathetic loser.
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@jdbces (1843)
• Philippines
9 Nov 20
Not a nice day,. Sorry to hear that but I hope you and your niece could sort things out soon.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
9 Nov 20
I was just reminding/lecturing/teaching or what it means to her. Thank you.
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@jdbces (1843)
• Philippines
10 Nov 20
@ZedSmart I hope that she'll soon realize that you did that for her sake.
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@rsa101 (40987)
• Philippines
9 Nov 20
I guess its time for you to pause. Take a deep breath in and out for several minutes to clear your mind out. Sometimes it is all about domino effect when you start with something negative it may escalate to everything around you because you have set it in your mind what mood you’re in. After every situation before proceeding to your next activity, always pause, meditate and let it all out before you proceed to your next activity.
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@rsa101 (40987)
• Philippines
10 Nov 20
@ZedSmart They call it the mindful exercise or meditation. It is best that you do it with less distractions around especially when you are doing it for the first time. But many can do it in any situation. Just don’t do it while driving or walking on the streets of course.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
9 Nov 20
This maybe helpful. Thank you. I try to calm down because it's always me who will take the negative effect if I do not. Tsk!
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@GardenGerty (169490)
• United States
9 Nov 20
I hope coming here helps you calm down.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
9 Nov 20
I'm OK now and I should be. Yes, it helps me. Thank you.
@ARIES1973 (11944)
• Legaspi, Philippines
9 Nov 20
Perhaps you need someone that you could talk to about certain issues. A friend maybe. If I feel upset, driving to the boulevard and watching the lights along the shoreline makes me feel calm and relax. I hope you're okay.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
9 Nov 20
I shall be fine. I've gone through difficult situation more than this and I'll try not to be defeated. Thank you.
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• Philippines
9 Nov 20
I would just go to sleep after a confrontation like that or i would have a bp problem.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
9 Nov 20
For sure it raise up my blood pressure. If I do not calm, I'll be first to be knock down.
@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
9 Nov 20
It's Monday! I hope your day will improve.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
9 Nov 20
Thank you. I shall be fine. I'll do what would be the best for me.
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@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
10 Nov 20
@ZedSmart Take care.
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