Why Does This Happen?
By Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
Mauritius
April 30, 2021 2:38pm CST
Sometimes you feel like you found the right person with whom you get along so well. They are the one whom you can trust and whenever they need help you are there. You always support them.
Then they selfishly leave. I am talking about today's friends. Specially online friends. Mostly just use you for their own advantage and when they got what they wanted they just leave. They start to ignore you and pretend to be normal while they are not.
It's almost impossible to find one good friend with whom you can share things without being judged. A friend who would support you morally when you are going through bad times. I remember crying so much just because I found out my friend lied to me saying her brother was going to pic her up after school just because she didn't want to walk back home with me.
Well to be honest the only best friend I got is my husband for the moment.
What about you have you ever experienced fake friendship?
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12 responses
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
30 Apr 21
I had three best friends in school. One of them was a trouble maker. She'd speak with the other girls, to shun and ignore me at times. Why? This wasn't fighting, it was meanness! Then, she would speak with me and one girl, to gang up on the other girl and ignore her
It was painful, when it was my turn
Why did she do this? I really don't know.
It was painful, when it was my turn Why did she do this? I really don't know.4 people like this
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
30 Apr 21
@popciclecold Diane had her reasons, I'm not sure what they were.
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@LotusEyes (2716)
• India
30 Apr 21
Husband can be your best friend. One who can understand you, can guide you, protect you.
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. Have a Wonderful Day
@popciclecold (35163)
• United States
30 Apr 21
I have s treasure also. It's so good to have.
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
30 Apr 21
Nothing wrong with your husband being your best friend.
In fact that's a good thing.
Isn't it?
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@Prabhatsingh (3537)
• India
30 Apr 21
Yes, many times.
But that doesn't stop me from making friends.
Friends are like family, some are there in your happy memories, some in your sad ones.
But they are there.
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@lollagirly (142)
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30 Apr 21
I relate to that so much, my best friend of 7 years abandoned me, and yes it's been years since then and I still can't get over it, it hurts so bad seeing her treating other people the way I wanted to be treated.
But hey, I joined university 2 years ago and found the best friend group ever, whom I can cry to without being judged so it still might happen you never know!
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@popciclecold (35163)
• United States
30 Apr 21
I am glad to know there is a group like that. They need more groups like this.
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@lollagirly (142)
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1 May 21
@BabeSays Thank you! I guess in a way it taught a lot and looking back I don't think I'd change a thing
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
30 Apr 21
Yes, I have... But that's okay. I look at it as they are the ones missing out on my friendship, not the other way around. It does hurt for a while but we get over the hurt and move on.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
1 May 21
@BabeSays You're welcome. Thinking about it that way does seem to help.
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@Kumukyawaliz (476)
• Kampala, Uganda
1 May 21
All of asudden, I was blocked one time by someone I called añ online friend
@Robinhuut (457)
• Bogor, Indonesia
1 May 21
My own experience is when someone is close to me, at that time in the business world where we both struggle to get customers. Behind his attitude which looked very sweet & kind to me, it turned out that he had given bad stories about myself to superiors as well as customers. So that I had to lose that important profession at that time, the main source of income for money was destroyed because of a fake friend.
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
8 May 21
@Robinhuut that'sokay. It's because you are sensible.
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
2 May 21
That's horrible. People can be very evil sometimes. But as a friend just said whenever you do good it'll come back to you in some way. The same goes for bad...whenever you do bad it'll get back to you in some ways or another. So sorry to hear about your bad experience.
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@Robinhuut (457)
• Bogor, Indonesia
2 May 21
@BabeSays Thank you I understand that but my heart is sometimes hard to forgive or accept
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
9 May 21
I know that feeking...I've been feeling this for a very long time.
