A Good Excuse Is Hard to Do: Isn't It?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (141906)
Philippines
April 26, 2021 9:15pm CST
My ex keeps on sending messages on FB last night. I do not want to offend in all directions, so I just informed her that still teaching online. Luckily, she stopped nagging me 
and it was a good excuse for me, right? I am not sure how do you exit yourself to someone whom you are trying to ignore or get away from.
Do you find it not easy to give a good excuse?
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and it was a good excuse for me, right? I am not sure how do you exit yourself to someone whom you are trying to ignore or get away from.
Do you find it not easy to give a good excuse?
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11 responses
@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
27 Apr 21
I am quite straightforward, polite and firm. So if I don't want to talk or entertain someone, I will either put it clearly and politely or just ignore it. I know it's tough but I have learnt it now. I don't want to make excuses.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
28 Apr 21
@arunima25 It is tested and proven to be effective for insensitive people.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
27 Apr 21
@Shavkat You are right. Sometimes silence is more powerful and effective.
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@cherigucchi (15934)
• Philippines
27 Apr 21
So its her again, huh? I hope she got the hint. Or just stop replying or entertaining her
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@cherigucchi (15934)
• Philippines
27 Apr 21
@Shavkat But still you are bothered by it and you still respond...
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@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
27 Apr 21
I just don't reply to them when I'm done talking. They get the message without me having to give an excuse.
You know she wants your booty, right?
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
27 Apr 21
@DaddyEvil Oh, my. She wants all of me. I started to ignore her messages now. There is no need to have excuses.
I started to ignore her messages now. There is no need to have excuses.1 person likes this
@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
27 Apr 21
@Shavkat That's probably the best thing to do. It discourages without giving room for hurt feelings.
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@gamayngbaki (1601)
• Cebu, Philippines
27 Apr 21
Your "ex" is obviously still in love with you and can't get over you not loving her anymore. She can't move on that's why she still sends you messages and nags you like as if she is still your girlfriend. 
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@popciclecold (40215)
• United States
27 Apr 21
I would just ignore her. No excuse.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
27 Apr 21
I agree. It is best to ignore her. Besides, there is no need to be connected with her since she ended the relationship with me for finding a new love for a particular person before. Now, she is single and telling all the stories to me, which I am not interested in at all.
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@Robinhuut (457)
• Bogor, Indonesia
29 Apr 21
In fact, I was the opposite, I tried to hide, but the smile always followed
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