Thinking if I can Marry a man that can accept for who I am.

January 6, 2021 6:54am CST
Does loving each other is enough to marry the one you love? How about the understanding and trust? What if, you don't trust him? But he's only the one who make you feel special, but sometimes, he cannot accept my attitude. I mean all of us is not perfect and all of us, have different bad sides.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
6 Jan 21
I don't understand your attitude. Maybe you're mixing love with infatuation. Infatuation may seem like love, but it is superficial. Love means accepting the partner as he or she is including flaws and shortcomings.
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@Janet357 (75656)
6 Jan 21
if you don't trust him, then why marry him? Marriage is a sacred commitment.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
6 Jan 21
I don´t think you can love a man whom you don´t trust. Loving someone is loving all of him or her with all his or her bad and good attitude. No one is perfect.
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@lazydaizee (6739)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 21
Maybe you both need to sort out what you really want before you decide to get married.
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@J3n4rA (264)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 21
Nobody perfect, hope you will find a right guy soon
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@simsnair (52)
6 Jan 21
You need to ask yourself what are the things stopping yourself from trusting him. Discuss these things with your partner. Trust is the ground work of a relationship. Without it, even deepest bonds break.
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• India
6 Jan 21
Trust and respect both are important.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
6 Jan 21
how long have you known each other?
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7 Jan 21
Almost 2 years
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@LadyDuck (458192)
• Switzerland
9 Jan 21
I fully agree with what Maluse wrote. Love is understand each other and accepting the partner for what she/he is. There is no love if there is not acceptance.
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• Phoenix, Arizona
7 Jan 21
I made the mistake of marrying someone I didn't trust. It ended with him playing games and making me feel like a horrible person. No one is perfect, but you need to be with someone you can trust, otherwise you will always question it.
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@Fa_Maverick (9458)
• Australia
8 Jan 21
If you don't trust them DO NOT MARRY THEM. Honestly if you have been together for 2 years and don't trust them DON'T commit to them.
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@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
6 Jan 21
I would consider moving away from him..
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• Vijayawada, India
9 Jan 21
First you both have to accept each other what you are Know well and move forward Time unleashes the covered layers of personality. Please be patient
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@MmaiLuv (958)
• Indonesia
8 Jan 21
Married is important thing,you must choose the right person,and married with men you trust
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@pumpkinjam (8540)
• United Kingdom
10 Jan 21
Nobody is ever perfect but there are things we must choose to accept or not. Lack of trust is very bad for any relationship. You can accept a person and their flaws, you can help them to overcome any faults that could be an issue in the relationship. If you don't trust someone, though, it doesn't matter how much you love them or how they make you feel. The only way to get around that is to work out why you don't trust him and decide whether the reason is something that can be changed. As for accepting your attitude, that really depends on what you mean by it. If, for example, it is your personality to be outgoing and he doesn't accept that then he is not accepting you for who you are. It is, however, quite different if your attitude is one that affects him.
@rhuenz (10646)
6 Jan 21
How old are you?
• Israel
10 Jan 21
No, this is a pipe dream. I have been married for over 25 years and it hasn't happened yet. So I wouldn't expect it. Ask yourself if you really want to be with this person? Do you like his character? Can you have a good conversation with him? Do you want to raise his children who might turn out like him? If you don't trust him, then just stay friends and go out once in a while to have fun.