Proud of My Color

Fair skin, Tan, sunkissed
@iamfemme (120)
December 31, 2020 5:44am CST
I am Asian, got a darker skin tone compared to others. Most of my relatives ,even my kids, believe that I desire to have a fairer skin. I really don't. I can't imagine any skin tone I'd rather be blessed with than what I have. Why would I wish to be different? Do you somehow wish you have a different skin tone than what you have? Thanks. ??
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@Hytton03 (5454)
• Philippines
31 Dec 20
Oh that's a good skin tone
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
Hello @Hytton03, thank you. That's sunkissed . I work in the garden too often lately that I got my skin scorched, I guess. ??
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@Hytton03 (5454)
• Philippines
31 Dec 20
@iamfemme that's a perfect sun kissed
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@Hytton03 yup, and I love it too.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
31 Dec 20
One should be proud of what he has got, looks, skin colour, intelligence and everything. No point in cramming for something you can't change. You are right in believing so.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
1 Jan 21
@iamfemme Thank you and happy new year to you.
@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@msdivkar,hello there. That is very well said and indeed so true . We should be grateful for every bit that we have. We were given certain traits ,characters,talents etc because those are the things that make is who we are, uniquely created ,the one and only . Thank you so much for the response. Enjoy the new year. ??
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@sarik1 (6783)
31 Dec 20
No, good skin tone.
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@sarik1 (6783)
31 Dec 20
@iamfemme Happy new year.
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@iamfemme (120)
1 Jan 21
@sarik1 have a fruitful year ahead, my dear.
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@sarik1, I have to agree with you on that even if I haven't seen you yet. Happy new year and thank you for responding.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
31 Dec 20
Beautiful lady. To bad you already get married. :)
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
1 Jan 21
@iamfemme True, but I already have enough female friends. ;)
@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@mrki444,thank you. Yes,I am married but that doesn't mean I can no longer have male friends,can't I? Thank you for responding and happy new year!
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
31 Dec 20
I cannot imagine why anyone would believe someone wants to look different without simply encouraging people to be themselves. I don't see anything at all wrong with your skin color.
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@iamfemme (120)
1 Jan 21
@porwest oh, I have heard that a lot of times from my non Asian friends,they also find darker tones exotic and attractive. But I must say that I do agree that beauty should be viewed deeper beyond the epidermis. A skin tone is just a skin tone and has no bearing of what we are and who we are. What's more important is how we treat our co inhabitants in this world with kindness ,love and respect.
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@porwest, it must be with that idea that fair skinned is more beautiful to look at. Blame it to the movies and romantic novels and the fashion magazines,too. where theodels/actors/heroines are mostly "white " of not all. Thank you for responding and happy new year. .
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
31 Dec 20
@iamfemme I actually find darker tones on women to be quite attractive and exotic. But I think all women are beautiful. All shapes, sizes, skin tones. Beauty is so much more than what's on the outside anyway.
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• India
31 Dec 20
I think I have seen you somewhere. Maybe on the cover of Vogue Magazine
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@Butterfingers, I'll take that as a compliment . Thank you.
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@Butterfingers and to you ,too,my dear.
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• India
31 Dec 20
@iamfemme haha happy new year
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@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
31 Dec 20
I am fine with my skin tone as a Filipino.
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@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
2 Jan 21
@iamfemme Happy New Year, too. I think having a skin tone of golden brown is fine.
@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@Shavkat Manigong bagong taon! I love Moreno/Morena more than the tisays and tisoys. S
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
31 Dec 20
we have different unique qualities. Happy New Year!
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
1 Jan 21
@iamfemme welcome!!!
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@rakski, yup, i couldn't disagree with you on that. Happy new year,too! thank you
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@Namelesss (3368)
• United States
31 Dec 20
Love my skin color, would that everyone was more like you in liking what they were given by birth.
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@Nameless,I'm pretty sure there's more of you to love other than your skin colour. Thank you.
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@Namelesss (3368)
• United States
31 Dec 20
@iamfemme Exactly, so many things that make us interesting and lovable (or not). Skin color is hardly worth talking about.
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@Hannihar (129516)
• Israel
31 Dec 20
@iamfemme You skin tone is fine. I like mine too. You are welcome.
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@Hannihar (129516)
• Israel
31 Dec 20
@iamfemme You are welcome.
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@Hannihar, thank you . I am grateful for it. Happy new year.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
31 Dec 20
I am okay with my skin tone too.
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@Sojourn, that's wonderful to hear. We all should be proud of how we're created. It's a gift.
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@Janet357 (75656)
31 Dec 20
No. I love my color.
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@Simone, hello. What not to love ,my dear.
@rhuenz (10646)
31 Dec 20
I am proud too of my skin color,You have good one
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@rhuenz, ah, that's lovely to hear. Be confident of who and what you are,irregardless of the color of your skin. thank you. Happy new year.
@hidvcmbr (249)
• Malta
31 Dec 20
No, I'm also fine with my own skin tone.
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@iamfemme (120)
31 Dec 20
@hidvcmbr, wonderful. Thank you and happy new year.
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@hidvcmbr (249)
• Malta
1 Jan 21
@iamfemme Happy new year :)
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@psanasangma (5884)
• India
1 Jan 21
I somehow seem don't intend to get the different skin tone during my younger days. What I regret is trying commercial cream because of my scars and marks, acne on my skins.
@Shiva49 (26215)
• Singapore
31 Dec 20
I am Asian too and am always comfortable in my skin. I have worked in a few countries and met people of all shades. What matters is who we are and that those who matter are smart enough to understand us. Only the shallow people are superficial,