The dead cannot rest in the grave
December 16, 2020 12:58pm CST
Good day friends I wasn’t active because I had horrible days. My grandmother (my father's mother) died 20 years ago. I loved her very much because she was a beautiful woman. She had a very difficult life and she always said she didn't want a stone (slab) on her grave and when she died my father planted a rose. My father has two more sisters and a brother who died 6 months ago (I wrote about him earlier, he died of cancer), and he is buried in the part of that grave where my grandmother is. His wife (my father's daughter-in-law) is the devil, someone who destroyed my family all my life, tormented my grandmother, and I always hated her for that. And that daughter-in-law got some money from the sale of some land and decided to put plaques on the grave of her husband and my grandmother and I say I will break it if she does and everyone (my father, my aunts) says she must not put on that grave. To cut a long story short, she did it and it was a blow to me. My father went to her and told her to remove that plaque from his mother's grave, she didn't do it and my father removed it. That was a few days ago, until last night her daughters burst into my house and shouted and insulted my father so much. Unfortunately, my father was drunk and didn't say anything, I went crazy, but I kept quiet, because I thought he had to say something. My father bought them two clothes, sweets, bathed them when they were little, they were the first in the village to have water, a bathroom, bought a machine, introduced three-phase electricity, built a house and waited for them to insult him. Sadness. After 20 minutes, the police came to the door after a report from one of my sisters. The policemen were very nice, and they advised my father to sue them, because they will get it in court, because it is his mother's grave. None of us could sleep the night before, it was stress and unfortunately the blood ties were destroyed, because of the evil woman. Sorry for the long post. Do you have a good relationship with your relatives?
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No, it will never be the same, they live literally next to us only 10 meters away, but they wanted this. I just want my father to sue them and go to court to make a decision that they can't do against the will of my grandmother's children.
@JudyEv Yes, that's awful. My father would never do something like that, even when the policeman gave him advice and told him how to solve it, he immediately denied it, but the policeman convinced him, because he also understood that it was the only solution.
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
I see. So this is the situation that put you under stress. I am really sorry that you experience this. But sometimes we meet people like that. My family doesn't have good relationship with my brother. He is kind of trouble maker. We tired of his BS. His wife is also no better, the witch! I seriously hope they both will rotten in hell. They hurt my parent's feelings.
• United Kingdom
Surely it is your fathers and his sisters decision and not up to her to go against your grandmothers wishes. This is one reason that a will should always stipulate your wishes and woe betide anyone who tries to over turn it. Sorry you are having such a sad time l imagine her intentions are good but there are ways of going about doing such things. I agree she is in the wrong!
In the past, the word was respected and it was not necessary to make a will, people passed those words from generation to generation. But now the time has come when a word means nothing and when everything has to be on paper. That woman is evil, she has been trying to destroy the family for decades, but with this she has now succeeded.