Zen Story: The waffling Zen master talked in waffles, until he was told not to waffle.

The Zen master sharpened up his talking about truth rather than blunting himself through waffling
@innertalks (23745)
Australia
March 21, 2021 8:51pm CST
The Zen master, Groblek Gruskkin, loved to talk to groups of people about Zen, but he always talked for too long, and a lot of people left, before he had finished speaking. He would go on, and on, waffling along, with added anecdotes, and side excursions, to the subject matter of his main talk. One day, the old master was talking on the subject of, "Communicative exploratoriness." A fancy title indeed, but he always liked to pick such flowery sounding titles for his talks too. He said in his talk that when we talk to anyone, either one to one, or one to many, a certain type of conversational input comes alive from the connective thrust of the mind of the speaker, ad-libbing to the subject, if he does not control himself "I am guilty of this myself," the master told his audience, "but just recently, I had a new student reject me as a teacher for himself, because he told me Zen is more pointedly directed than a waffled waffler approach that scatters its gems into sand for others to find for themselves." "A true teacher will not waffle, but will direct his students to the spots in the sand where the treasures are buried, and so he will talk succinctly, and short, and let the student think about stuff through direct connections, rather than warbled intricatenessness." "Not many students have the courage to reject teachers like this, and I could see, or so I thought, at the time, that as I was already old now, he thought, that I could probably not change my style of talking." "I now realise that this young student was already a Zen master. He is sent around the monasteries by his father, the renowned Zen master, Artlick Ripoche, to see how set in their ways, the Zen masters, in charge of some temples have become." "At least, I had enough Zen left in me to see this, and to try to change my ways, from here on in." Photo Credit: The photo used in this article was sourced from the free media site, pixabay.com The Zen master finally sharpened up his talking about truth, rather than blunting himself and his edification of truth, through waffling. He was no longer talked about as being, "The Zen Waffler".
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@RasmaSandra (98129)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Mar 21
Interesting I am not at all familiar with the term waffling,
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@innertalks (23745)
• Australia
22 Mar 21
I am guilty of it myself, and so was my father. We ramble on, around the sides of the topic, and take too long to get to the main point of our talking. We confuse, rather than explain. I am using the British meaning, which can be different to the American meaning of the word. Waffle: from the Oxford dictionary. "British meaning: to speak, or write, at length, in a vague, or trivial manner."
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
22 Mar 21
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@Shiva49 (28397)
• Singapore
22 Mar 21
@innertalks Beat about/around the bush, but is it also British?
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
22 Mar 21
i would argue that it truly is dependent on the student not the master. Some seek a master to guide them to the jewels in the sand. some just focus on distraction and wish instead to find the jewels themselves.
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@innertalks (23745)
• Australia
22 Mar 21
Yes, you would be right, if we assume that we all innately can recognize and know what a jewel is. On the other hand, we might not recognise a jewel as being a jewel, a diamond as a diamond, until we know how to cut and polish it too. A master can often show us how to bring the best out of ourselves, as he, or she, is already doing, and where we are just waffling around in our minds, without direction, or direct constant connecting to the inner diamonds that we might know are there, but would rather waffle about our having them, and how many we have, but never getting around to actually living from them too.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
23 Mar 21
@innertalks The jewel within versus the jewel in the hand. A friend of mine always says "To a farmer, a jewel is a seed that reproduces plants over and over without fail. To a fisherman, it is a hook that never fails to catch a fish. But to a dreamer, a jewel is time alone to dream!"
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
24 Mar 21
@innertalks One man's garbage is another man's treasure (although I should have said person to be PC). The reality is that yes, Jewels are variables.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
22 Mar 21
Never heard of waffling. I have heard of waffles though???
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
22 Mar 21
@innertalks You hit the nail on the head lol.
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@innertalks (23745)
• Australia
22 Mar 21
@stephcjh Yes, thanks. They look nice waffles.
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@innertalks (23745)
• Australia
22 Mar 21
A zen master would be happy to waffle these too.
It is hard to explain what a waffle is too, a quick treat, like a pancake...lol...I would have to waffle on more to explain what a waffle really is too.....but a picture says it all. Photo Credit: The photo used in this comment was sourced from the free media site, pixabay.com A zen master would be happy to waffle these waffles too.
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@Shiva49 (28397)
• Singapore
22 Mar 21
There is no age limit to sharpen our skills and stay relevant. Time is at a premium and even aspirant Zen masters have limited attention span! Wisdom comes in unexpected ways and the old master took the hint in the right spirit. He is one above ego and conceit to make the needed course correction.
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@innertalks (23745)
• Australia
22 Mar 21
Yes, but it can be harder for us to change, when we are older, and more set in our ways. Yes, this old Zen master was still made of all of the right stuff, and changed who he was, by receiving a little insight, like that. The great Zen master, who sent his son, knew that the old master would rise to the occasion, and that he was ready now to accept such advice, for the wisdom that it was. And yet, the old master still had to take it on board himself, overcome any hint of resisting pride, being told off by a young whippersnapper like that, and take it on the chin, and change, because, as you said, there is no age-limit to us making such changes to ourselves.
@Shiva49 (28397)
• Singapore
22 Mar 21
@innertalks Yes, most cannot bite the bullet of reality, swallow their pride, and turn a new leaf though their own is about to snap and obey the rules of gravity. A last and a final hurrah of humility will be remembered more than holding steadfast to what is a pain for others to endure despite being placed at a high pedestal. The parable: The Emperor Has No Clothes - comes to mind.
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@Shiva49 (28397)
• Singapore
22 Mar 21
@innertalks Yes, such still prevail to please the powerful at all costs for selfish reasons. On my part, I had resisted such tendencies.
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