Just Plain Good Car Manners!

@DianneN (254926)
United States
March 13, 2021 11:48am CST
I never have to say a word to my husband. It’s instilled in him. I snapped this photo just as he pulled out of the garage. I came out of our front door. As soon as he saw me, he put the car in park, heaved himself out of the low-slung seat, opened the door for me, and waited until I was settled before closing the door. He always opens and closes car doors for me. I appreciate a gentleman. We have to put more miles on the car to pass the emissions test we were told. . What better way than to spend time going for rides in the country on a sunny day sharing laughs. Hubs is not only a gentleman, but witty and hilarious as well. And now we are home!
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
13 Mar 21
Glad you enjoyed your ride. My man was thinking about going out for a ride today also the sun is out today
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
It’s cooler out than yesterday, so we kept the top up. I hope you get to go for a ride. It’s gorgeous out!
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
13 Mar 21
@DianneN I hope so I am getting sick of being stuck inside
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
13 Mar 21
He is a real gentleman. On a lighter note, we have a joke here around the situation. If a man opens the door of his car for his wife after few years of marriage,either the wife is too beautiful or the car is newIf a woman laughs at her husband's joke after few years of marriage, either the husband is really good or the joke is really good You are beautiful and he has a great sense of humor Enjoy your ride
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@Fleura (35055)
• United Kingdom
13 Mar 21
@arunima25 I thought you were going to say 'either the joke is really good or the husband is new' lol
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
The car and I are both getting older, but my hubs has always been a gentleman and hilarious. Thank you. Cool joke you have. I’m going to tell that to my best friend. She’d love it!
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
14 Mar 21
@Fleura That might be the caseBut all husbands are good when they are new
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@ptrikha_2 (49766)
• India
13 Mar 21
Having a good ride on a sunny day (not too hot) is great. Here I now need to start up the AC if riding during the day time. In short, summers have started here. The Spring effect is there only during early mornings and late evenings.
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@ptrikha_2 (49766)
• India
13 Mar 21
@DianneN AC running constantly. So is some caretaker living inside that place?
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@ptrikha_2 (49766)
• India
14 Mar 21
@DianneN Oh ok.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
That’s how the weather is for us when in Florida. Our a/c runs constantly. Our batteries in the thermostat were just changed by the man who takes care of our place.
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@Fleura (35055)
• United Kingdom
13 Mar 21
Gosh he really does go out of his way! I would find that odd, to be quite honest, but as long as he knows how to please you that's what matters : )
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@Fleura (35055)
• United Kingdom
13 Mar 21
@DianneN If I was following another person into a store, for example, I would expect them to hold the door open for me, and if they let it slam in my face I would consider it rude. If another person was following me I would hold the door for them, no matter whether they were a man or woman, old or young, a stranger or a friend. But I wouldn't expect any man (or anyone else) to rush over and open any doors for me for no reason.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
@Fleura I expect and do the same. This isn't any man. This is my husband. Only he would do that when he saw me coming. I've opened the car door myself plenty of times, but he closes it for me. I can certainly do it myself as have done most of my life, but it's just a caring, special part of him that I love.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
Really? I find it odd that most men don't do this anymore. My boys are gentlemen, too, for the most part. The only thing hubs does not do is stand when I enter the room.. Secretly, I wish he did.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Mar 21
We have low mileage on our car as well. Enjoy the rest of the day.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
Our sports car isn’t driven enough to have the required number of miles between emission tests.
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@ptrikha_2 (49766)
• India
13 Mar 21
@DianneN You should take out the car at least once a week to take care of batteries. Else cars can give problems.
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@ptrikha_2 (49766)
• India
14 Mar 21
@DianneN Oh that is a limitation. Would it be ready to be driven in snow with chains?
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
13 Mar 21
You know I envy you for such a gentleman.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
And he doesn’t refer to me as a little old lady as JJ does.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
@Nevena83 I have one already.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
13 Mar 21
@DianneN I need to find an old gentleman.
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@GardenGerty (169489)
• United States
13 Mar 21
What a nice time for both of you. Great reason for extra rides.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
I agree. Thanks.
