It is not easy to move on

@Janet357 (75656)
December 10, 2020 1:58am CST
Excuse me for being emotional today though I know you don't like it but last night when I opened a bottle of baby powder I bought for my baby, I got emotional. My husband saw me cry and he said that there was nothing we could do. And since last night, I have been sad. Only mothers who have lost their kids or babies can truly understand me. It is hard or shall I say, we can never forget the loss of our flesh and blood, can we? It's been a month now.... I miss him or her so much!
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15 responses
Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Dec 20
I am sorry to know your loss. I can understand the pain and I know it won't fade out easily. Praying to get you enough strength to face the situation.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
11 Dec 20
@arunima25 Yes dear, I was not here for so long time. In between the Covid and lock down also happened.
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Arunima Singh
@arunima25 (85887)
• Bangalore, India
10 Dec 20
Good to see you here. It has been ages that I saw you here.
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Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
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10 Dec 20
That's what I do. Because no matter how happy you are sometimes there are things that will remind you of your lost child.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
10 Dec 20
I am so sorry, I can imagine how hard it is for you. Do you plan to try again to have a baby soon?
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Anna
@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
10 Dec 20
@Janet357 You must rest your body for another couple of weeks, than you can see an OB.
Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
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10 Dec 20
we have a plan but I don't know if I can have again one. I just pray a lot. I might visit an ob next month. This month is the month for me to rest my body.
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Kayla Tsukino
@kaylachan (58939)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 Dec 20
Sorry to hear about your loss. You're right. I can't fully understand your pain, but I do understand the pain of loss. Moving on isn't always easy. Especially so soon after enduring the loss. Grief takes time and different forms. All you can do is move forward at your pace and take the good with the bad.
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Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
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10 Dec 20
thank you. My friend told me when she had a miscarriage, it took her a year to move on. I don't know mine.
Judy Story
@jstory07 (135135)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Dec 20
That had to have been a very sad thing for you to go through. Sorry for your loss. I loss a baby girls twenty years ago. I miscarried her. The only girl that I would have given birth to. It is something you never forget.
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Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
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10 Dec 20
Was she your last baby supposed to be? You are right, especially if it is your first baby, very hard to.move on.
rakski
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
10 Dec 20
I am truly for sorry for the loss. Time heal all wounds.
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rakski
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
10 Dec 20
@Janet357 welcome!
Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
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10 Dec 20
thank you.
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Arunima Singh
@arunima25 (85887)
• Bangalore, India
10 Dec 20
I don't have words to console you. I have been through pains and joys of motherhood. The thought of loss of child sends a chill through my nerve. I have not been through what you have been through and even imagining about that scares me. I will pray to God to give you strength
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Arunima Singh
@arunima25 (85887)
• Bangalore, India
13 Dec 20
@Janet357 Take care
Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
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10 Dec 20
thank you. You are so kind to say that.
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Notlilie
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 20
True, only someone who's in this situation can understand
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Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
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10 Dec 20
before, I never understood motherhood. But such made me understand everything.
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (86976)
• United States
10 Dec 20
I am so sorry I did not knowThe comfort of the Lord be with you.
MARILYN
@Marilynda1225 (80172)
• United States
10 Dec 20
The grief will lessen as time goes on but you'll never forget. I pray that you heal and that you might have another baby.
Thelma
@thelme55 (76489)
• Germany
10 Dec 20
I am sorry. It is indeed hard to move on. Take care.
Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (129674)
• Israel
10 Dec 20
@Janet357 You are very right those that lost babies can understand how you feel. I had a miscarriage when I was married 7 1/2 to 10 weeks into my pregnancy and my ex that was my husband at the time blamed me for it. I can understand how hard it is for you.
Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
10 Dec 20
Hugs. It's heartbreaking.
Kath
@Kathze (2097)
• Philippines
10 Dec 20
That is really hard dear. I got miscarriage in my first baby and I feel the same. Keep on praying and be strong. God has better plans.
Katongo chiwala
@kay990 (373)
• Zambia
10 Dec 20
Such pain can only be understood by the person going through it .am sorry loss for your loss
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Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
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10 Dec 20
Yes. Thank you. I hope God will give me a chance to be a mom again.
Teti ariani
@Cheyee (8362)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
10 Dec 20
Of course we can't forget it. But the pain will less eventually, you just need time. I am sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how you feel.