Do you look at people's eyes when speaking to them?

@pitstop (15551)

Australia

June 29, 2021 5:56am CST

I sometimes realise that I'm not looking at a person's eyes when speaking to them. I may be looking behind them or a little away from them. Some people find it tough to look constantly at a person's eyes when speaking. Where are you looking when you are speaking to a person?

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@Emasburinong (1085)

• Indonesia

29 Jun 21

i am just like you. sometimes i look into his eyes and sometimes i look the other way

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@pitstop (15551)

• Australia

29 Jun 21

I hope you don't turn around and talk with your back to him. ??

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@Emasburinong (1085)

• Indonesia

29 Jun 21

@pitstop if I do that, it's not polite at all.

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@rakski (156652)

• Philippines

29 Jun 21

I look into their eyes when I talk to them

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@pitstop (15551)

• Australia

29 Jun 21

That's good.

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@rakski (156652)

• Philippines

1 Jul 21

@pitstop it feel disrespectful if not

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@prinzcy (32299)

• Malaysia

29 Jun 21

Yes, I'm that type of person. I will look straight to the eyes. It's a habit.

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@pitstop (15551)

• Australia

29 Jun 21

Good habit to have

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@prashu228 (37518)

• India

29 Jun 21

Yes I do.. that's how it should be while speaking to others.. otherwise it shows we are not interested in the conversation

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@pitstop (15551)

• Australia

29 Jun 21

I agree.

@LadyDuck (502728)

• Italy

29 Jun 21

I look at people eyes, this is the way to do.

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@pitstop (15551)

• Australia

29 Jun 21

I'll be better at that from now.

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@LadyDuck (502728)

• Italy

29 Jun 21

@pitstop Some believe that if you avoid the eyes you are lying.

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@Butterfingers (66603)

• India

29 Jun 21

I do and it shows confidence

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@pitstop (15551)

• Australia

29 Jun 21

I usually do, but have noticed myself not doing that a few times. Should make it a habit.

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@Butterfingers (66603)

• India

29 Jun 21

@pitstop sometimes I do too but it's fine

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@sjvg1976 (42727)

• Delhi, India

29 Jun 21

This happens when I am not confident or telling false I usually don't see in the person's eyes while speaking.

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@sjvg1976 (42727)

• Delhi, India

29 Jun 21

@FaruMesh yes I am easily catched by the people.

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@FaruMesh (3517)

• India

29 Jun 21

You will be easily caught

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@pitstop (15551)

• Australia

29 Jun 21

That's a good point. People may think you're lying if you don't look at them

@JESSY3236 (22244)

• United States

29 Jun 21

Sometimes I do.

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@Rashnag (30597)

• Surat, India

29 Jun 21

I look into the eyes and talk dear. It shows confidence and positivity

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@pitstop (15551)

• Australia

29 Jun 21

I should learn to do that more.

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@miftha (1622)

• Bekasi, Indonesia

29 Jun 21

Yes. I usually look into the person's eyes

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@pitstop (15551)

• Australia

29 Jun 21

Looks like that is the best thing to do.