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@snowy22315 (209009)
• United States
13 Mar 21
He is a gentleman for sure!
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@snowy22315 (209009)
• United States
14 Mar 21
@DianneN I think a!it of men do the baggage thing, but not opening the car door after so many years.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
Thanks! He even carries my luggage and laundry basket. The only thing he doesn’t do is stand up when I enter a room.
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@kaylachan (84823)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Mar 21
My husband knows that I like my independance. But, he will occassionally help me out from time to time.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
I’m very independent, but I like good manners in a person.
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@rebelann (117251)
• El Paso, Texas
13 Mar 21
How funny that you were told to put miles on a car to get an emissions test.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
It’s necessary. We didn’t drive it enough between tests for an accurate test result. Oh, well. Hopefully, once I get my second shot, I will use it more.
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• Midland, Michigan
13 Mar 21
So you passed the emissions test, that's great news. I forgot that was something done in CT.
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• Midland, Michigan
14 Mar 21
@DianneN that sounds like a weird sulfation but what do I know? We don't have those tests here.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
It did pass last week, but couldn’t be written up as passing due to the lack of miles between the two tests. They told hubs to drive it for a good hundred miles before getting the approval.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
13 Mar 21
Enjoy!
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
We did!
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
13 Mar 21
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
13 Mar 21
You had a nice ride in the country with hubs, a wonderful way to enjoy your afternoon:)
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
@kobesbuddy Thanks. It was. Had one since last week. Doing well now.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
Thanks. It was a way to keep my migraine at bay, too.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
13 Mar 21
@DianneN Oh Dianne, that's terrible to hear! A migraine headache is torture
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@LindaOHio (222527)
• United States
13 Mar 21
You are so, so lucky. My husband has turned into an old grumpus.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
An old grumpus can still use his manners.
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@LindaOHio (222527)
• United States
14 Mar 21
@DianneN He treats me well...he's just an old grumpus.
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@jstory07 (148743)
• Roseburg, Oregon
13 Mar 21
That is a really nice car that you have. A drive in that nice car sure would be fun.
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@jstory07 (148743)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Mar 21
@DianneN I do not think you will make it back to Florida this summer.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
14 Mar 21
@jstory07 We don't plan to go back to Florida until next December if everything is okay. The car stays in CT no matter what.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
Thanks! We bought it in Florida and shipped it home. It looks better with the top down. No good in the snow!!!
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@rakski (156496)
• Philippines
14 Mar 21
there are only a few of them left nowadays
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@rakski (156496)
• Philippines
14 Mar 21
@DianneN yes, so true
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
14 Mar 21
It's true and very sad.
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@xFiacre (14786)
• Ireland
13 Mar 21
@DianneN Manners maketh the man, or is it clothes. I can't remember. Probably both. No point being well-dressed if you have no manners.
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@xFiacre (14786)
• Ireland
13 Mar 21
@DianneN A true gentleman wouldn't tell! I do hold doors open for my wife and open the car door. I also pay all the bills.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
I agree. Many kids of today lack both. Are you a gentleman?
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
@xFiacre Nice to know another gentleman.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
14 Mar 21
@DianneN He is a real gentleman. I hope you had a good outing.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
14 Mar 21
Yes, he is and thank you. We had a wonderful day.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
15 Mar 21
@DianneN You are welcome and glad you had a wonderful day.
@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
14 Mar 21
nothing like a drive in the country side! makes the day feel special!
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
14 Mar 21
The beach is even better!
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
14 Mar 21
@DocAndersen I'd wait, too. Too soon right now to visit anyone.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
14 Mar 21
@DianneN we actually talked about going down to South Carolina and visiting some friends, but we are holding off until August
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• Kingston, Jamaica
13 Mar 21
Good to know you enjoy your ride my husband well my boyfriend is like that also yes
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
Thanks and I am so happy to know your boyfriend was raised with wonderful manners, too. Men like them are far and few between.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Mar 21
@Gracelipstick I wish you'd tell everyone!
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• Kingston, Jamaica
13 Mar 21
@DianneN let me tell u about it
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