If you keep something long enough, it will come round again!

@Fleura (35007)
United Kingdom
June 23, 2021 5:03am CST
I have so many things that I inherited from my mother, that she inherited from her mother and never threw away. And because they have sentimental value and they have been kept for such a long time already, I find them hard to throw away too so they are still here! One of these is this leather bag. It originally belonged to my mother’s mother. It is the kind of thing she might have received as a gift I think - it has her initials embossed on the other side. It’s in pretty good condition but it hasn’t been used for the last 50-odd years; it was old-fashioned even when I was a child. Now it has reappeared from the back of a cupboard and my girls were playing with it. Then the other day I needed a bag to go to the shops (I wanted something big enough to hold a book, as I like to have something on hand to read if I have to wait anywhere!) and I didn’t have one handy. So as a last resort I grabbed this, popped in my book and off I went. And do you know what? Not one single person gave me a funny look or sneered at my old-fashioned bag. I felt quite comfortable using it, it has a certain vintage charm. For a long time (decades even) taking a bag to the shops was derided as something only old ladies did. It was definitely uncool and the thing to do was just to pick up a couple of plastic bags from the shops when you bought something. But now the pendulum has swung the other way and bags are ‘in’ again, and vintage is also ‘fashionable’ again too. I think I will use it more. Unless I find someone with the same initials as my grandmother who might like it! PS: Can you tell I am definitely not a devotee of Marie Condo? All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2021.
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@LadyDuck (502427)
• Italy
23 Jun 21
You are right. I am not a hoarder, but I do not like to throw things that are still good and pretty. Just like you I have my old shopping bags and I am glad I did not throw them. Even shoes and clothing come back in fashion after years. I am not at all a fan of Marie Condo either. I like a neat house, but a house must be an enjoyable living place, it's not a showroom.
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@LadyDuck (502427)
• Italy
23 Jun 21
@Fleura They should teach people to use what they have instead than telling them to "throw" what they are not using from xx months. Houses too "perfect" have no soul.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54715)
• United States
30 Jun 21
@LadyDuck We are like minded on this.
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
23 Jun 21
Indeed. Many people have undoubtedly bought too much 'stuff' and contributed to the overconsumption that has caused so many problems. But the answer is not to throw all that stuff away and just add to the moutain of waste! Use up the things you have instead! And I agree, some houses look as though no-one lives there, they are so empty.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Jun 21
I don't have a hand-me-down bag but I have a great number of other things that have been handed down. And I know how hard it is to get rid of them.
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
23 Jun 21
It certainly is. I have come to the conclusion that, if possible, the best option is simply to use them as they were intended. I have a lot of pretty pillowcases for example.
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 21
@JudyEv They were not made just to be hidden away in the back of cupboards!
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Jun 21
@Fleura I have started putting d'oyleys on the piano and sideboard again. It's a shame not to use them.
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@allknowing (153530)
• India
24 Jun 21
Fashions do get back and I have noticed it. I only hope however bell bottoms do not (lol)
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@allknowing (153530)
• India
24 Jun 21
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 21
I am with you on that - I really hated those!
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• China
23 Jun 21
The leather bag is a real antique ! It reminds you of your mother and your grandmother at the sight of it.
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 21
Yes I wonder how old it is? I'm guessing around 100 years old as it was already an antique when I was a child.
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• China
24 Jun 21
@Fleura You can make a rough estimate of when the leather bag was made,because it has your grandmother's initials embossed on it.Luckily the bag is handed down from generation to generation and in good condition !
@janethwayne (5191)
• Philippines
23 Jun 21
I have handed a gold earrings during college days and it was robbed when I ride a jeepney.
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 21
Oh no, how terrible!
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• Philippines
24 Jun 21
@Fleura Yes very traumatic
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
23 Jun 21
I love this bag and what a treasure for you. Happy you can use it and give it a new life with all of those memories.
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 21
Thank you! It does have a certain charm.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Jun 21
@Fleura I agree it really does.
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@prinzcy (32299)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 21
But it's not that bad. And it's a pretty cool bag.
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 21
Thanks!
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@prashu228 (37518)
• India
23 Jun 21
Old fashion always returns as new ..it's a good bag
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 21
It's funny how things go in cycles.
@Tampa_girl7 (54715)
• United States
30 Jun 21
I think it is lovely.
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 21
That's classic! I think vintage stuff are pretty cool, to be honest. In fact it's almost like a trend for many people to own them.
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 21
Thanks! Yes vintage things are quite trendy right now.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
23 Jun 21
It's a lovely bag. Thanks for sharing. Please use it and don't give away. Have a good day
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 21
Thank you. I don't know anyone else with those particular initials so I will have to keep it : )
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
24 Jun 21
@Fleura ok. Your welcome dear
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@miftha (1622)
• Bekasi, Indonesia
23 Jun 21
It's an antique, you must like it very much
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 21
I do rather like the design.
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