SHORT SUNDAY OUTING
@amitkokiladitya (171936)
Agra, India
January 9, 2021 11:50pm CST
We are going out for a family outing today. WE have decided to go Fathepur Sikri which is a famous monument in my city. My husband's sister has been insisting hard for a few days. But i did not feel like because I'm still depressed because of my grandmother's demise.
I agreed only for my husband's sake. And now I'm trying me best to divert my mind and stay happy.
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@Michellekidwell (29259)
• Sonora, California
10 Jan 21
Sorry for your loss, grief is a process! I’ll be praying for you!
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
10 Jan 21
That is really so good of you. I haven't been completely happy since she left us
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
@Michellekidwell yeah....thanks for understanding me
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@Michellekidwell (29259)
• Sonora, California
10 Jan 21
@amitkokiladitya I felt the same way after I lost my Nonna (Grandmother), take all the time you need to heal!
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@MommyOfEli2013 (82181)
• Rupert, Idaho
10 Jan 21
I am sorry about your loss. I hope you have a good outing, even though youu only agreed for his sake.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
It was ok type of outing. Actually I did not enjoy it much
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
@MommyOfEli2013 Yeah...actually we were accompanied by some people whom I don't like much
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@MommyOfEli2013 (82181)
• Rupert, Idaho
15 Jan 21
@amitkokiladitya I am sorry to hear that you didn't enjoy it much
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@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
17 Jan 21
@amitkokiladitya That’s true. Nothing is guaranteed a smooth life in here. We have to face this kinds of events in our lives. But this shouldn’t stop you from being happy with life. Maybe you allow yourself to grieve but don’t stay in that space for a long time.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
I completely understand your point. But sometimes things aren't under any control
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
18 Jan 21
@rsa101 that is so well said. I will definitely try my best to do.so
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@LadyDuck (459635)
• Switzerland
15 Jan 21
@amitkokiladitya This is true, your family needs you.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
18 Jan 21
@LadyDuck yes..and it is all for and about the family only
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
I understand that is important for my whole family
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
18 Jan 21
@rakski good afternoon. How are you?
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
But sometimes the mind is really so hard to control
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
11 Jan 21
@amitkokiladitya I feel the same these days and I completely understand you, but you also understand them, they wish you well, maybe because of you they want you to go on a outing to think about other things
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
I'm sad to know that you are sailing in the same boat. Did you also lose any of your near and dear one
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
18 Jan 21
@LowRiderX i can understand your pain. I agree that definitely it is never easy to do so
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
15 Jan 21
@amitkokiladitya Yes, I lost my father to whom I was very attached, I am still learning how to live with it, it is very difficult
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@allknowing (130195)
• India
11 Jan 21
Sometimes it is necessary that we please our better half at the cost of our own happiness
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
This is such a true practical statement
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@kaylachan (58395)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 Jan 21
I am sorry you lost your grandmother, but your family are right. While grief is a process, you need to get moving. A bit of fresh air will do your body good, even if you're not feeling happy. No one should force you to be happy. But, don't let yourself waste away, either. Part of healing is making sure to take care of yourself. If that means getting up taking a shower and going for a walk, then that's what you should do.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
10 Jan 21
Thanks a lot for the kind words. They matter a lot to me
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@kaylachan (58395)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 Jan 21
@amitkokiladitya Not a problem. I am happy to help in any way I can.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
Thanks....It was actually needed or not..I still can't figure out
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@MarshaMusselman (38663)
• Midland, Michigan
16 Jan 21
Sorry you lost your grandmother and that you need to go be happy for others while you're still grieving. I hope it wasn't too bad.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
18 Jan 21
Yeah..not too bad is the word for it for sure
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
I understand that is all because of the virus
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
I don't know whether going out helps me in any case or out. I keep remembering her every now and then
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
18 Jan 21
@ZedSmart yes...time is definitely the best healer.
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
15 Jan 21
@amitkokiladitya you will be healed in due time.
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
10 Jan 21
My sincere condolence to you for the loss of your grandma.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
It was just ok....nothing great
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@xFiacre (12637)
• Ireland
10 Jan 21
@amitkokiladitya it’s hard trying to enjoy things for other people’s sake when you are sad. Fathepur Sikri is a lovely place for a walk so long as there aren’t too many people there.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
Yes, it was ok..neither good nor bad
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@sathviksouvik (18010)
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15 Apr 21
Let her soul rest in peace. It is good you went to see Fatehpur Sikri.
@freelancermariagrace (27237)
• Philippines
10 Jan 21
I am so sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace.
@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jan 21
She was a kind lady and I'm sure she is now relaxing in heaven
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